Before she was your wife

I have always felt all that really matters is they choose to be with you now. Would I want someone scrutinizing everything I ever did? So why do that to someone else.

I guess it comes down to the basis of the relationship and your view of their past.

Is knowing and sharing scrutinizing? Only if you take it to that level.

Being able to share and enjoy each other's experiences without judgement, and not judging your own experiences is a wonderful space to aim for.
 
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