Avoiding the Size issue

[TC1017]

Good call kaycee217

 

[TC1017]

Thank you curiousbeth

 

[kimbernee]

I played strip poker about six years ago with my best friend, ex-girlfriend and two of her girlfriends, of course I lost, exposing myself to everyone but I didn’t get any remarks until about a year later when my girlfriend asked me not to skinny dip at beach party. It just about killed her to tell me this; she was crying because she didn’t want to hurt my feelings, but her two friends gave her so much grief about my small size before she did not want to go through that again.

I suddenly don't believe this story anymore. I don't see why any woman would care about the size of your junk when you're not hard. There's not even a predictable correlation to draw from, not to mention that I would think most guys would know that the size, when soft, varies from moment to moment, especially while skinny dipping.

I change my vote to "OP making the whole thing up."

 

[silverwhisper]

kimbernee quoth:
i don't see why any woman would care about the size of your junk when you're not hard. there's not even a predictable correlation to draw from, not to mention that i would think most guys would know that the size, when soft, varies from moment to moment, especially while skinny dipping.

for what reason would someone make up something of this sort, exactly? b/c while certainly all of what you say re: flaccid/erect states is true, you are assuming that this knowledge is universal in making that accusation, and i really don't think that's a valid assumption.

ed

 

[kimbernee]

A woman should know there's no correlation between erect/non-erect size, unless she's only ever been with one man. A man should know that the size of his non-erect penis varies throughout the day.

So a woman teasing another woman about the size of her BF's non-erect penis is non-sensible. And a man who wouldn't know to defend himself with "shrinkage" is clueless.

If you need to know why someone would make this up. go to the BDSM forum. It's a kink.

 

[silverwhisper]

kimbernee quoth:
so a woman teasing another woman about the size of her BF's non-erect penis is non-sensible. and a man who wouldn't know to defend himself with "shrinkage" is clueless.

granted...but then again, a lot of stuff that HT regulars take for granted is not universally known. we see it time and again every week here, kimbernee. it isn't one of the perennials like "how do i get my [relative] to sleep with me" or "how do i introduce [kink]" question, but it does crop up fairly often.

kimbernee quoth:
if you need to know why someone would make this up. go to the BDSM forum. it's a kink.

in which case, responses like your initial one serve to give the OP what he's after, no?

ed

 

[TC1017]

I suddenly don't believe this story anymore. I don't see why any woman would care about the size of your junk when you're not hard. There's not even a predictable correlation to draw from, not to mention that I would think most guys would know that the size, when soft, varies from moment to moment, especially while skinny dipping.

I change my vote to "OP making the whole thing up."

Hello kimbernee

As I said, it was about six years ago and we were in highschool then. It may sound stupid now and I think she always regretted saying it to me. But lets faces it, we were together for a long time after that and she said my size never effected our sex life; we experimented with all kinds of stuff to make it work. To bad we just developed different hobbies and grew apart. I am really ok with my size, all I am really looking for is how to approach the issue before we are in to deep and someone is hurt or disappointed.