BDSM Ideas For My Husband?!?

[jgirl]

Hello everyone,
Its been awhile since i have posted (real world and kids) and i hope everyone is doing well.

We are going to be 'children free' for a week coming up and are looking to make the most of it and i am looking for some ideas. We enjoy a great sexual relationship and have a lots of fun but here is what i need help on. My husband likes the BDSM twist and, while i dont mind giving him what he wants, i have trouble coming up with ideas. In the past he has to basically tell me what he wants me to do and i want to surprise him with my own ideas. It's not that i dont like it when I receive it, I just dont have the twisted thinking that he does, lol.

We have lots of toys we use and last time i used handcuffs, candle wax, clothespin, and a little whip but most of that was ideas he gave me. We have also used a strap-on (strap on thread around page 38 but they took our pics down ) and had fun with that.

So my dilemma is to come up with a way to surprise him. I dont think kinky enough I guess or at least not to his level so i need some kinky thinkers to help out.

Anyway, if you guys can help with some ideas maybe I can post some pictures of it when we are finished!

Thanks!

Jill

 

[FurryFury]

I would recommend figging though I'd be careful with it a lot of men seem to have more trouble with it than women.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=350814

Or perhaps some temperature play of other kinds.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=357866

Of course a lot depends on what turns you on, what turns him on and where those things happen to find commonality. Have y'all done one of those BDSM interest checklists?

http://ms.ha.md.us/~tammad/over21/b...-checklist.html
http://smvillage.com/Modules/checklist2/default.asp
http://www.asubmissivesjourney.com/bdsm_checklist.html
http://members.aol.com/MasterNik/BDSMCheckList.html
http://www.domsubfriends.com/library/question1.shtml
http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/checklst.html

That way you'd know what he was into and vice versa.

Does he like a spanking? Try roses, both the soft end and the thorny end. They feel a lot like a switch IMO on the long stem part.

Don't forget to follow safety rules. Have water set aside to wash stuff off if it's really too hot or tweezers to pick thorns out (though we didn't need them), whatever you might need. It's better safe than sorry and all that stuff.

Whatever you do, have fun! I love time like this! It's rare and wonderful!

Fury