Being used or dominated Post Orgasm

OddLove

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Is anyone else obsessed with the idea of being used, humiliated, punished, or degraded AFTER cumming?

When your horniness has faded away and then your partner really starts having their fun with you, and you're so devoted to them that your own horniness and desires are irrelevant to their pleasure or amusement. Super hot in my opinion.
 
I found I'm into being on the giving end. One of my past partners didn't seem to have any submissive streak, but he'd let me keep a handjob or blowjob going until he couldn't take it anymore. Then he'd push me away. I think it was more teasing, or a game, than a submissive act, in his eyes. But I still got a thrill feeling him squirm.
 
Is anyone else obsessed with the idea of being used, humiliated, punished, or degraded AFTER cumming?

When your horniness has faded away and then your partner really starts having their fun with you, and you're so devoted to them that your own horniness and desires are irrelevant to their pleasure or amusement. Super hot in my opinion.
If "By being used or dominated" you include being tortured, post orgasm...
I absolutely LOVE IT when my Domme does this to me, as the intensity is mindboggling!!!
 
I'd love to be used in chastity, forced to cum and lick it up, and then used anyway while I'm still horny after a ruined orgasm.
 
One of the reasons Dommes keep us on limited orgasms is we get lazy or complacent once we cum. Being forced to extend play or be touched afterwards reminds me it's not my body it's hers. I need to still be a good boy and be mindful that she is not done with me.
 
One of the reasons Dommes keep us on limited orgasms is we get lazy or complacent once we cum. Being forced to extend play or be touched afterwards reminds me it's not my body it's hers. I need to still be a good boy and be mindful that she is not done with me.
Yes, even Doms do that to femsubs and I get it. Having something to look forward to, whether it's an orgasm, new video game or show.
 
Yes, even Doms do that to femsubs and I get it. Having something to look forward to, whether it's an orgasm, new video game or show.
I'm about to lose my mind. Funny thing is I got busted ages ago when I cheated and came. I got bratty. Man did I pay for that. So now. Despite the insanity I'm being good.
 
One of the reasons Dommes keep us on limited orgasms is we get lazy or complacent once we cum. Being forced to extend play or be touched afterwards reminds me it's not my body it's hers. I need to still be a good boy and be mindful that she is not done with me.
It's different for me, as my Lovely Domme is more addictive than crack cocaine... Even when She allows me to cum, I just crave Her more and more... I'll clean Her up, eat Her sexy ass, or ANYTHING else in the world that She wants!
Everything She does, simply put, just makes me want to please Her more...
 
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I'm about to lose my mind. Funny thing is I got busted ages ago when I cheated and came. I got bratty. Man did I pay for that. So now. Despite the insanity I'm being good.
Maybe not for too long.

I got a bit worried since I thought you said you cheated. 😂🤣
 
It's different for me, as my Lovely Domme is more addictive than crack cocaine... Even when She allows me to cum, I just crave Here more and more... I'll clean Her up, eat Her sexy ass, or ANYTHING else in the world that She wants!
Everything She does, simply put, just makes me want to please Her more...
Mine is a remote deal.
So no fun like that. Sound amazing. I've never even seen my domme only heard her voice.
 
Maybe. She is super private. I doubt it. Lol. I do t even think she is into guys so there's that.
I work at sea. The separations are tough, but I LOVE performing tasks, long distance for my Domme... and the reunions are glorious!
 
I work at sea. The separations are tough, but I LOVE performing tasks, long distance for my Domme... and the reunions are glorious!
Man I bet that's awesome! We r just 1 time zone off. She takes off with partner most weekends leaves me with stuff to do. Then we get the odd play date here and there online. I'm pretty new to a lot of kink stuff.
 
Is anyone else obsessed with the idea of being used, humiliated, punished, or degraded AFTER cumming?

When your horniness has faded away and then your partner really starts having their fun with you, and you're so devoted to them that your own horniness and desires are irrelevant to their pleasure or amusement. Super hot in my opinion.
I’d love for that to happen.
 
Ruined orgasms are soooooo useful for this reason, I wish I could be in chastity while someone makes me do them.
 
Would love to feel the pain of someone stroking me after I cum till I can’t take it anymore
My wife will occasionally do this when she gives me a handjob but we haven't tried to see if she can make me cum again. The sensation is so much closer to having to pee that i tell her stop before too long. Not really the way i want risk to introduce golden showers into our intimate vocabulary.
 
Ruined orgasms are soooooo useful for this reason, I wish I could be in chastity while someone makes me do them.
So. I had my first ruin caged.
With a wand on it. U cum. It's explosive [ this was like a 30 day no cum dump] but afterwards she kept wand on i didn't cum again but I think I was too stoned to know wtf...
Afterwards it felt like I had not cum. SUPER FRUSTRATING..
We did not get a chance to continue next day as I got sick. But that was an interesting experience I'm don't know if I like it or not. Especially when I'm not being physically touched. I felt so used. Like a cum slut toy.
 
So. I had my first ruin caged.
With a wand on it. U cum. It's explosive [ this was like a 30 day no cum dump] but afterwards she kept wand on i didn't cum again but I think I was too stoned to know wtf...
Afterwards it felt like I had not cum. SUPER FRUSTRATING..
We did not get a chance to continue next day as I got sick. But that was an interesting experience I'm don't know if I like it or not. Especially when I'm not being physically touched. I felt so used. Like a cum slut toy.
Just the feeling I want, that's why I want to be in chastity so my Domme can make sure my clitty isn't touched.
 
Just the feeling I want, that's why I want to be in chastity so my Domme can make sure my clitty isn't touched.
I get it. I'm trying to release my needs per instruction from my domme my wants to cum and only be happy cumming how she wants me too. Big shift.
She said she is remaking me into the sub she wants. I'm kinda excited about that. She won't tell me what that means.....
 
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