Being comfortable being by yourself...

[Eumenides]

This is a terribly difficult thing for me to do. I hate eating out by myself, and get fast food instead to avoid this. I eat in front of the tv or the computer because I feel lonely sitting at my dinner table all by myself. It's hard to be with me sometimes.

Tonight, however, I had a date with myself. I ate at a restaraunt all by my lonesome, and it felt all right. It sounds like such a little thing, but for me it's a major step in feeling comfortable with who I am.

Does anyone else have troubles like these? Or something similar?

Do tell...

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

For me...it's a little different.

I don't mind, going out to eat alone.

I can go to movies alone.

Out for drinks alone. In fact, I have a spot, that I only go to, alone.

For me, it's being at home. That is where I feel the most ... lonely. And I find this a bit odd, because, this is MY apartment. I moved out of Mr La Fay's & my old house. Yet, I feel very alone at night here.

I'm rambling.

 

[Kalypso]

Hey hun...great topic!

I don't know how to say this without sounding Maria-ish from the Sound of Music...but I don't mind doing things by myself. I love to go to dinner by myself. I have a blast watching other people and imagining them speculating why I am by myself. I can see their looks and I smile brightly at them. Never minded doing this. Hell I even love going to the movies by myself...no agreeing on what to see, what to eat or where to sit or if the person I'm with minds me bringing a vibe

So sometimes it is good to treat yourself to yourself!

I'm going to do that right now! Mwah!

 

[Ice Cold]

I used to, but I got to enjoy my alone time. Nice and quiet I can eat alone, shop alone, go to the movies alone, and be on my time. Not responsible for anyone else. I don't have to worry about ignoring anyone. A good time to relax and collect my thoughts.

 

[LukkyKnight]

The Zen of Music.

How do you hold a moonbeam in your hand?

 

[perks]

quoting my new bible

"An artist must have downtime, time to do nothing. Defending our right to such time takes courage, conviction, and resiliency."


It is difficult, but it's a good thing to treat yourself, and in doing so, you build up your energy and are better to yourself and others.

Something I sometimes struggle with too, but it is getting easier, and the more I do it, the more refreshed and energized, and sould fed I feel after.

 

[Saint Peter]

Did your date put out??

 

[Eumenides]

Re: The Zen of Music.

How do you hold a moonbeam in your hand?

You don't. It holds you.

 

[Liontamr]

I don't really go out by myself. I'll go to a movie if I want to see one, but a bar or club or resturant? Forget it.

As for living alone... It's ok I guess. But I've always had my meals in front of a TV since I was a little kid, so I don't really know any other way! lol

That being in bed alone part can really suck sometimes though.

 

[Eumenides]

Did your date put out??

Not yet, but I'm holding out hope for later.


See how good your mind is for me, Ruffles?

 

[Saint Valentine]

This is a terribly difficult thing for me to do. I hate eating out by myself, and get fast food instead to avoid this. I eat in front of the tv or the computer because I feel lonely sitting at my dinner table all by myself. It's hard to be with me sometimes.

Tonight, however, I had a date with myself. I ate at a restaraunt all by my lonesome, and it felt all right. It sounds like such a little thing, but for me it's a major step in feeling comfortable with who I am.

Does anyone else have troubles like these? Or something similar?

Do tell...

You just described my entire life.

 

[Eumenides]

Re: Re: Being comfortable being by yourself...

You just described my entire life.

It's like facing a fear. Tonight it was almost like having an epiphany.

 

[Xander]

I seem to thrive on loneliness these days.

I dont mind eating out alone. I do however dislike cooking dinner and knowing that it is not to the benefit for anyone. Okay so I love to cook for people that perhaps would like it.

I dont mind going to the movies bymyself either. Most times I quite frankly prefer it.

I dont mind to go out for drinks by myself either. Standing around and having small talk with various people, or just observing everyone else is almost aa spectator sport to me.

