Being Ghosted

[InternationalFunboy]

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ETA: IFB articulated much better the elements that should be required. He’s a smart one. Needs to quit smoking.

Shiiiiiit. I'll smoke that ASS.

Thanks for the compliment though. To the OP, Dribble is probably giving you the best take on this whole thing. Truth? You're likely better off, and being able to really believe that you are, is a sign of positive mental health, and maturity.

Seeking self-improvement by learning from this experience is noble, but you put a lot of responsibility on the other party to play the teacher. Teachers are special people, and rare. If you felt things were going well, they probably were going well enough. Where this person went, or why, is not something to hang your worth on. Venting out a bit of frustration here I think is a better alternative. I got you bruh.

 

[redheadinyourbed]

There was some romantic conversations and we were talking about getting together since we live close. Plus we were in mid conversation then nothing so I was scrratching my head think what happened

That happened to me.
He deleted his fucking email account.
Have the decency to tell me that you can't or don't want to do this anymore.
I do wonder if he got caught.
His loss, not mine.

 

[ef_oh_ex]

That happened to me.
He deleted his fucking email account.
Have the decency to tell me that you can't or don't want to do this anymore.
I do wonder if he got caught.
His loss, not mine.

I agree with this 100%.
But you may be right that he got caught! LOL That would explain it...

But it still sucks after you have made a connection, however tenuous it was

 

[hobbit.]

Maybe they died.
..

they'd be a shit hot ghost then.

 

[InternationalFunboy]

It's been nearly a month and I agree with myself completely.

 

[silver gurl]

It's been nearly a month and I agree with myself completely.

It is always good to agree with one’s self

 

[thør]

It is always good to agree with one’s self

Who else is gonna listen?

 

[girlsmiley]

I know it's the new normal but being ghosted by someone sucks. I dont know if I did or say something to upset that person and if I did I like to know so I can apologize and learn from my mistakes. Does anyone feel this way or is just me

I'd just let it go and move on with your life. You may never know and it's probably better that way.

Seriously, the best advice.

It's happened to me before. Long time ago. We were going to meet etc. Sent a pic and she vanished. For a while there I thought maybe she thought I was ugly. Spoke to a mate about it and she told me to stop being silly. Some people just have things going on I guess. Very weird, but it happens.

 

[thør]

I'd just let it go and move on with your life. You may never know and it's probably better that way.

Seriously, the best advice.

It's happened to me before. We were going to meet etc. Sent a pic and she vanished. For a while there I thought maybe she thought I was ugly. Spoke to a mate about it and she told me to stop being silly. Some people just have things going on I guess. Very weird, but it happens.

Indeed. Sometimes people overthink stuff and it's just not worth worrying about.

 

[Fermina_Daza]

I was going to ghost this thread, but then I saw IFB and that, man, I can't ghost that cutie.

Unless he's American. Then his international status is no use to me.

 

[girlsmiley]

Indeed. Sometimes people overthink stuff and it's just not worth worrying about.

We were chatting for a while. Every day. I send her a pic and suddenly she's gone? It was the first thing that popped into my head. Am I ugly?

Didn't make me feel good about myself, but I got over it.

First and only time I've been ghosted. Not fun.

 

[CarlyAnn]

Maybe the Ghosters are married and never thought it would get to this point.

 

[thør]

Not fun at all.

But overthinking things can really be hard on folk.

 

[silver gurl]

Who else is gonna listen?

Just me, myself and I.

Unless he's American. Then his international status is no use to me.

True!
I picture IFB as a James Bond (ish) type of persona.

 

[girlsmiley]

Not fun at all.

But overthinking things can really be hard on folk.

At least tell me I'm hot first. Give a bitch a complex.

It can.

 

[girlsmiley]

Maybe the Ghosters are married and never thought it would get to this point.

Could be. Could be stinky feet.

 

[thør]

At least tell me I'm hot first. Give a bitch a complex.

It can.

I've not seen you, so I don't know for sure.

But, I've been told......

 

[DeluxAuto]

You weren't "ghosted" you just became intolerable. Why people need to make up a word for being an asshole is beyond me.

 

[InternationalFunboy]

At least tell me I'm hot first. Give a bitch a complex.

It can.

I don't know why this topic intrigues me so. I'm completely out of touch with how people date over the web. I've never been in touch with it really. I mean, I know how I would do it, like... lets pretend I was here posting, and you and I shared a few cheeky PMs. You would know my name is Chris and that I can make homemade pizza from scratch, including the dough. You're funny and diverse with a light misting of provocative subtext. I begin to look forward to your messages. If we lived in the same place - and this is key - I may ask if you wanted to meet up at a local spot. If you liked boys, and this boy more than some others, perhaps we'd be off. Or maybe not and become friendly, or maybe just become posters who met once. But the circle would be complete. I think the open-ended circle of being ghosted braids want for affection tightly with obsession, like so much French hair.

Also, your post sounds like Yoda.

 

[Conager]

In a fit of whimsy, I shall ghost the entire GB for an indeterminate length of time without checking out via the TTFN thread or rejoining via the Check In thread.

I'll be all, °~☆poof☆~°

And ya'll be like "where'd he go?"

And I'll be all casual lke when I go back abruptly to posting without even mentioning where I went, or what I did. . .

 

[DeluxAuto]

In a fit of whimsy, I shall ghost the entire GB for an indeterminate length of time without checking out via the TTFN thread or rejoining via the Check In thread.

I'll be all, °~☆poof☆~°

And ya'll be like "where'd he go?"

And I'll be all casual lke when I go back abruptly to posting without even mentioning where I went, or what I did. . .

Seek help.

 

[InternationalFunboy]

I was going to ghost this thread, but then I saw IFB and that, man, I can't ghost that cutie.

Unless he's American. Then his international status is no use to me.

I fancy myself a citizen of the world. The global HQ is in Austin but none of that matters now because I'm piqued, what scheme are you into this time? Guns? Diamonds? The technological readout of the literotica battle station? It's no moon, mama...

 

[Fermina_Daza]

I fancy myself a citizen of the world. The global HQ is in Austin but none of that matters now because I'm piqued, what scheme are you into this time? Guns? Diamonds? The technological readout of the literotica battle station? It's no moon, mama...

Damn, you are good. It was a diamond-bedazzled GUN (autocorrect keeps putting fun) with the technological readout gun with the technological readout of Lit embedded in the scope. Foiled again. Your handcuffs or mine?

 

[InternationalFunboy]

Just me, myself and I.

True!
I picture IFB as a James Bond (ish) type of persona.

Wow thanks! I would say I picture you to be like Honey Ryder, or Pussy Galore, but I think these sorts of playful names may be a tad past their shelf life. Unless maybe the shelf is in my house. In that case they sit next to candy cigarettes and key parties. But anyway, I cannot think of an archetype for you. You may be bigger than that, an admiring and curious observer...eating a bonbon, watching the world spin.

 

[MonaLittle]

No sorry, that's bullshit. A one-sentence explanation of any type would suffice, but anyone who would just split without a word is being a total asshole.

My

worth.


Comshaw

Totally Agree. People need to grow up and act like adults. Ghosting is a cheap and cowardly cop out.