There is a very good chance that my days of being someone's first time are now all in my past. I have, um, deflowered a solid handful of virgins, but I think the last one happened while I was in my mid-30s (and even that is just a supposition on my part). Now that I'm in my early-40s, the chances of that happening again are becoming increasingly unlikely. A virgin in his mid-30s strikes me as probably very different from a 20-year-old virgin, so much so that the virginity of the younger one would be much more attractive to me than that of the older one. And the 20-year-olds in general are looking at me as a MILF at best, more likely as 'too damned old'.
I had a 6 month relationship with a woman of 36 when I was 22. I wasn't a virgin, but I did discover a lot that I didn't know.
Do you have reason to think you'd be his first? Ymmv, but for me it's a much bigger thrill to think that I am the first person beside himself to see and touch him while he's undressed and hard. Being 'better' than someone previous is fine, but I adore the thought that even just stroking him for a handjob is likely to wow him. ("That's a female hand! Not my hand!")Currently, there is a young man who lives in the house behind ours who I just learned is eighteen. He's cute in that aww shucks kind of way. I've wondered what it would be like if he came around looking for some odd jobs to do to make money before he heads off to college... I may or may not have let myself fantasize about that...
That was my fantasy.
In real life, I'm not sure. 
I had a similar social media exchange a couple of years ago. I am fairly certain he wasn't sniffing around to see if I was interested in hooking up. It just came up naturally. I had mentioned a certain party we attended almost two decades earlier, and he labeled it 'the night of [his] first blowjob'.. I was, like, "Oh really?" before realizing that I must have been the giver of that first beej. I had forgotten all about that aspect of the party, probably because I didn't know then that I was the first. Then he said something about everyone else vying for second place after me. I was flattered and all, but I thought it would be wise to steer the convo away, so I mentioned his wife by name. Sigh... he said about her that after fifteen years of marriage, she is down to giving head as an anniversary present. There was no safe off ramp from that, so I changed the subject completely.I remember that 'wow' reaction well from my college party days. There were several times I was told by a guy thay I was the first girl to go down on him. One of those guys recently told me, via social media, that I had ruined oral sex for him because no other woman had ever done it the way I had that first time. Of course, he was also trying to figure out if I might be interested in hooking up, so he could have been trying to flatter me...
Ah yes, the change the subject gambit. I've played that too...
You are under valuing yourself. You still sexy at 40s! And I am sure any young man would to love to experience you....
I would have asked for another dance...just a rub on my bulge would be nice enough
Almost word-for-word what I said as I was receiving my first. I told her my hand never felt as nice doing it.
I love handjobs and any young man getting one from older woman is going to be very well received due to the level excitement alone.
I like your thinking. Can I ask what is your attraction to the idea?
I feel like I'm teaching him everything he knows. Any woman who gets pleasure from him would be because of me. I guess it also plays into my m/s fantasies
And of course there is a sense of pleasure from providing your experience to a much younger man and enjoying the reactions right?
I can tell you... it's very special for the younger man.
