Being single...

[Madame Pandora]

Fickle

Well, I'm not privvy to the details of the relationship, but where there is pain there is always bitterness.

I think the thing here was that obviously one of you was serious about a relationship and the other wasn't.

So many times I see people online claiming to have these heartfelt "relationships" and it's all just talk.

When any relationship is one-sided, both parties are going to end up hurt, IRL or OL, but it's always the one who was honest in the relationship who gets my sympathy.

When things don't work out, sure, it is a two part issue, but there is also the element of "I love you, I love you, I love you....uh....wait....I'm hung up on someone else." That's just hurtful and cruel to do to another person. And so often, I think it is done for the attention of online passion with no consideration for the other heart involved.

If you're going to "love 'em and leave 'em" online. Fine. But make that clear up front.

I wish you better luck and more honest affection in the future.

Trust me, it's better to be single than to waste your time on a fickle heart.

MP ;-)

 

[Guest]

Re: Fickle

I think the thing here was that obviously one of you was serious about a relationship and the other wasn't.

Well, you're right about one thing. You don't know the details. That statement of yours is not correct. That is all I care to say about the matter.

 

[Ravenloft]

How serious could you be when one week brought you to the realization it did? Call it my perverse desire to know...

 

[KillerMuffin]

Ravenloft darlin, just let sleepin dawgs lie. This isn't exactly the board's business, ya'll may not wanna parade it back and forth and degenerate into a bloody fight.

Let it be enough to know that there are people here who care and wish you happiness.

 

[Ravenloft]

Yeah... Good point KM... *Hearing the shouts of "Ever hear of email?!" From the peanut gallary... Shrugging.*

*Sighing*

 

[Cheyenne]

*shouting loudly*
E-mail, E-mail, E-mail!!!

Please don't torture yourselves sharing the details with the board. It is none of our business, and most of us don't want to see either of you hurt.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

*Sad*

Picked this one right from the start and deliberately didn't reply. L & J, I don't know you, but I can tell you that it only hurts if you cared. I'm guessng you're both hurting.

(((Both of you)))

No, single life isn't bad Ravenloft, but everything is what you make of it. Easy words, hard practice. All the very best, feel free to e-mail or im.

 

[Renegade]

Ravenloft and Tiggs, the whole "life is what you make of it" saying is very much true.

It's like what I told Ravenloft yesterday through IMs: You both know that me and Rosethorn are going through our own problems right now. And, even if she did break up with me, I know that things would be ok in the end. Yes, it would hurt me greatly to lose someone that I care about so much, but life goes on. In a week or two, if she does dump me, I'd probably not be as optimistic as I am right now, but what I'm saying is the truth.

I'm not sure on what to realy say about this. Sometimes, I still can't believe that it happenend with you two. It just seems so wrong to see you two like this at all. I know you both pretty well, and I know that this was a relationship with REAL love in it. It hurts to see you two like this.

Well, I've said my piece on this. Let me just add two things:

1. I agree with KM and Cheyenne about leaving this off the board as much as possible. This is between you two and any close friends that you wish to talk with it about.

2. Good luck to you both. Time and effort can heal all wounds. So perhaps in time you two can salvage a friendship out of this. You can't let the anger and bitter feelings take over your lives.

Just felt that I should say something about all of this. I'll shut up now and try to help you two in anyway that I can hope to. It's the least that I can hope to accomplish.

 

[Guest]

Ravenloft how dumb are you man? She dumped some other guy for you and then you didn't think she'd pull the same shit on you? Why wouldn't she? She doesn't know what the fuck she wants because she's immature as shit and she lives for the melodrama of it all. Consider yourself well rid of her.

 

[Busty]

Well there's always one troll who has to put his two cents worth in - and as usual as a guest.
Being single was great but so is being married - I don't feel like i've sold my soul or have to account for anything - my husbands not like that - as for the rest - well I have 2 great kids so I can't complain.
I'm sorry if you're hurting but time will improve that - if it was meant to be it will happen and if not - you will find someone else.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Jade]

As with all things in life... it has its plusses and minusses...

The worst part of being single... (in my humble opinion...) is the night.

I currently sleep with a stuffed animal... and well, it just isn't the same. LOL
For one thing... he doesn't generate much body heat, and I only own one blanket, as my ex is getting to keep pretty much everything. Phooey.

But seriously, the coolest part is making the best of any situation.
There are a lot of high points at being single too.. for one... the freedom. In many aspects, (financially, morally, and legally permitting that is... hehe) I can do pretty much whatever I want! I love it!

Was this what you wanted with this thread... ah hell I don't know.. but I haven't been here in awhile and I felt like killing a thread... I was pretty good at it before so why stop now right?

Is Lovely Latina still around? *crossing fingers*
She is my older sister....

 

[April]

Jade, you know I cannot allow you to kill a thread! {{{{{Jade}}}}} BTW, you have more mail.

 

[Jade]

Yay, did you really write me back?
Woo hoo... bye bye everyone... going to my hotmail now...
eee


btw April.. remember back in "the day" when you and I would go back and forth killing threads together? haha those were the days.... *sigh*

 

[April]

We should do that again. We're good at it! LOL

 

[Expertise]

April

Totaly off topic.

But me, you, Jade and a 45 gallon drum of Baby oil would put me on a plane in a big hurry.

Sorry just reminiscing.

 

[April]

For you, babe, I would do it!

The clock is ticking! Not much time left, if you know what I mean.

 

[Jade]

For you, babe, I would do it!

The clock is ticking! Not much time left, if you know what I mean.

Yes!! Just like old times... but I am poor... can you guys break out for the oil... and I can just show up and use you both?

 

[April]

I may have to count my pennies! Too bad he lives so far away, isn't it? Hmm, ideas are swirling in my beleaguered brain! Oh no! Run!

 

[Xander]

Jade and April is back in tight collaboration. What more can a guy ask for...Phew it's getting hot in here.

Expertise....damn man. I think I hate you And I still want my rum damnit!!!

 

[April]

Y'all better watch out! I've got 4.5 months to go, and I want to meet some people!

 

[Xander]

Y'all better watch out! I've got 4.5 months to go, and I want to meet some people!

Is that supposed to scare me April??
You know the number, use it!!!!

 

[April]

 

[Xander]

April....I'd be careful with that tongue. hehehe You'd never know what I'd do *innocent smile*

 

[Ravenloft]

Yeah, I am pretty dumb, but thats part of my charm you know... Heheh! You can pull the wool over my eyes with just a little effort... Thank you all, even "For fuck's sake!"