Bi curious men; how would you like to lose your gay virginity

[Whispor]

Coercion. Blackmail. Exercise of real or perceived authority over me.

My desire to suck cock stems from my sexual submissiveness which is heightened, stimulated by the sight of a huge one much larger than my own. It has been for the past 40+ years.

That said, I had never really fantasized about being penetrated anally by a cock until about 10 years ago. I was in my early 40's and had a urology appointment and experienced my first prostate exam. My urologist was an older man, rather gruff and to the point about telling me to bend over the examination table, widen my stance, even placing his hand on my upper back to have me bend over more because I was dreading what was about to happen. A medical doctor, a symbol of authority, ordering me to prepare to be penetrated by him.

Something interesting occurred. The pad of his gloves and lubricated index finger slid up across my anus, and on the downward motion slid effortlessly inside of me despite my anus clinching so hard due to my subconscious desire to prevent the intrusion. His finger was thick and I felt its presence stretching me. Something inside me clicked and I was forever changed by the experience no matter how routine and benign it might be.

(I wrote a story about it called Penetrating Realization if you want to know more details. It turned me on so much I had to stop on the way home and masturbate.)

What turns me on so much about the scenario, and fantasies of being coerced or blackmailed into being fucked, is that I always have a choice. I could have said no to the doctor. Refused. Panicked. Yet I chose to accept the act of being penetrated by his finger. My ideal fantasy of losing my "gay virginity" from a big cock incorporates this. I can say no to the demand at the risk of losing my reputation, having secrets divulged, etc. and yet I want the man doing this to me to be aware I chose to let him fuck me despite begging him not to make me choose.

The humiliation aspect is very powerful to me and I find it extremely arousing.

I want to whimper and clench my fists from the discomfort of him being inside of me. I want him to take his time fucking me, making me endure the sensation of him being inside of me. I want my own penis, significantly smaller than his own, to become erect so that his humiliation of me is even more emphasized by betraying my enjoyment of it as well as allowing him to witness just how much larger his cock is than my own.

I want to climax and ejaculate onto the floor below me while he's fucking me, giving him the ultimate satisfaction of dominating me, humiliating me, a man who he perceives as never having desired to be penetrated by another man's cock. I want him to gloat at the sight of me getting dressed and walking out, knowing his seed fills my bowels.

Facilitating his sexual dominance and superiority over me only fuels my pleasure by fulfilling my desire to be sexually submissive for a man whose masculinity is superior to mine in every possible way.

 

[TryGuy35]

Anonymous. A few drinks, some teasing, and then they take what they want.

Every time so far, a man starts to get a little handsy with me, he notices how hard I am, and then... I get shy. Embarrassed. Scared. And there's always an easy escape.

Then I'm back home, beating off to the idea of it for months. I know it's unreasonable, but that's what I dream of.

Yes this resonates with me too!

 

[RipleNStllWtr]

MMF weekend and well just had to see what it felt like. Would love for this to be an ongoing thing. Same other male and my wife... learning all about each other and what turns us on.

 

[Jcam1980s]

It'd be a turn on if my wife found out i was arranging a guy to come onto her and hopefully watch them screw. Wife finds a guy. One evening she ties me up wanting to try something. Suddenly said guy enters the room, she squirts a big blob of lube on my ass. Slowly he slides his thick cock balls deep into me. I instantly get hard. While he slowly, firmly screws me she jacks me off. I'm bright red, embarrassed about my wife watching this, but also begging him to go deeper. I cum several times to the point im begging her to stop jacking me off but she carries on and it feels incredible. He eventually fills me.

 

[Charlie98225]

For Bi curious guys, how would you like to lose your gay virginity?

Would you turn to a trusted friend? Or maybe be completely anonymous, and suck off a stranger at a adult book store?
Would there be alcohol and a massage involved? (that works for me)

Would there be any kissing? Maybe you would go to a gay bath house, and rent a private room? Maybe you'd like to suck your first cock while people watch?

How do you want to lose it?

This is how
https://literotica.com/s/dream-1121

 

[Ciceri]

I think my first time was perfect. I lived in an older gentleman's house in college. $300 a month. He invited me to sit on a sofa with him and watch porn. I declined the first few invites but finally accepted. He had a big cock and big balls, too. I was really shy but felt like I needed to do this. The porn was man-on-man. I knew what I was getting into.

 

[Ciceri]

I think my first time was perfect. I lived in an older gentleman's house in college. $300 a month. He invited me to sit on a sofa with him and watch porn. I declined the first few invites but finally accepted. He had a big cock and big balls, too. I was really shy but felt like I needed to do this. The porn was man-on-man. I knew what I was getting into.

The moment I unzipped, he offered to stroke me. I don't remember agreeing to it but his hand felt so nice. I quickly came and he licked my semen off his fingers. After a few days of telling myself it was a mistake I accepted his invitation again. This time he pulled me closer and had his arm around me. The smell of his cologne was a wake-up call for some reason. I tried to stand up but he tightened his grip on my neck. I relented as I leaned over - inches from his cock. I resisted for at least a minute and then opened my mouth. I'd never been with a guy before. I didn't know what to do. The head of his cock sat still within my mouth as he jerked himself. Within seconds he came. I held it. Then he calmly said, "Swallow." And I did. After that night I was his. He introduced me to anal sex, bondage and the lifestyle. All before I was old enough to buy alcohol

 

[BillyWalrus]

The first time I was fucked it was by a trans woman with a cock smaller than my own average sized dick. Good thing too! She slammed her cock up my ass balls deep in one mighty thrust. She was so horny it was less than a minute before she was pumping her cum into my hole for the first time.

