BDSM Wedding - What would yours be like?

[SigShooter]

Here is my idea.

I’ve envisioned a BDSM “wedding” as an official marking/date of a relationship scene. I'm not talking about a BDSM themed wedding. I'm referring to a scene where the focus is on the union of parties involved.

I’ve already got my ideas so I want to hear what your “Special Day” would look like. Let’s get specific and see how many stories can be spawned with the ideas. I’m looking for details like…

• Precession (Pre-ceremony rituals)
• Dress/Undress of the wedding party (including attendees if present)
• Token exchange (Collars, special jewelry, etc.)
• Vows
• The “Kiss”
• The Reception – First Dance, Throwing the garter/bouquet, etc.

Let’s have fun and see what brews. Even if you don’t have all the details of your perfect day, share what any one component would look like.

Let’s hear it!!

 

[satindesire]

My perfect BDSM wedding would be fully Western/Christian Tradition in a large church while I'm wearing a massive tulle skirted princess gown and a huge tiara, and dripping with diamonds, surrounded by hundreds of people that love me.

Not very exciting, I know, but a girl can dream.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I'm not getting how a bdsm themed wedding and a scene focusing on the union of the 2 people are different things?

 

[seela]

I'm not getting how a bdsm themed wedding and a scene focusing on the union of the 2 people are different things?

I suppose the scene would be just that, a scene in front of other people. The bdsm themed wedding would also be official business, making them husband and wife, or husband and husband, or wife and wife.

But still the difference, other than the legality of the union after the ceremony, is something I don't really get.

I've never thought about anything remotely connected to this topic, as I detest pretty much all rituals and ceremonies revolving around BDSM, so I'm no use for the OP.

 

[SigShooter]

OK. So maybe I should have left out the first 2 sentences to set the stage.

Here is what I was thinking.

The "bride" would be dressed minimally, while the "groom" would be somewhat more modestly and the wedding party would match accordingly.

The "Kiss" would involve Oral Servitude and the Reception would include the "Groom" sharing the "Bride's" delights with the attendees and the guests. (Group Activity)

("Groom" & "Bride" are not gender specific.)

Just as a disscussion starter.

Now, let's hear what you think.

 

[satindesire]

OK. So maybe I should have left out the first 2 sentences to set the stage.

Here is what I was thinking.

The "bride" would be dressed minimally, while the "groom" would be somewhat more modestly and the wedding party would match accordingly.

The "Kiss" would involve Oral Servitude and the Reception would include the "Groom" sharing the "Bride's" delights with the attendees and the guests. (Group Activity)

("Groom" & "Bride" are not gender specific.)

Just as a disscussion starter.

Now, let's hear what you think.

No. Not no, but HELLS NO.

I think weddings are way more sacred than something to be turned into a gigantic orgy. Turning something beautiful, a tradition or a ceremony between two people that are promising to love each other into a gangbang? What the hell, man?

This squicks me out on a whole 'nother level.

 

[Nina327]

I believe you , the OP, have misconstrued Marriage with a collaring ceremony all wrapped up in wank fantasies of B-rated porn materials..

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

No. Not no, but HELLS NO.

I think weddings are way more sacred than something to be turned into a gigantic orgy. Turning something beautiful, a tradition or a ceremony between two people that are promising to love each other into a gangbang? What the hell, man?

This squicks me out on a whole 'nother level.

Awww, what's wrong with "I now pronounce you husband and wife, you may now suck the husband's dick" ?


lol, freals though, I'd agree. Yes, we have a D/s relationship. If we get married, it will a regular wedding ceremony, it will be beautiful, it will be special, with meaningful words spoken in front of loved ones.

We'll get our freak on during the honeymoon, not the reception.

 

[blonde_duchess]

Interesting.. let's see I think I would like him to be wearing a kilt and the ceremony to take place on the Scotland coast, windy maybe even at midnight or late evening with 2 grey metal torches my our sides and I would be wearing thin white dress, naked underneath per his desire and gothic crown but most importantly I would be on my knees with a huge gold cuff bracelet lock type collar on my neck and some type of leash and the pagan?priest would have to have a wicked look on his face. and be a bit malevolent like christopher lee and i would have to be fucked by more than my groom on my wedding night....

 

[catalina_francisco]

We didn't do anything much different to your average couple getting married. I had my leather collar on but other than that no-one else would have known the type of commitment we were entering into was any different unless told so. It was small with only witnesses and a couple of family members and we went to a bar afterward with everyone for a snack and cold drinks. Sorry I have nother mind blowing to offer.

Catalina