Beggining BDSM

[ShibbyShreds]

I recently started dating a girl who Ive been friends with for years but finally we realized how we felt about each other. Anyways, she is absolutely amazing in everyway, everything I could hope for. She has really started opening me up to the world of sub/dom relationships, in that she loves to be tied up, called a slut, to be dominated, she loves it when I pretend to use her. My question is are ther other things we can do to spice things up. Since seeing her, Ive discovered my fetish for panties, I enjoy wearing them, and I love to get myself off while strangling my balls with a pair of her panties. Do you guys have any ideas for a beggining couple trying to keep things interesting and new? Cant wait to hear the ideas, and thanks in advance!

-Shibby

 

[SweetErika]

Have you been through the BDSM Library sticky at the top of the main page? There are tons of ideas in there.

I'd also suggest each of you filling out a BDSM checklist, then sharing the results. I really like this Excel one because it's easy to change/add to, share, and there's a tab for each partner in the same file, but there are links for others in the Library and all over online. Doing these has given my partners and I tons of ideas of what we can do and not to do.

 

[ShibbyShreds]

Gracias

Thanks for the feedback Sweet. Ill check out that spreadsheet right now.

 

[Penalt]

Another thing I would highly recommend is constantly communicate to each other about how you are feeling about these new things you are trying. Giving feedback to each other is very important.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Another thing I would highly recommend is constantly communicate to each other about how you are feeling about these new things you are trying. Giving feedback to each other is very important.

That took the words right off of My keyboard.

 

[myinnerslut]

i always seem to say the same thing to this question, lol

try filling out a BDSM checklist. there are lots of things on it so you will find out her (and your) opinions on a large variety of topics.


(i thought the topic was begging bdsm when i first saw it... im so tired right now i cant even read)

 

[lil_slave_rose]

i always seem to say the same thing to this question, lol

try filling out a BDSM checklist. there are lots of things on it so you will find out her (and your) opinions on a large variety of topics.


(i thought the topic was begging bdsm when i first saw it... im so tired right now i cant even read)

you weren't alone in thinking it was Begging BDSM.....i believe, Beginning is spelled wrong...i thought i was the only one who saw it that way at first *giggles* anyway, good luck to the OP..and my best advice is take it slow and learn what each other likes.

 

[ShibbyShreds]

Its spelled right

I almost spelled beggining wrong before I posted it, but I happened to catch it before it was too late. Thanks for the great feedback everyone, I cant wait to post some of pics of our playtimes. Thanks everyone!

-Shibby

 

[myinnerslut]

I almost spelled beggining wrong before I posted it, but I happened to catch it before it was too late. Thanks for the great feedback everyone, I cant wait to post some of pics of our playtimes. Thanks everyone!

-Shibby

pictures!!!