I spend most of my time being alone. Through my work I very rarely go out into the real world anymore. But come spring it will change again (Second job)

For the most part I like my solitude. BUt I admit there are times where the loneliness gets to even me.

 

[bigjimgrayson]

This is a terribly difficult thing for me to do. I hate eating out by myself, and get fast food instead to avoid this. I eat in front of the tv or the computer because I feel lonely sitting at my dinner table all by myself. It's hard to be with me sometimes.

Tonight, however, I had a date with myself. I ate at a restaraunt all by my lonesome, and it felt all right. It sounds like such a little thing, but for me it's a major step in feeling comfortable with who I am.

Does anyone else have troubles like these? Or something similar?

Do tell...

I always bring a book to read on a solo dinner. It seems fun and decadent.

 

[perks]

Not yet, but I'm holding out hope for later.


See how good your mind is for me, Ruffles?

If you like my mind you should see my *cough* ruffles.

 

[crappie master]

Your eating alone habits sound just like mine, I very seldom eat at the table at home alone. Usually eat in front of the TV or at the computer desk. And when I'm by myself it usually the drive thru for me. On occasion I'll go to a tavern type place & sit at the bar and order a sandwich, but sitting at table by myself just seems lonelier.

 

[sufisaint]

being your own best friend..being comfortable in your own world...is where happiness truly begins...relax and enjoy yourself!

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

<removed for good reason>

 

[Eumenides]

Re: Re: Being comfortable being by yourself...

I always bring a book to read on a solo dinner. It seems fun and decadent.

I finished the play I was reading. Yes, it was sort of decadent.

Xander--I guess I just don't have the confidence to mix and mingle like that.


Ruffles...June.

 

[Eumenides]

Why does this thread remind me of that scene in Airplane?:

Rumack : Randy, are you alright?
Attndnt : Oh, Dr. Rumack, I'm scared. I've never been so scared.
And besides, I'm 26 and I'm not married.
Rumack : We're going to make it, you've got to believe that.
Woman3 : Dr. Rumack, do you have any idea when we'll be landing?
Rumack : Pretty soon, how are you bearing up?
Woman3 : Well, to be honest, I've never been so scared. But, at
least I have a husband. ( Randy sobs harder )

Um, cuz you think I'm being silly or something? I don't really know why, Bob.

 

[Saint Peter]

The worst part about going out to eat alone is when the foxy little hostess asks, "Just one tonight?"

 

[Eumenides]

The worst part about going out to eat alone is when the foxy little hostess asks, "Just one tonight?"

I beat her to it. Just one, smoking, please.

 

[bigjimgrayson]

Why does this thread remind me of that scene in Airplane?:

Rumack : Randy, are you alright?
Attndnt : Oh, Dr. Rumack, I'm scared. I've never been so scared.
And besides, I'm 26 and I'm not married.
Rumack : We're going to make it, you've got to believe that.
Woman3 : Dr. Rumack, do you have any idea when we'll be landing?
Rumack : Pretty soon, how are you bearing up?
Woman3 : Well, to be honest, I've never been so scared. But, at
least I have a husband. ( Randy sobs harder )

Shurly you must be kidding!

I'm not kidding, and don't call me shurly.

 

[SweetLuvin]

This is a terribly difficult thing for me to do. I hate eating out by myself, and get fast food instead to avoid this. I eat in front of the tv or the computer because I feel lonely sitting at my dinner table all by myself. It's hard to be with me sometimes.

Tonight, however, I had a date with myself. I ate at a restaraunt all by my lonesome, and it felt all right. It sounds like such a little thing, but for me it's a major step in feeling comfortable with who I am.

Does anyone else have troubles like these? Or something similar?

Do tell...

I love being alone! I work two jobs and Im always around people, its alot of fun to treat myself to dinner alone out at a restaraunt with a book or here at the house. Its nice to get some peace and quiet when 16 hours of your day is talking.

 

[Lost Cause]

I don't mind...

I like doing things alone, in complete control of my schedule. I do enjoy going out occasionally with someone, but am happy when I get back to the lost cave.