Average Size?

[horny_boi]

Hi
i don't know if this has been posted of not before.. I'm just curious about this.
What would be average size of a guy's dick? (guys thats kinda your question)
and girls, Does size matter ALOT ? I know some would say it doesn't matter, but does it REALLY?

Also Its probably a guy thing but im quite sensitive about the whole size issue..so much so I'm actually kind of scared of not living up the girls expectations

 

[Bobmi357]

402 feet measured from tip to base.

But seriously, its not the size of the engine, but the skill of the driver that matters. Unless your abnormally short, even an average sized dick can work wonders, especially with coupled with some good fingering and licking.

And for what its worth, the average size dick is 5-6inches. And while you're pondering it, the average vagina is only about 4-5 inches deep. So you end up asking yourself, what good is a 12 inch cock if you have to leave 6-7 inches hanging out in the cold?

 

[horny_boi]

thanks for your reply ~
I'd also like to apologise there is a similar post on the next page "does size matter" but it didn't quite anwser my question

 

[littleliargirly]

I've been with men w/ small dicks and with HUGE dicks and married a man in the 5 inch range. What matter is chemistry, other skills and how you treat the person out of bed. The smallest was the circumference of a quarter and maybe 2 inches, but he turned me on with his intellect and his other skills, a simple kiss would get me sooo wet. He was, in bed, confident and knew his short comings so more eager to please me than lots of other men I'd been with. THe biggest dick I'd been with was a selfish ass and once was enough. PM me if your looking for something more specific..

 

[freddyandeddy]

Go here and here. No other resources needed.

 

[sultresweetie]

Um... you should probably put more weight in the female perspective...no offense Bob...

There are different types of stimulation when it comes to penetration, boi. With the BIG DICK there is an intense feeling associated with being "filled" or stretched. Also, there is a spot in the curve just below the cervix that when it's tapped will bring intense contractions and orgasm...kinda like the G spot. When a women is aroused the cervix ascends to lengthen the vaginal canal. I have easily taken 10 inches-depending on the position. Although it is true that nerve endings and sensation is concentrated around the vaginal entrance, the combination of long, deep strokes coupled with the tapping on the cervix is FAAAAAANTASTIC. My orgasm with the big dick is more of a steady intense feeling, and doesn't peak as much before I cum.

With the small or even average penis(I think more like 4-5 inches), the stimulation comes from more repeatitive and steady strokes along with the angle of the thrusts. there is a lil spot just inside and to the top of the vaginal opening that when tapped or rubbed with steady strokes creates the most intense orgasms I have ever had. The orgasm is a steady building to an intense peak and followed by a steady descent after orgasm.

My advice to you would be learn to find that G spot and STAMINA STAMINA STAMINA. You don't have to thrust so wildly, as just be able to maintain that thrusting action for a few. I think for a lot of women it is difficult to orgasm from this type of stimuli. Which is why the stuffing and or the clitoral stimuli is preferred.

I can O from all three sensations... LOVELY.

 

[horny_boi]

sultresweetie

Very nice reply thanks Can i ask, out of the 2 feelings, with larger and average,
which one brought the most pleasure ? if it's compareable that is

oh side note. I am around the 6 inch.. 18 years old

 

[sultresweetie]

sultresweetie

Very nice reply thanks Can i ask, out of the 2 feelings, with larger and average,
which one brought the most pleasure ? if it's compareable that is

oh side note. I am around the 6 inch.. 18 years old

The most intense orgasm I ever had was with a smaller than average penis...around 4 inches. He worked me for about an hr going quick, then slow, then quick again-but a steady motion. I came so intensely that I clamped down on his dick and yanked it inward- never heard a man shriek like that! heheheheheee...

 

[sultresweetie]

I should note though, that they are different, and I can't really say one is "better" than the other. I suppose it's preference, and his more to do with your disposition. For example, I prefer penetration over clitoral stimulation. It takes a long time for me to build an O with the clitoris, and the orgasm is quick and sharp... I imagine much like the male orgasm. I prefer the "achy" build up and then slow release...mmmmmm

Have you ever had anal performed on you?

 

[horny_boi]

umm no i havent...
I'd be willing to try anything once though

this is why i love lit, Im quite in experienced compared to some of the people(uhh most of them actually ) but after reading and asking questions it gives me more ideas of things to try and helpfull hints hehe

thank you very much for your replys sultres !!
your a real sweetie
thanks

 

[asiasiren]

I find discomfort with anything over 7 inches. Anythning over that and I need to keep them backed off a bit or it just isn't enjoyable. I am a small girl and that may be the reason. What I do enjoy is width. That is what makes me feel full and just hits the spots that need to be hit. 4 to 6 inches seem to be good working lengths as long as they are wide enough to make me feel full.
No matter the length unless there is but a nub there, it is all in how it is used. Of course, maybe even that nub could give the clit a fantastic workout.

 

[Meat Whistler]

I'll respond, as a woman who has had more anal and oral sex than vaginal intercourse. Because of my interests, I prefer a smaller cock, as opposed to a larger cock. I find that small to average cocks suit my desires just fine.

Don't worry about the size of your penis. If your partner has a problem with the size of your cock (and they aren't willing to work with you), I would question their place in your life.

