Before she was your wife

[paulboulder]

I rather think it was Pinocchio...after all,he has growth potential

Plus Pinocchio is the only person who could lie about their penis size and actually get some benefits from lying....

 

[m_and_em_stories]

I have always felt all that really matters is they choose to be with you now. Would I want someone scrutinizing everything I ever did? So why do that to someone else.

I guess it comes down to the basis of the relationship and your view of their past.

Is knowing and sharing scrutinizing? Only if you take it to that level.

Being able to share and enjoy each other's experiences without judgement, and not judging your own experiences is a wonderful space to aim for.