Bad girl or good girl?

[gspothero]

Bad girl or good girl, what are the differences? And is a bad girl different from a slut?

When I was growing up, I knew guys who would say there are some girls who will they will date and consider marrying and some who they will just have fun with. I didn't buy into that notion then and I thought maybe the concept had faded away. I guess that the things a girl does or doesn't do to be called a good girl or a bad girl have changed, but it looks like the labels persist.

"Good girls go to Heaven - Bad girls go every where else"

I want to know how the Lit community defines these labels.

 

[ima6uldv8]

I would say that it depends on the person doing the defining, to a certain extent. I consider myself a good bad girl buut I'm sure I'm tame compared to some others.

 

[theunknown2008]

Bad girl or good girl, what are the differences? And is a bad girl different from a slut?

When I was growing up, I knew guys who would say there are some girls who will they will date and consider marrying and some who they will just have fun with. I didn't buy into that notion then and I thought maybe the concept had faded away. I guess that the things a girl does or doesn't do to be called a good girl or a bad girl have changed, but it looks like the labels persist.

"Good girls go to Heaven - Bad girls go every where else"

I want to know how the Lit community defines these labels.

I never bought in the whole idea that a woman who sleeps around is a slut. It would make me a hypocrit because I sleep around so what female friends I have, some I have encouraged them to sleep around, usually only the ones just out of long bad marriages/relationships. I don't buy the whole bad girl, good girl label. From my experience the 'good girls" are usually the freakiest of the the two. The "bad girls" are just enjoying life, sex, and the variety that the world offer and I say, good for them.

 

[gspothero]

I would say that it depends on the person doing the defining, to a certain extent. I consider myself a good bad girl buut I'm sure I'm tame compared to some others.

Thanks -
I'm looking for your definition - so what is a good bad girl?

 

[liv21]

I'm a good girl. My fiance thinks I'm marriage material. I've only slept with one guy. I just do "bad" things. I've got a few piercings, take it in the ass, and have (multiple) loud orgasms. There are a lot of girls like me--good girls doing bad things. So where does that leave the bad girl label?
I think the only way to define a bad girl is a woman who has little respect for herself or anyone else, or someone with a lot of arrogance.

 

[Black13]

Bad girls have pride, sluts do not.

I prefer good girls. They have all the pride without a lot of the drama.

 

[gspothero]

Hi Liv,
Thanks for good (I think) answer! I agree that you are a very good girl - except for the problem that I don't think you have any skiing skills, I would like to hook up with your clone.

Can a girl have recreational sex and still be a good girl?

 

[Black13]

Hi Liv,
Thanks for good (I think) answer! I agree that you are a very good girl - except for the problem that I don't think you have any skiing skills, I would like to hook up with your clone.

Can a girl have recreational sex and still be a good girl?

Ask yourself if you're a good person. Hopefully you answer yes.

 

[panagiotis]

The definition of good and bad in human relationships depends on what you expect from the significant other... A woman described as slut by a man, could be the ideal match for another!

In Greece we say a joke: A bad girl fucks with everyone, a slut fucks with everyone except me

 

[tocurpussy]

Good girl -- Female who has fantasies about sexual need's, want's, and desire's, but never act's upon them.
Bad girl -- Female who has fantasies about sexual need's, want's, and desire's who actually goes out and fullfill's them.

Now with what I just said, there is nothing wrong with either type of woman. One is no worse or better off than the other. The whole stigma connected to the ( quote) 2 types of woman is based solely on how other people perceive them. One person's bad girl could be another's dream girl and vice versa. It's just boiled down to what other people's interpatation is.