MzChrista
The Bitch Is Back
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- Jul 8, 2002
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People asked several places questions about Pro Dommes, so i will tell my experience and answer questions to you that got em.
I started to be Pro Domme when I was in college about 15 years ago. I was just working in the cafeteria and hardly getting by and a friend was working at a massage place as Dominatrix. She said come with me to work if you want, so what the hell, I did.
I had not thought much about BDSM or knew more than the usual stuff ya know "whips and chain ooh ohh" but she showed me the ropes (hahaha) and before I knew it I was making couple hundred bucks a day. The clients paid the owner for an hour in the room which was just a big room with a bondage bench and a St Andrews and not much else,then we worked out the rest. usually it was $50 for a half hour or $100 for an hour, more if they wanted something really involved. most guys just wanted plain old OTK spanking or a flogging or whipping. Lots of humilation type you little worm stuff and quite a few wanted golden showers, which we charged more for.
At first I thought the clients were all creeps and felt kind of like I was acting out an anti-man thing doing it, but after a while I changed. Some of the clients were the sweetest guys you ever seen, and they just had something they needed that others saw to be wrong. And I though gee, just like being a les. So then I saw it different and started to dig it and think about what I felt from doing it.
So then I was understanding that I liked what I was doing not just the cash. But I wanted for one thing, to play with women and also to really play for real, because 90% of these guys were not subs, they just wanted certain things done to them and if you doing it cause they want t you aint Domme, they are.
So I found out about a group that was in my state but not my city and went to a meeting. And I meet a Pro Domme who lived actually right by me.
So I went to work with her which was a huge step up. She lived in a big house with a whole floor that was dungeon and she had every thing you can imagine. She had every kind of toy and swings and suspension gear with a motor and an exam table, you name it.
She taught me all kinds of stuff serious CBT strap ons all that stuff. And she had girls she played with and I got my first experience domming chicks.
I was making huge dough and having the best time so I dropped out of school and did it full time for about 2 years. Plus she introed me around to local scene types like some guy called himself James Blandings though he really didnt look like Cary Grant to me, no offense.(but he was a charming fucker no doubt)
The house was her husbands and they broke up so that was the end of that. I kept with some clients, meeting at hotels etc and got waitress jobs and that and went back to school and finished then got a regular citizen job. But still I kept some clients for a while, but eventually stopped charging them because by then they were more friend than clients.
So any questions about Pro Dommes please ask. I guess there are some other here that done it and maybe they will tell their stories too.
I started to be Pro Domme when I was in college about 15 years ago. I was just working in the cafeteria and hardly getting by and a friend was working at a massage place as Dominatrix. She said come with me to work if you want, so what the hell, I did.
I had not thought much about BDSM or knew more than the usual stuff ya know "whips and chain ooh ohh" but she showed me the ropes (hahaha) and before I knew it I was making couple hundred bucks a day. The clients paid the owner for an hour in the room which was just a big room with a bondage bench and a St Andrews and not much else,then we worked out the rest. usually it was $50 for a half hour or $100 for an hour, more if they wanted something really involved. most guys just wanted plain old OTK spanking or a flogging or whipping. Lots of humilation type you little worm stuff and quite a few wanted golden showers, which we charged more for.
At first I thought the clients were all creeps and felt kind of like I was acting out an anti-man thing doing it, but after a while I changed. Some of the clients were the sweetest guys you ever seen, and they just had something they needed that others saw to be wrong. And I though gee, just like being a les. So then I saw it different and started to dig it and think about what I felt from doing it.
So then I was understanding that I liked what I was doing not just the cash. But I wanted for one thing, to play with women and also to really play for real, because 90% of these guys were not subs, they just wanted certain things done to them and if you doing it cause they want t you aint Domme, they are.
So I found out about a group that was in my state but not my city and went to a meeting. And I meet a Pro Domme who lived actually right by me.
So I went to work with her which was a huge step up. She lived in a big house with a whole floor that was dungeon and she had every thing you can imagine. She had every kind of toy and swings and suspension gear with a motor and an exam table, you name it.
She taught me all kinds of stuff serious CBT strap ons all that stuff. And she had girls she played with and I got my first experience domming chicks.
I was making huge dough and having the best time so I dropped out of school and did it full time for about 2 years. Plus she introed me around to local scene types like some guy called himself James Blandings though he really didnt look like Cary Grant to me, no offense.(but he was a charming fucker no doubt)
The house was her husbands and they broke up so that was the end of that. I kept with some clients, meeting at hotels etc and got waitress jobs and that and went back to school and finished then got a regular citizen job. But still I kept some clients for a while, but eventually stopped charging them because by then they were more friend than clients.
So any questions about Pro Dommes please ask. I guess there are some other here that done it and maybe they will tell their stories too.
