Benwa Balls
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Ok.
Welcome to Lit. Newbies are nice, and we like it when they post.
As a general annoucement, we like it even better when they post in complete sentences, and take the time to write out "any" instead of ne, I instead of i, and you instead of u.
This is a bulletin board, not a chat room - we have time to put some thought and care into our posts, and we appreciate it when those asking for advice take the time to write out words in their posts.
I'm not a complete nazi who advocates spell checking in word before posting, and I understand that sometimes things come out in a hurry, like teh instead of the, or adn insted of and.
I think you'll find that you get jumped, razzed, and ignored less if you use sentences, paragraphs, and (this makes me hot) even double space after a period before a new sentence. It makes your posts much easier for us to read, and we like that!
Now, about your question - how do you use them? Put them in. Squeeze. Walk around. Dance. Hula hoop. It's about muscle control - don't let them fall out. Seriously, I've never found traditional ben wa balls to be all that stimulating - the gentle movement of the chimes inside the balls just doesn't do much for me. Now, if you wear them out in public, the knowledge of your little secret might do you more good than the balls themselves.
I've seen (and bought) other toy balls which are hard plastic hollow balls, with a smaller, much heavier weighted ball inside. They were pretty cheap, about $7, and I will definitely wear them next time I go out dancing - I can feel the motion of them even lying in bed and moving my hips around.
Anal beads in the cunt, well, hey, if it floats your boat, sure. If a sensation of being full does something for you, good times. I guess maybe they might hit the g spot if you were doing something active with them in - maybe a bike ride, or something?
It would help if you were a bit more specific in your post about what you think they should do. No batteries? Heavens!
Welcome to Lit. Newbies are nice, and we like it when they post.
As a general annoucement, we like it even better when they post in complete sentences, and take the time to write out "any" instead of ne, I instead of i, and you instead of u.
This is a bulletin board, not a chat room - we have time to put some thought and care into our posts, and we appreciate it when those asking for advice take the time to write out words in their posts.
I'm not a complete nazi who advocates spell checking in word before posting, and I understand that sometimes things come out in a hurry, like teh instead of the, or adn insted of and.
I think you'll find that you get jumped, razzed, and ignored less if you use sentences, paragraphs, and (this makes me hot) even double space after a period before a new sentence. It makes your posts much easier for us to read, and we like that!
Now, about your question - how do you use them? Put them in. Squeeze. Walk around. Dance. Hula hoop. It's about muscle control - don't let them fall out. Seriously, I've never found traditional ben wa balls to be all that stimulating - the gentle movement of the chimes inside the balls just doesn't do much for me. Now, if you wear them out in public, the knowledge of your little secret might do you more good than the balls themselves.
I've seen (and bought) other toy balls which are hard plastic hollow balls, with a smaller, much heavier weighted ball inside. They were pretty cheap, about $7, and I will definitely wear them next time I go out dancing - I can feel the motion of them even lying in bed and moving my hips around.
Anal beads in the cunt, well, hey, if it floats your boat, sure. If a sensation of being full does something for you, good times. I guess maybe they might hit the g spot if you were doing something active with them in - maybe a bike ride, or something?
It would help if you were a bit more specific in your post about what you think they should do. No batteries? Heavens!
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Re: Ok.
Just a comment. Generally I'm a believer that things for the ass are only used for the ass...and I prefer silicone since it can be cleaned properly. Do not take something that's been in an ass and insert it into a cunt without proper cleaning in between...and that includes a cock! Just asking for trouble that one is.
But if you buy anal beads and want to only use them in a cunt...feel free...personally I prefer my ben wa balls (with a string attached aldawg hehe) for improving muscle control...just had them in at lunch time yesterday.
Just a comment. Generally I'm a believer that things for the ass are only used for the ass...and I prefer silicone since it can be cleaned properly. Do not take something that's been in an ass and insert it into a cunt without proper cleaning in between...and that includes a cock! Just asking for trouble that one is.
But if you buy anal beads and want to only use them in a cunt...feel free...personally I prefer my ben wa balls (with a string attached aldawg hehe) for improving muscle control...just had them in at lunch time yesterday.
