BDSM - Top/Bottom on the GB is Trendy

[lavender]

I see all of these women with their hands bound or in other seemingly submissive positions on the board these days.

Is pseudo-BDSM the pseudo-intellectualism of the 21st century.

I must say I find it rather disturbing.


I never knew conforming and sexuality went hand in hand.

I have no problem with what it represents, for I like a splash of neopolitan in my life. But, I believe sexuality is something that is within that you feel - not something where you follow the crowd.

Amy likes it up the ass, therefore, I have to like it up the ass. It's what all the cool kids are doing.

 

[Freya]

I see all of these women with their hands bound or in other seemingly submissive positions on the board these days.

Is pseudo-BDSM the pseudo-intellectualism of the 21st century.

I must say I find it rather disturbing.


I never knew conforming and sexuality went hand in hand.

KM already did this thread. It was insulting then, and this doesn't seem much better.

 

[Mischka]

I like big glass dildos and the smell of fresh-cut grass. If that makes me a conformist, so be it.

 

[lavender]

No, KMs thread was different - you folks just couldn't see the difference. I'm coming right out and saying it.

I'm sorry, but I find it to be antithetical to what female sexuality in the 21st century is supposed to be about. It's not about being a strong woman or a dominant woman. I have no problem with submissives. I have a bit of that streak in me.

What I have a problem with is not being true to yourself. You have to admit, it looks more like sexual peer pressure than anything.

 

[perks]

I was wondering why I like cock up my ass, thanks.

I'm going to have to thank Amy. Who is Amy again?

 

[Mischka]

Lav, there's a big cross-over between the boards. Nothing pseudo about it.

 

[Mia62]

Gee..

You mean you don't like my av?

 

[lavender]

I like big glass dildos and the smell of fresh-cut grass. If that makes me a conformist, so be it.

You like Dr. Demento, ergo, you are not a conformist. (thank god that statement is true )

 

[lavender]

I was wondering why I like cock up my ass, thanks.

I'm going to have to thank Amy. Who is Amy again?

Amy is my inner slut that likes it rough. She was talking to you the other day, ooh baby ooh baby.

 

[Freya]

No, KMs thread was different - you folks just couldn't see the difference. I'm coming right out and saying it.

I'm sorry, but I find it to be antithetical to what female sexuality in the 21st century is supposed to be about. It's not about being a strong woman or a dominant woman. I have no problem with submissives. I have a bit of that streak in me.

What I have a problem with is not being true to yourself. You have to admit, it looks more like sexual peer pressure than anything.

Why do I have to admit that? Because you said it, so it must be so? Bullshit Lav. Once again you're imposing your judgements on things you know nothing about.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Lavender, I'm beginning to feel that you're not happy unless your feet are in the fire.

 

[lavender]

Submissive female avatars are the playboy centerfolds of December 2002 on the board.

 

[perks]

Amy is my inner slut that likes it rough. She was talking to you the other day, ooh baby ooh baby.

that must have been someone else, I'm celibate. I can so make that trendy.

 

[lavender]

Lavender, I'm beginning to feel that you're not happy unless your feet are in the fire.

Ruby,

I've never been one to hold my tongue on this board. If I think something or see something, I say it.

I have noticed this trend lately. That's all. I'm wondering what it's all about.

Have you really not noticed it?

 

[lavender]

that must have been someone else, I'm celibate. I can so make that trendy.

If celibacy is trendy, I want to be the most uncool kid on the block.

 

[Pyper]

Freya's AV is sending me a subliminal message, but I can't quite figure out what it is.

 

[Mischka]

I'm sorry, but I find it to be antithetical to what female sexuality in the 21st century is supposed to be about.

Lit is not representative of female sexuality in the 21st century. It's representative of the people who post here. There's a big ol' BDSM Forum two doors down. And even though I have no sub tendencies, I quite like the Christmas light avs. The lighting is nice.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Maybe it's because all the hot guys are doms. You know that.

 

[perks]

I think they should make peppermint striped cunt, so I can have an av of me licking that.


although, I'm not sure I've ever given a completely submissive blowjob to a big minty stick.

 

[Mia62]

Lavender, I'm beginning to feel that you're not happy unless your feet are in the fire.

It seems that way lately, doesn't it?

Ok...lav...here ya go.

I happen to like Colgate toothpaste. BUT, wait...Mr. Jones also likes Colgate...does that mean we are copying each other? No...it means that we both like Colgate toothpaste.

Believe it or not...many of the people around here happen to enjoy the same sorts of things. Those who don't post in other threads or areas.

Hence the political threads...the religion threads...the asshole threads...the drama threads (of which you are getting really good at, btw) and the everpresent BDSM and flirt threads.

Does any of that make sense?

 

[Sillyman]

It could just be a lot of submissive women are running around.


And contrary to popular belief there are many fat ugly Dom guys out there.

 

[Mischka]

Maybe it's because all the hot guys are doms. You know that.

Ick.

(I'll just pretend it's the liquor talking there. )

 

[lavender]

The addage is, if you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen. Since I can take the heat, I might as well plunge into the oven.

Ruby and Freya, this was totally not directed at you. I have read your posts over the ages. To be honest, I saw "Mia's" avatar and about choked.

A puppy who has been without his owner all day needs less attention than that.

 

[Rhys]

Somebody mention me?


(edited to add because I forgot to quote. This was in reference to the Dom Guy comment)

 

[Freya]

Possibly those same people who are doing it now felt that they'd be judged by some closed minded person before.


It's no different than anything else - once it becomes more "socially" acceptable, others will feel freer to do what they weren't comfortable doing before. Doesn't mean they are following some trend, just that they become more free to be themselves. I have AVs of myself in those positions - I could check the dates on them for you, but they were taken months ago - it's not like I thought "Oh hey, this is the cool thing to do, I guess I'll follow everyone else".