Bi double standard?

[MrSneakyinPA]

Face it. Guys are utterly turned on by 2 women together. I suspect that it rare for a woman to want to be with 2 men.....that are bi. I know some do enjoy threesomes, or so I've heard. But for us men, that are living with an unfulfilled bi fantasy, having our wife or g/f be part of it would be the ultimate fantasy fulfilment.

I think though, that women differ from men in this category. That they don't get anything from the bi guy thing.

So my question(s) might be. Do any women find anything arousing by being with, or knowing 2 men are enjoying each other sexually? And, why are men far more likely to want to see 2 women, than a woman is to want to see 2 men. Are we just...:more weird?

Being ..... Bi curious, I guess it is, is somewhat frustrating. Fantasys are a funny thing real

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

Guys AND women..... Plaase, Feel free to pm me with your experiences to encourage me.

 

[GirlChris]

The double standard lies in the fact that women are "not supposed to be as sexual as men". There are a lot of women who have this fantasy. Me and my female best friend are two of them. Both of us are bi and so our our boyfriends. We've talked about watching the two of them mess around before and the guys are open to it, just too shy to start anything on their own.

For me, I'd want to see my boyfriend sucking off my male best friend while I rub the male best friends shoulders and play with his nipples so I can have the same veiw of the male best friend and still enjoy being a part of things.

 

[monkeyman057]

I've known a couple of women that have had this as a fantasy. Indeed, a friend and I have 'performed' for one of them. They're out there but I think there's definately more of a stigma when it comes to two men being together that makes it more difficult for some women to vocalize this desire.

I suspect that many women are timid about expressing this because of fear of how their man will react. Some guys go a little over the top at even the slightest hint of a sexual encounter involving another man.

 

[JulieBethH]

Two in shape guys pleasuring each other is pretty damn sexy. In real life, I've had a few hot experiences where I was able to 'encourage' my guy to perform with another guy. It was always in the context of dressing my guy up femme, then he really wanted it. When not 'pantied', he never seemed interested.

 

[Goey]

Gay male couples are just too cute/adorable to be sexy - well to me anyway.

 

[eric60red]

Two in shape guys pleasuring each other is pretty damn sexy. In real life, I've had a few hot experiences where I was able to 'encourage' my guy to perform with another guy. It was always in the context of dressing my guy up femme, then he really wanted it. When not 'pantied', he never seemed interested.

Im not one for "dressing up", but I do like to suck a dick with another, and for mine to be licked and sucked by 2. Its erotic, and when mouths touch with a cock in the middle, I have known "victims" to cum. would you like to try it?

Oh and by the way you have a very nice bum

 

[HotHelen]

good point GirlChris on the societal perception of sexual drive between men and women. the other aspect is the male perception of masculinity and control. having two women perform for you puts you in a superior role.

likewise, there's a perception that two men enjoying each other puts them in the inferior, or feminine role.

personally, i would really enjoy messing around with two bi guys, all of us just concentrating on pleasing the others in one big sexual romp.

yes, the thought of a guy sucking another guy's cock arouses me, especially if I'm right there on my knees helping him!

 

[eric60red]

good point GirlChris on the societal perception of sexual drive between men and women. the other aspect is the male perception of masculinity and control. having two women perform for you puts you in a superior role.

likewise, there's a perception that two men enjoying each other puts them in the inferior, or feminine role.

personally, i would really enjoy messing around with two bi guys, all of us just concentrating on pleasing the others in one big sexual romp.

yes, the thought of a guy sucking another guy's cock arouses me, especially if I'm right there on my knees helping him!

Hmmmm Helen you have the right idea, I have done all what you say would you like to here more?

 

[SissyKatie]

I'm afraid I have little to offer on the subject of a double standard or things behind it, but would like to say I am all for girls who want to see men pleasuring other men becoming more vocal and active.

 

[DarkPleasures]

I suspect that it rare for a woman to want to be with 2 men.....that are bi.

If it's rare, then I guess I'm one in that rare bunch.

 

[SissyKatie]

likewise, there's a perception that two men enjoying each other puts them in the inferior, or feminine role.

This part is quite interesting to think about for me. I guess I come from the complete opposite approach to things. For far more than half my life I have had a desire to be in the feminine role, but only very recently (2 to 3 years) have I had thoughts about (or at least recognised them) sexual acts with men.

So it's a reversal of the side that is hard to accept or face up to.