I also had a set of ben wa balls, and they were always cold no matter how I tried to warm them before use. They didn't seem to work for me though. I have found other exercises for those muscles that seem to work better, for example when you go to the bathroom. When you pee, stop then hold it for a few seconds, then let it go, and hold it again. Keep working on it, and build up until you can stop it faster and easier. You can also do this when you are just sitting around, or even walking, and no one will even know!! With the ben wa balls, you need to find some light enough at first, so they won't just fall out when you put them in. The most important thing is to keep them clean. Make sure you wash them after/before every use just for safety. Also, make sure you wash your hands before doing anything down there, I'm sure you don't want any yeast/bladder infections!
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God... the idea of going out on a date with a girl and having dinner and dancing... all while knowing that she has two pleasure stimulating balls inside of her is very hot. *looks down* Pardon, extremely hot. http://www.geocities.com/je404ucd/ad/love.txt
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angylfyre said:
That's how I learned to control my vaginal muscles. It works very well as long as you keep at it; make it a sort of nervous habit, much the same as some people play with a pen, their hair, or the like.
My Lover bought me BenWa balls a while ago. I have to say they did nothing for me. I know it sounds disgusting... but they felt like I had inserted a tampon wrong and I couldnt wait to get them back out!!! They just didnt float my boat!
Now anal beads in the ass...... that is hot!!!
Now anal beads in the ass...... that is hot!!!
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Cheaper idea, Golf balls, work the same, come in pretty colours etc!
I however think - if it doesnt have a string that cant pull out, then do NOT put it in your ass, too dangerous and too embarasing if it wont come out.
Cealy
I however think - if it doesnt have a string that cant pull out, then do NOT put it in your ass, too dangerous and too embarasing if it wont come out.
Cealy
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Ah - you must have seen that famous internet site "rectal foreign bodies", with the x-ray of the coke bottle lodged within the pelvis...
The things people put up their butts...
tsk, tsk!
The things people put up their butts...
tsk, tsk!
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Jezebelle1458
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if Ben can get his balls that far in i'm not one to cry about it.
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I've always wondered
It the great jazz musician, David Ben-Wa has any balls?
It the great jazz musician, David Ben-Wa has any balls?
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Damn double posts
My first! ever!
Got 2 PM's at the same time and think it messed things up.
My first! ever!
Got 2 PM's at the same time and think it messed things up.
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Damn triple posts
First time for me. Seems I got a PM at the same time ant it seemed to scred things up.
First time for me. Seems I got a PM at the same time ant it seemed to scred things up.
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sure,blamethelouseyspelingonaPM
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I was excited over gerrint 2 PM's in one day!
Either that, or the Seagrams 7 and Cream Soda...Jezebelle1458 said:
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It is a common misconception that people think benwa are for pleasure. Really... they are for muscle control to be tighter or be able to flex harder around your lover. In early days it was so the woman could hold the man's sperm inside her longer and ... after she had the baby she would be able to become as tight as she was before the birth.
I use them to do PC muscle excorsizes. You don't need benwa to do them as angylfyre said
Some people, can feel them, and say they feel good and even have orgasms ... I don't know how because they're so small, and it takes some work and concentration to keep them from falling. I don't know how anyone can have them get stuck because once you stand up and not flex your pussy to hold them in, gravity takes care of everything for you.
And the ones with the weighted ball inside of another ball/egg... are called duotone. Benwa are small and weighted, about the size of a chocolate covered malted ball candy.
They make other contraptions to work the PC muscles as well, but you can't walk around with them like you can the benwa or the duotone.
Its best to work with one ball at a time to work up the muscle to hold both in for an extended period of time.
oh, and before you pee ... take them out, let them fall ... whatever it is, because they will fall into the bowl bc you're not flexing your muscle (bc when you do the flow stops...)
and wear panties just incase !!
I use them to do PC muscle excorsizes. You don't need benwa to do them as angylfyre said
Some people, can feel them, and say they feel good and even have orgasms ... I don't know how because they're so small, and it takes some work and concentration to keep them from falling. I don't know how anyone can have them get stuck because once you stand up and not flex your pussy to hold them in, gravity takes care of everything for you.
And the ones with the weighted ball inside of another ball/egg... are called duotone. Benwa are small and weighted, about the size of a chocolate covered malted ball candy.
They make other contraptions to work the PC muscles as well, but you can't walk around with them like you can the benwa or the duotone.
Its best to work with one ball at a time to work up the muscle to hold both in for an extended period of time.
oh, and before you pee ... take them out, let them fall ... whatever it is, because they will fall into the bowl bc you're not flexing your muscle (bc when you do the flow stops...)
and wear panties just incase !!
