Secret bi 'lesbians'

[DoctorMan]

(Note: I'm posting this in the Fetish section because I'm a straight man aroused by this - if you have an issue, please tell me where this thread would be more appropriate)

So we've all heard the saying 'all/most women are bisexual', and regardless of whether that's true or not (there's obviously a healthy number of bi men on here), it always refers to 'straight' women finding they appreciate a little pussy. But if it were (hypothetically) true, wouldn't that mean there are out-and-proud lesbians that enjoy some dick on the down-low?

Obviously, there are ways around that - if you want dick without the man, go to a trans woman (although again, you rarely hear about straight women who want pussy going to trans men), but for the sake of discussion, how often do you find that 'lesbians' are willing to get fucked by cis men? I'm not a neutral party, to be clear - I'm a cishet man who likes tomboys and quasi-butch women, mild sexism kink, and women who are so horny that they betray their principles. But I also am genuinely curious to hear from anybody who manages to navigate this in fantasy or life.

 

[DoctorMan]

I should also point out that this is not my first thread in this territory https://forum.literotica.com/threads/feminizing-tomboys.1590795/

 

[Suburbia]

This thread died am not sure why I saw it today but I did.

I have many lesbian friends and about 2/3 of them all have a male dick on the side. Their partner knows about it usually. Its just a particular person to scratch a particular itch from time to time.

 

[DoctorMan]

Right? And two-thirds (that you know about) is a hell of a percentage. How do they discuss it?

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

My wife was primarily lesbian - and presented and identified that way - for about 10 years from college until she met me. But secretly she always considered herself bi, and had a male high school friend who she'd hook up with every couple of years or so.

 

[redsnowbunny]

Hi,
I'll start prefacing that I am more bi-curious than bisexual.... This curiosity had me dig around for some information.
I read a scientific article some time ago that explains how the issue here is nowadays we're too fixated with labels and clear definitions.
Sexuality is more of a spectrum than a clear rank or neat classification of fixed preferences. Of course this makes it a bit more difficult to communicate the degree and variety of our natural inclinations , so we tend to pick a label that might be too stringent, but makes us feel safe and accepted in our own community.

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

Hi,
I'll start prefacing that I am more bi-curious than bisexual.... This curiosity had me dig around for some information.
I read a scientific article some time ago that explains how the issue here is nowadays we're too fixated with labels and clear definitions.
Sexuality is more of a spectrum than a clear rank or neat classification of fixed preferences. Of course this makes it a bit more difficult to communicate the degree and variety of our natural inclinations , so we tend to pick a label that might be too stringent, but makes us feel safe and accepted in our own community.

I'm a big believer in the Kinsey Scale, which posits that sexual orientation is on a spectrum. I'd put myself at a 2

 

[AlexBailey]

As a femme male I had relationships with lesbians for much of my 20s. My girlfriends were often more butch than I was. Some of them caught shit from other lesbian friends for being with me but a few joined us in our bed.

A couple of them were kind of gender fluid and liked checking out my body, wondering what it would be like to have a penis. I got BJs from two who said they’d never touched one before.

There were times while hanging out with our friends when I felt like a second class citizen, and like it was expected my girlfriend would keep me on a short leash. I always imagined it was a lot like how some women feel when they’re hanging out with a boyfriend and bunch of dudes.

 

[AlexBailey]

I should also point out that this is not my first thread in this territory https://forum.literotica.com/threads/feminizing-tomboys.1590795/

I read the linked post. Most of my interests have been the opposite - in bringing out the tomboy in girls I’ve known.

Most of my experiences were the opposite circumstance - with women who wanted to bring out the girl in me.

 

[Naughty_Natalie]

To address your question anecdotally, I have a friend that is a lesbian with a long term female partner that freely admits that she does sometimes crave dick.

My personal opinion/observation is that the vast majority of women are bi to some degree. They may not consider themselves to be bi but there are very, very few that won't admit at least some degree of attraction to females when they are in the company of their friends. I definitely identify as bi and consider myself 55-60% straight, 40-45% lesbian.

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

To address your question anecdotally, I have a friend that is a lesbian with a long term female partner that freely admits that she does sometimes crave dick.

My personal opinion/observation is that the vast majority of women are bi to some degree. They may not consider themselves to be bi but there are very, very few that won't admit at least some degree of attraction to females when they are in the company of their friends. I definitely identify as bi and consider myself 55-60% straight, 40-45% lesbian.

I’m gonna guess you’re probably about a 2 on the Kinsey Scale

 

[Naughty_Natalie]

I’m gonna guess you’re probably about a 2 on the Kinsey Scale

First time I've seen that. I'd say I'm about a 2.75.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

(Note: I'm posting this in the Fetish section because I'm a straight man aroused by this - if you have an issue, please tell me where this thread would be more appropriate)

So we've all heard the saying 'all/most women are bisexual', and regardless of whether that's true or not (there's obviously a healthy number of bi men on here), it always refers to 'straight' women finding they appreciate a little pussy. But if it were (hypothetically) true, wouldn't that mean there are out-and-proud lesbians that enjoy some dick on the down-low?

Obviously, there are ways around that - if you want dick without the man, go to a trans woman (although again, you rarely hear about straight women who want pussy going to trans men), but for the sake of discussion, how often do you find that 'lesbians' are willing to get fucked by cis men? I'm not a neutral party, to be clear - I'm a cishet man who likes tomboys and quasi-butch women, mild sexism kink, and women who are so horny that they betray their principles. But I also am genuinely curious to hear from anybody who manages to navigate this in fantasy or life.

Oh yeah!

