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Belle_Nuit

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My boyfriend has told me that for the last several years, he has had fantasies of me fucking other men. He doesn't want to watch, or be part of it in anyway. He's also not into being humiliated. But he says he would love it, if I went out and fucked another man, and then came home and told him about it. Does anyone else share this kink?

I had thought that maybe this was his way of starting up an 'open relationship'. But when I told him that I would never give him "permission" to do the same thing, he said that's not what he wanted. If I did he'd totally go for it and would sleep with other women, but that if I didn't want him to then he wouldn't.

He just really seems to get turned on by the idea of me being a slut, and then coming home to him.
 
The idea of fucking another man kind of scares me because I've only had sex with 1 person! I met my bf when I was quite young.
 
Belle_Nuit said:
My boyfriend has told me that for the last several years, he has had fantasies of me fucking other men. He doesn't want to watch, or be part of it in anyway. He's also not into being humiliated. But he says he would love it, if I went out and fucked another man, and then came home and told him about it. Does anyone else share this kink?

I had thought that maybe this was his way of starting up an 'open relationship'. But when I told him that I would never give him "permission" to do the same thing, he said that's not what he wanted. If I did he'd totally go for it and would sleep with other women, but that if I didn't want him to then he wouldn't.

He just really seems to get turned on by the idea of me being a slut, and then coming home to him.
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Do you like the idea of fucking another man and then going home and telling him? if not then leave him
 
I'm in the same position as your boyfriend. I told my fiancee, at the time she was still my gf, that I fantasized about her with other men. Her reaction was similar to yours. It's been 2 years since then and she's loving the sex she has with her side guys. (That's what we call them) This lifestyle isn't for everyone, but it's certainly added something exciting to ours.
 
Its a very erotic thing.

But maybe start slow? Why not try phone sex with a stranger and a brand-new, high-quality sex toy? Then whisper in your bfs ear how good "the other man's" cock felt... ;)
 
I think the whole concept is absolutely electrifying. The idea of not being present is arguably more of a turn on than watching.

To me, a lot of the appeal is the 'emotional' excitement; kind of reminds me of when I was young and insecure, when I was never quite sure what my new, pretty young girlfriend was up to. She had been sexually active with multiple partners before we met, and I was a virgin. No way I could have acknowledged it at the time, but I was heavily into her because of it.

I agree with him, I wouldn't use it as leverage to get sex on the side; I wouldn't be interested in that at all. In fact, it would detract from the whole experience.

Your boyfriend is so lucky you're even talking about it! If you're ok with it, and you can stay safe, I think it would be very rewarding for you...
 
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I also have this fantasy for my wife, for her to be a slut and come home to me after and tell me all about it.
 
It's just something you need to think about. Can you handle it. Can you do it with out getting attached to other men.
Like someone said start with toys.
 
Belle_Nuit said:
The idea of fucking another man kind of scares me because I've only had sex with 1 person! I met my bf when I was quite young.
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Simple...tell him just what you've told us....Think of it this way. This is about him. You have a different view on this. gauge his reaction. you'll gain insight. this could go wrong in so many different ways.
 
you're not a sex toy. Do what YOU want to do, not just because he's aking to do it. If you think it's too weird, just refuse his proposal...
 
You have to be comfortable in your own sexuality. As others have stated if you think it is weird ir strange then do not do it. Also this may be a fantasy of his, but what happens if it becomes a reality? There are pitfalls to this everywhere. Hope you make the best decision for you.
 
Belle_Nuit said:
My boyfriend has told me that for the last several years, he has had fantasies of me fucking other men. He doesn't want to watch, or be part of it in anyway. He's also not into being humiliated. But he says he would love it, if I went out and fucked another man, and then came home and told him about it. Does anyone else share this kink?

I had thought that maybe this was his way of starting up an 'open relationship'. But when I told him that I would never give him "permission" to do the same thing, he said that's not what he wanted. If I did he'd totally go for it and would sleep with other women, but that if I didn't want him to then he wouldn't.

He just really seems to get turned on by the idea of me being a slut, and then coming home to him.
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You must do what you want to do and are comfortable with.

But just so you know, it's a common kink. I'd love to know my wife had been slutty. Total turn on. No explanation.
 
I definitely agree with the advice about starting slow or starting with smaller things (like phone sex).

I had a bad experience before with a bf who THOUGHT that he wanted that, but when we went through with it, it turned out that reality did not match the fantasy. It ended up being a poor experience all around. We might have avoided some of those pitfalls if we had gone a little slower with acting out his fantasy.

Definitely only go through with it if it's something that you think that YOU would enjoy and if you think that you won't "catch feelings" for your new partners.
 
go very slow at first, it will help make sure that it is both what you want and it has the added bonus of making it that much more hotter.

I am in the same boat as you guys and I am interested in hearing the stories and savoring the sweet anticipation that comes with this plan.
 
Hello

I personally don't get it. I do not like the idea of sharing my partner.

I don't care who or how many she was with before me, but not after.

I was on the other side of this once though. One of my ex's had a husband that wanted her to be with me. He was never there when we were together but loved to hear about what we did together and would "clean her up" afterwards.

It worked out well for us. The sex was always the best part of our relationship when we were together (which is part of why we broke up, there was not much else to it) and it was kind of hot for us after knowing that it was kinda taboo and we went out of our way to do crazy and wild things together so she had interesting stories to tell him. She would tell me about how he would go crazy when she got home from one of our get togethers and love cleaning her up.

When she left him and got divorced (for other reasons) we kept it up for a while but it didn't last long afterwards. It just wasn't the same.
 
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I personally don't get it. I do not like the idea of sharing my partner.

I don't care who or how many she was with before me, but not after.

I was on the other side of this once though. One of my ex's had a husband that wanted her to be with me. He was never there when we were together but loved to hear about what we did together and would "clean her up" afterwards.

It worked out well for us. The sex was always the best part of our relationship when we were together (which is part of why we broke up, there was not much else to it) and it was kind of hot for us after knowing that it was kinda taboo and we went out of our way to do crazy and wild things together so she had interesting stories to tell him. She would tell me about how he would go crazy when she got home from one of our get togethers and love cleaning her up.

When she left him and got divorced (for other reasons) we kept it up for a while but it didn't last long afterwards. It just wasn't the same.
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Ya, I'm not sure if I really "get it" either. But I'm willing to explore the idea as an idea. I'm not sure how far it'll go at this point.
 
Belle_Nuit said:
Ya, I'm not sure if I really "get it" either. But I'm willing to explore the idea as an idea. I'm not sure how far it'll go at this point.
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Maybe role play it. Tell him you're going to pretend he's another man. Use that guys name while making love (real or a made up name)

Play out a scenario like a massage parlour or something.

Be coy and reluctant at first and then give your self over.

Whisper the other guys name in his ear and beg him to cum in you before you go home to your boyfriend.

Plays out the fantasy for you both while remaining faithful and safe ;)
 
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