Bdsm

[~Avalon~]

It seemed fairly pertinent to this:

okay I figured that's where you were going with that.
But, I assume "the list" didn't include locking the fridge and telling her what to eat. The situation I was referring to seemed a bit more extreme.

 

[Hamletmaschine]

this must be why i alternate between wanting to vomit and wanting to laugh from some of the things i have read.

Laughing is better than vomiting in my experience.

Granted. If you're ok with being a dick.

Here's $5, kid, go buy yourself a sensayuma.

 

[Le Jacquelope]

dude, i'm so not going to spank him!

he's very obviously in need of a good spanking but i prefer to be the spankee.

if you want him happy, spank him yourself!
dress him up like killswitch on prom night, tell him he's a filthy whore then whip him for a while. he'll love you forever. he's on his knees & begging!

he bores me too much to respond to.
back on iggy.

Hahahahahhhahaahahahahaahaah!!!!

 

[Cade Is Here]

That's probably why this thread is here. The BDSM forum has no doubt had enough of Cade Is Here and Retrieval trying to scene.

Lol..never been in there buddy!!
But most people can't see you because you are on over 90% of users iggy list!!

 

[SweetCherry]

No kidding. They're such a dour bunch I always get confused when I go over there. Can't figure out if it's the BDSM Forum or Forum for Norwegian Presbyterians

I dunno. I post over there sometimes. I think some of 'em are pretty funny. Altho, I've never met a Norwegian Presvyterian. At least not to my knowledge. Maybe I have and just didn't know it, because they were funny and nice.

 

[MechaBlade]

hmm
I really do get what you're saying.
There really are plenty of people who can't tell it apart from good treatment.
In the case I described, if the woman is happy then more power to her. I just have a hard time believing that having every single aspect of your life controlled by someone could make anyone happy.
I don't think that all D/s relationships are abusive. But, I do think that your Master locking the fridge and controlling what you eat because you've gained 3lbs is abusive.

I don't think it is necessarily. If she disagrees with his judgment on the matter, she can always go out and eat a burger, or order a pizza or leave him. Abusive relationships leave little way to correct the situation. Consensual BDSM punishments are followed voluntarily.

i'd agree with this. the "best" "doms" i've experienced would never classify themselves as such

Aw, now that I finally self-identify as Dom, you guys go and change it up on me.

 

[Hester]

I read your thread about your pussy. Thank you for not putting yourself in the BDSM category.

Well, I'm sorry. If you come back over I'll make a point to friendly.

However, with you opinion of BDSM, I'm not sure why you'd want to be in there.

with posts like this you are making my point for me.

 

[Hester]

Aw, now that I finally self-identify as Dom, you guys go and change it up on me.

you're the real deal, label or no.

 

[JazzManJim]

I have a running thread over there since my first few weeks on Lit. They are the friendliest most embracing crowd on the forum in my opinion. Actually, they have a PYL rule (pick your own label) so call yourself whatever you wish. I go out of my way to be embracing to newbies that find themselves in the BDSM forum.

You may run up on some nit-pickers but they are much smaller size then GB's snark posse.

I've found the same thing.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Five years ago, everyone wanted to be a "dom" and I was a lone voice in the wilderness mocking the pomposity of that idea. Now that everyone has jumped bandwagons I'm coming out as pro DOM. The leather and all. The rules, the scenes, the muNch, all of it.

So, you are OK, Mecha.

 

[~Avalon~]

I don't think it is necessarily. If she disagrees with his judgment on the matter, she can always go out and eat a burger, or order a pizza or leave him. Abusive relationships leave little way to correct the situation. Consensual BDSM punishments are followed voluntarily.

I agree, I just don't agree that all women who are in bdsm relationships are in them for the right reasons.
I guess I just don't get it when it's that extreme. I totally get the less extreme versions though.

 

[MechaBlade]

Five years ago, everyone wanted to be a "dom" and I was a lone voice in the wilderness mocking the pomposity of that idea. Now that everyone has jumped bandwagons I'm coming out as pro DOM. The leather and all. The rules, the scenes, the muNch, all of it.

So, you are OK, Mecha.

So when is the coming out party? I need to find a leather tuxedo.

Thanks.

Have you ever been to a munch?

I agree, I just don't agree that all women who are in bdsm relationships are in them for the right reasons.
I guess I just don't get it when it's that extreme. I totally get the less extreme versions though.

Well, that's fine. I don't get people that get off by dressing up in animal outfits. But I agree with their right to do so.

 

[~Avalon~]

Well, that's fine. I don't get people that get off by dressing up in animal outfits. But I agree with their right to do so.

So do I, as I said, if she's happy, more power to her.

 

[Andraste]

So do I, as I said, if she's happy, more power to her.

or less power to her.

she likes it that way.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Have you ever been to a munch?

Yes, back before I joined the community of internet perverts. My experiences with "real world BDSM" crystallized my loathing of "the scene".

 

[MechaBlade]

or less power to her.

she likes it that way.

Clean the house.

Yes, back before I joined the community of internet perverts. My experiences with "real world BDSM" crystallized my loathing of "the scene".

I'm sorry to hear that.

I keep thinking my eventual meeting with BDSM minds will be inspiring and full of awe.

 

[Andraste]

Clean the house.

at 1:30am?

yeah right

 

[rosco rathbone]

Clean the house.


I'm sorry to hear that.

I keep thinking my eventual meeting with BDSM minds will be inspiring and full of awe.

YMMV as they say. One thing for sure, the internet has taken the main role in shaping that world now, and things might be very different with the ubiquity of online communities.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I agree, I just don't agree that all women who are in bdsm relationships are in them for the right reasons...

What exactly are the "right" reasons? There are so many differerent reasons why individuals are either submissive, dominant or switch. Or maybe I should ask what are the wrong reasons according to you?

 

[LateralMovement]

What exactly are the "right" reasons? There are so many differerent reasons why individuals are either submissive, dominant or switch. Or maybe I should ask what are the wrong reasons according to you?

Don't be too hard on her for saying "the right reasons". I'm supportive and really interested to the BDSM scene and the lifestyle but I do know that some people want it to be a replacement for professional mental or emotional care. Even people who are getting into a good thing can do it for the wrong reasons.

 

[~Avalon~]

What exactly are the "right" reasons? There are so many differerent reasons why individuals are either submissive, dominant or switch. Or maybe I should ask what are the wrong reasons according to you?

okay, someone like dollparts is into it for the wrong reasons, because she is incapable of thinking for herself.

 

[Le Jacquelope]

I agree, I just don't agree that all women who are in bdsm relationships are in them for the right reasons.
I guess I just don't get it when it's that extreme. I totally get the less extreme versions though.

Not everyone is into anything for the right reasons...

 

[LateralMovement]

Not everyone is into anything for the right reasons...

She was asked what she thought about the subject and she replied. Give her a break.

 

[Le Jacquelope]

She was asked what she thought about the subject and she replied. Give her a break.

LOL, actually I was agreeing with her. Sorry 'bout the ambivalence.

 

[~Avalon~]

LOL, actually I was agreeing with her. Sorry 'bout the ambivalence.

heh I totally didn't get it, which is why I didn't reply.
I suppose I could have said "huh?"