Damn, she had a stiff little cock! Every time I turned around, there it was, hard and throbbing, ready to go to work. Needless to say, my slut ass did not resist her!

By the end of the week with her, I had been fucked well over thirty times and I knew I was a bottom slut for trans girl cock.

 

[Ciceri]

The first time I was fucked it was by a trans woman with a cock smaller than my own average sized dick. Good thing too! She slammed her cock up my ass balls deep in one mighty thrust. She was so horny it was less than a minute before she was pumping her cum into my hole for the first time.

Damn, she had a stiff little cock! Every time I turned around, there it was, hard and throbbing, ready to go to work. Needless to say, my slut ass did not resist her!

By the end of the week with her, I had been fucked well over thirty times and I knew I was a bottom slut for trans girl cock.

When you let your inhibitions/ego go and answer to your desires, it's often beyond the point of no return. That's how I felt before I'd been penetrated for the first time. I kept making excuses for the mutual masturbation and sucking his cock. I knew we would be naked and I'd be the woman in that relationship. I nearly said no. I held out but once his cock was in me i knew. I knew what I was

 

[BillyWalrus]

When you let your inhibitions/ego go and answer to your desires, it's often beyond the point of no return. That's how I felt before I'd been penetrated for the first time. I kept making excuses for the mutual masturbation and sucking his cock. I knew we would be naked and I'd be the woman in that relationship. I nearly said no. I held out but once his cock was in me i knew. I knew what I was

Oh hell yeah. We would be in bed together after falling asleep after fucking. I would feel her hard cock pressing up against my butt and I knew that I was going to take it yet again. No need for lube. I was still dripping cum from the last load she had dumped in my ass. I was her bitch and she could use my ass whenever and however.

I loved it and I wondered, why haven't I been doing this my whole life?

 

[Stargatefan78]

I would love to have real cock inside my virgin ass.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I would love to have real cock inside my virgin ass.

You need to release your inner slut.

 

[Stargatefan78]

You need to release your inner slut.

Yes my inner slut

 

[Ciceri]

I would love to have real cock inside my virgin ass.

I've owned dongs and dildos but nothing compares to the real deal sliding in and out and then cumming.

I would love to have real cock inside my virgin ass.

I've owned dongs and dildos but nothing compares to the real deal sliding in and out and then cumming. My first times were bareback. He didn't use condoms. I sorta dodged a bullet

 

[BillyWalrus]

I've owned dongs and dildos but nothing compares to the real deal sliding in and out and then cumming.

I've owned dongs and dildos but nothing compares to the real deal sliding in and out and then cumming. My first times were bareback. He didn't use condoms. I sorta dodged a bullet

I have only been fucked bareback but both people who fucked me had been tested first. After that, it was off to the races!

 

[Stargatefan78]

I would love to do bareback fucking.

 

[ExecCuriousAbtEvrythng]

I am not sure, it all sounds intriguing to me. Would love to explore this with someone privately…

 

[Ciceri]

I have only been fucked bareback but both people who fucked me had been tested first. After that, it was off to the races!

Ray was a retired Air Force officer so his sexuality had always been his secret. I was one of the countless he'd fucked. He'd bring young college guys home often - some of whom I recognized. He'd fuck them in the next room and I'd get so jealous. I hated that. But he was trying to get back at me for some disobedience or whatever. I asked if he kept count of his sexual encounters and he rolled his eyes. Countless

 

[BillyWalrus]

Ray was a retired Air Force officer so his sexuality had always been his secret. I was one of the countless he'd fucked. He'd bring young college guys home often - some of whom I recognized. He'd fuck them in the next room and I'd get so jealous. I hated that. But he was trying to get back at me for some disobedience or whatever. I asked if he kept count of his sexual encounters and he rolled his eyes. Countless

Whoa! That's a recipe for disaster.

 

[Ciceri]

Whoa! That's a recipe for disaster.

Truly. I f he'd been HIV + the whole community would've been affected.

 

[CD_Bree]

I lost mine to a good friend many years ago. I look back at it with great fondness. It wasn't planned, and it came out of nowhere. When he took me, it was a beautiful experience! I try to keep any sexual experience personal on every level. Gay or straight. It can be so satisfying.

 

[dave's thing]

The perfect spot to tell my story. I had never considered anal but was years beyond being curious. All aspects of man to man in fact but not anal.

A week ago I was playing with this guy whose cock was as hard as hard could be. An average size but it had an upward curve to it. We were frotting in my hand and I was
letting it poke around my dick and balls and without thinking about i guidelines to my hole and then arousement took over and I thought why not? I spit in my hand and rubbed the spit and his precum around his head, pushed outward on my hole, relaxed and told him to push in . I could not believe how easily his head slipped in and with me still holding his dick let him him slowly go balls deep. When I realized he was all the way in, I cupped his balls and told him to let me get used to the feeling. It was fucking unbelievable and my dick was now harder then it had been in years. It was a perfect fit.

I pulled him down to me, gave him a long kiss, and told him he could have his way now. I lifted my legs and let him go to town. He started pumping slowly but very quickly the pace picked up. He was leaning over me on his hands and his look told how worked up he was.i verbally encouraged as he quite literally had me pinned by this point. His grunting and movements told me he was close. Suddenly through the grunts and deep breathing I heard "gonna cum", I reached around and held his ass while telling him to go for it. Then, I felt it. The eruption deep in my ass . Burning deep man seed. Endlessly flowing it seemed. Then he collapsed on me his mouth in my neck at the shoulder. Drooling a little and gasping for air telling me how great it was. I could feel his cock shrinking, still poked in me, and after a couple of minutes it slid out along with a wad of his sperm.
Would I do it again? Def would with him and probably would in a similiar situation
Don't want to hijack the thread but feel free to ask anything.