Being sexualized

[Luci_nerdy_kink]

It is a bad thing when all you have to offer is those things OR someone is projecting (objectifying). Sexualization implies lack of consent, in my opinion.

I definitely appreciate your sentiment…

But personally, I have found a couple girls who like the idea of just being useless…

So they don’t have to worry.

It’s not really so much that they believe it, although a couple of them really do…

But most of what I do is edging them away from that…

And a lot of girls still just want to resort back to that default no matter what…

So I think we need to be really careful about just labeling it right or wrong for everybody.

It’s not so much that you’re wrong though because…

If you think about it, the root causes that somebody taught that to them in the first place… they never should’ve even had that thought in their mind but now they do… and as long as they have a safe space to be that way, it’s not a problem… it can be really, really fun actually.

But I have talked to girls that don’t want to be in that situation and it is horrifying… as a human being. It really is horrifying….

As weird as some of you guys think I am… I don’t care because I’m trying to stop that kind of thing.

But I’m glad there’s people out there trying really hard to do the right thing.

A lot of women are scared of my dudes…

Being scared does not turn them on most of the time in my opinion as a man who has no idea what they like

 

[CuriousCat89]

The topic of the original post was the sexualization of girls. Girls are young. They weren’t women. They cannot consent by nature of their age.
This website isn’t for excusing pedophiles.

 

[Luci_nerdy_kink]

The topic of the original post was the sexualization of girls. Girls are young. They weren’t women. They cannot consent by nature of their age.
This website isn’t for excusing pedophiles.

I view girls as all women…

And of course I wouldn’t want to excuse pedophiles.

Plenty of women can’t consent by nature of their situation either (I don’t really wanna go into details there because it’s personal)

I don’t really believe in having a differentiation between the ages for girls because we should just protect all of them from all of it all the time as men…

When they are old/experienced enough they are smart enough to get what they want anyway…

These ladies know how to take care of themselves, but it takes a little time/practice, no big deal.

That’s what good people like us are here for

Have a wonderful day!

 

[CuriousCat89]

I view girls as all women…

And of course I wouldn’t want to excuse pedophiles.

Plenty of women can’t consent by nature of their situation either (I don’t really wanna go into details there because it’s personal)

I don’t really believe in having a differentiation between the ages for girls because we should just protect all of them from all of it all the time as men…

When they are old/experienced enough they are smart enough to get what they want anyway…

These ladies know how to take care of themselves, but it takes a little time/practice, no big deal.

That’s what good people like us are here for

Have a wonderful day!

That’s unfortunate and a bit gross.

 

[Luci_nerdy_kink]

That’s unfortunate and a bit gross.

I don’t see why it’s gross?

I just know that all of them should be protected… and once they’re a legal age, they should already be taught how to protect themselves, but for whatever reason that’s not happening…

So I’m trying to help.

I’m sorry if that feels gross to you but…

Until I understand why I can’t really change that.

It’s gross to me that somebody would be against me doing that, but I know you aren’t trying to hurt anybody, so what’s confusing you about what I got going on?

That’s all it is is a little misunderstanding. We can clear it right up.

That’s the coolest part about being a good person… if anybody tries to call you out they’re just calling themselves out so… we can chat whenever… as publicly as you want about everything I do.

We can even compare activities in real time now because of technology 24 seven imagine that…

We could test who treats ladies better

And children, too, why not?

I’m a really good dad too lol.

How can I help you today? You seem tense don’t worry… we’re the good guys!

If you think what you highlighted is some admission of guilt… I urge you to read it again… because we should be protecting women at all times of all ages… there is a time in a place for a sexual activity and little girls don’t need to be involved…

Nobody should have to explain that part to anyone, but we do… so have a good day, dude.

 

[CuriousCat89]

You’re a dad and think girls should be treated as women? Or women as girls?
Maybe English can’t your first language. Maybe your culture is one where consent and sexualization or those unable to consent is normalized. I don’t know. This is lit. People tend to believe they’re more noble than they are.

No dad would say sexualization of his kids - regardless of gender - is ok. And thinking women want to just be considered sexualized and nothing else?

It’s my fault for strolling through the GB. Back to politics to me!

 

[Luci_nerdy_kink]

You’re a dad and think girls should be treated as women? Or women as girls?
Maybe English can’t your first language. Maybe your culture is one where consent and sexualization or those unable to consent is normalized. I don’t know. This is lit. People tend to believe they’re more noble than they are.

No dad would say sexualization of his kids - regardless of gender - is ok. And thinking women want to just be considered sexualized and nothing else?

It’s my fault for strolling through the GB. Back to politics to me!

Why is that a problem??

I don’t look at little girls in a sexual way at all…

So I don’t need to differentiate… why do you?

Projection is a real thing… so please don’t incriminate yourself here…

I put them all in a category where I want to protect them all…

And then I only pay sexual attention to one really special one that is not a child…(at a time)

I don’t understand how to make that more simple for you…

An English is the only language I know so if you needed it in a different language, you’re gonna have to find a translator.

I didn’t mean to upset you, I don’t know why you have a problem with me.

You’re putting words into my mouth based on your confused worldview… and that’s not OK.

Because it makes it look like you’re saying I would hurt kids.

If you have a reason to believe I’m hurting kids… I already told you we can prove that easily.

Have a wonderful day…