 

[ShinyCrazyDi]

(Note: I'm posting this in the Fetish section because I'm a straight man aroused by this - if you have an issue, please tell me where this thread would be more appropriate)

So we've all heard the saying 'all/most women are bisexual', and regardless of whether that's true or not (there's obviously a healthy number of bi men on here), it always refers to 'straight' women finding they appreciate a little pussy. But if it were (hypothetically) true, wouldn't that mean there are out-and-proud lesbians that enjoy some dick on the down-low?

Obviously, there are ways around that - if you want dick without the man, go to a trans woman (although again, you rarely hear about straight women who want pussy going to trans men), but for the sake of discussion, how often do you find that 'lesbians' are willing to get fucked by cis men? I'm not a neutral party, to be clear - I'm a cishet man who likes tomboys and quasi-butch women, mild sexism kink, and women who are so horny that they betray their principles. But I also am genuinely curious to hear from anybody who manages to navigate this in fantasy or life.

I know a couple of 'gold star lesbians' (who've never had dick at all)

But most of the lesbians I've known (including one of my best friends) will occasionally seek cock.

I think the reasons are complicated but eh... too tired to go into it all.

I'm bi - but most of my partners have been men. A bit part of the reason for this is that it can be hard to find lesbians who see bi women as options, many of them are concerned that if a woman's bi, they'll end up leaving them for a man. As for the bi girls, it can be hard to know who's into what & how much. Dating & sex are weird like that. (On the Kinsey I waver between 2-3)

 

[SPARTAN047]

Gold star lesbians seem to be rare.

Maybe some of them say they're lesbian to avoid unwanted advances.

Under the right circumstances, lesbians might still avoid men but look at trans women for gratification. It's happened to me, I didn't go through with it though.

There's also the matter of lesbian cuckolding where a lesbian steals a straight man's straight girlfriend. Possible but unlikely to have the man knowing about it or involved. I don't know if it's really happened outside of porn. I've heard some instances of Tumblr users who it happened to.

Then we have lesbian cuckqueaning where a former lesbian takes a huge fat cock in front of her lesbian partner who isn't interested in it in real life but aroused by her girlfriend cheating on her with a cock instead of a pussy. Again a porn fantasy, I haven't heard of this but there are some on Lit who say it happened to them.

 

[Mypssypls]

(Note: I'm posting this in the Fetish section because I'm a straight man aroused by this - if you have an issue, please tell me where this thread would be more appropriate)

So we've all heard the saying 'all/most women are bisexual', and regardless of whether that's true or not (there's obviously a healthy number of bi men on here), it always refers to 'straight' women finding they appreciate a little pussy. But if it were (hypothetically) true, wouldn't that mean there are out-and-proud lesbians that enjoy some dick on the down-low?

Obviously, there are ways around that - if you want dick without the man, go to a trans woman (although again, you rarely hear about straight women who want pussy going to trans men), but for the sake of discussion, how often do you find that 'lesbians' are willing to get fucked by cis men? I'm not a neutral party, to be clear - I'm a cishet man who likes tomboys and quasi-butch women, mild sexism kink, and women who are so horny that they betray their principles. But I also am genuinely curious to hear from anybody who manages to navigate this in fantasy or life.

I am in a long term relationship with a woman and am a “gold star” lesbian who had a boyfriend long time ago who never got past 2nd base. I would consider myself horny to be bi curious and would be open to getting fucked by a cis man if the opportunity comes up. I am the “top” but would like to be a bottom and fantasize about getting fckd by a dick (or 2) with no strings attached. That last part is complicated. As well as my long term relationship.. thus I am here when feeling horny and naughty..

 

[waynefar]

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To address your question anecdotally, I have a friend that is a lesbian with a long term female partner that freely admits that she does sometimes crave dick.

My personal opinion/observation is that the vast majority of women are bi to some degree. They may not consider themselves to be bi but there are very, very few that won't admit at least some degree of attraction to females when they are in the company of their friends. I definitely identify as bi and consider myself 55-60% straight, 40-45% lesbian.

My wife would probably come in at 2.75-3, truly bisexual. We currently live as a throuple with another lady friend. They sleep together in the same bed and I sleep in a separate room (I do snore to be fair) unless I am having sex with them. They have way more sex together than with me. Wife has also had several lesbian affairs both before and after we opened our marriage. In group situations, she will immediately gravitate to the women first.

Though she (well, both of them) certainly do equally enjoy cock.I do get the impression that given different opportunities/circumstances she could easily have been a 4.

 

[KTrout23]

I'm a big believer in the Kinsey Scale, which posits that sexual orientation is on a spectrum. I'd put myself at a 2

I would also say I’m at 2.

 

[Belegon]

I've experienced a sexual encounter with a young woman who presented herself as "gold star." But as far as I know I'm the only male she played with after high school. All her stories here are in Lesbian sex and she is still, as far as I know, in a long term lesbian relationship. It;s been over a dozen years since we last talked so she may be with a new partner, but I'd frankly be quite surprised if she were in an actual relationship with a male. She wanted it kept quiet, so no names or avatars. I would posit her to be a 2 or a 1. I'm probably in the same range. I can appreciate a good looking dude, but except for a couple of years in my late teens, I've been pretty straight. Kissed my share of dudes, but actual sex? I think I was 20 last time, maybe 21. (I'm 59 now, so it's been awhile.) I confused a couple of people here on Lit back in the day because I'm not unwilling to flirt with a guy. CarsonShepard and I had a "mutual appreciation" thing going and the most recent male I've actually felt a sincere physical attraction towards was A.B. Guye, both of them litizens I occasionally flirted with.