 

[College_geek]

Personally, anything over 8 inches scares me. I'm talking appearance-wise here, because I have no experience with one in me...well, only in my hand and mouth. My boyfriend's is 5 1/2 to 6 inches, depending on it's hardness, and you know what? I wouldn't change it for the world. Granted I haven't experienced any other size, but at this point, I don't want to. I have high gag reflexes, so his being on the average size lets me perform oral on him. If he was much bigger than that, then he'd have to settle for me only working with the first 3 inches or so. I love it because it's hand size, so it's perfectly for easy gripping, as sometimes I do just like to hold it in my hand. Some women like larger, some women like smaller, some women just don't care about size, the care about the technique. I guess you could say that in a lot of cases, it can follow the "quality, not quantity" rule. And as a girl the same age as you, I have to say that too many guys (and even girls), our age and older, are waaaaay too tied up with size.

 

[Guest]

The average penis is from 4 to 6 inches, and that's measured from the pubic bone, so there's actually about 1 1/2 inches that you can't even see. Most women I've been with weren't concerened about size. Your penis is just one tool a guy has to please a woman. We also have mouths, hands, tounges, etc. I try to use everything. Stamina isn't as much of a problem if you can get her squirming before you even put your cock inside of her. If you can do that, she'll be cumming rather quickly. At least with most of the women I've been with.

Theres much more to sex than cocks and pussies.

 

[DevilishTexan]

Woohoo! On the penis length survey I went past the largest length, lol love when that happens!!!


Women are only 5-6" deep? Um, I have to disagree with that. I've introduced myself to many a cervix and I can tell you, the avg woman is actually around 7" deep.

If the avg. woman was only 5-6" deep you wouldn't see any women in porn handling 7-12" like they do!

 

[frisky-leo]

As the saying goes: There is a match for everyone.

I myself like it a good size, but not really huge! Right now I am seeing a guy who is average, about 5, and I love it!

Pluse he knows how to use it.

 

[SexyChele]

Women are only 5-6" deep? Um, I have to disagree with that. I've introduced myself to many a cervix and I can tell you, the avg woman is actually around 7" deep.

If the avg. woman was only 5-6" deep you wouldn't see any women in porn handling 7-12" like they do!

Disagree all you wish, but it doesn't change facts. Average vagina length (not aroused) is 3 inches. When aroused, the vagina extends from 3.75" to 4.1". However, the tissue in the vagina is remarkably stretchy and will take objects larger than that. How do I know this? Other than the fact that I am a female, this quote:

Average Vagina Size
3 inches along the posterior wall with a diameter of 0.8 inches, though in stimulated phase it balloons to 3.75-4.1 in long by 2.3-2.5 inches in diameter.

Taken from this website: Sexual Records

This will also give anyone information on all that is considered "average" - for both men and women.

 

[SexyChele]

Hi
i don't know if this has been posted of not before.. I'm just curious about this.
What would be average size of a guy's dick? (guys thats kinda your question)
and girls, Does size matter ALOT ? I know some would say it doesn't matter, but does it REALLY?

Also Its probably a guy thing but im quite sensitive about the whole size issue..so much so I'm actually kind of scared of not living up the girls expectations

*sigh* Sorry, but these questions do get a bit tiresome after a while. I would never, ever, under any conditions ask a man what is average for dick size. Most men will tell you 8 - 9 inches, and all men have dicks that are at least 7". And every word of it is false.

You want to satisfy a woman? You want her begging for more, over and over? Simple. Forget the dick only mentality. Learn to use your tongue and get aquainted with the female anatomy. Yeah, I like a dick pounding into me, but what sends me over the top is a man who is eating my pussy - and knows what the heck he is doing and enjoys doing it! Heck, I can fuck my own pussy with a variety of toys that I have, so I really don't need a dick. But that tongue action? That alone will keep me coming back.

But, if you insist on knowing what "average" women think, then perhaps the following information, gotten from here will help

long as a pole short as a button

4.4 inches or less:

During the first stages of arousal, women's vaginas expand more than necessary in order to welcome a foreign object that it hasn't had the chance to size up. Then, after a few moments, the vagina closes back and tightens softly around the intrusive object.
This can be used to your advantage by riding high against her without penetration. Then instead of thrusting inside her, rub against her pubic bone. The next step involves inserting a finger to allow the vagina to expand slowly. It will open up to fit the size of your finger for a couple of minutes, then you should insert your penis. Since the vagina closes down on your finger, you'll get a tighter fit and your partner will have the impression that you are actually bigger.

A very careful trim of the pubic area will make you look an inch longer, by cutting around the base of the penis. A word of caution - make sure you haven't drinking before you snip.

4.4 to 6.5 inches:

A man that learns how to control his penetration level and rhythm, knows how to tease a woman. Most of the vagina's nerves are located in its outer part, where an average sized man can better target this highly erogenous zone by entering from the top, while the partner lies with her legs flat, stretched out on the bed. This improves the stimulation and pleasure level for both of you.

6.6 inches plus:

You may think that you are at an advantage over some men, but most women will agree that having the backs of their vaginas struck during intercourse is actually quite painful. Sometimes, the feeling for women can be similar to that excruciating sensation that men have when struck in the testicles. In other words: don't thrust too deeply into your partner. I recommend that you lie down on your back and let your partner ride you with her knees on the bed. This will allow her to control both the penetration and the rhythm, ultimately setting her own comfort level.


Not all men or women are created equal, but that doesn't mean you can't share intimate moments without enjoying yourself. Every experience can be fulfilling for both of you as long as you understand and accept your physical characteristics.

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Hi,

You may have seen some of my thoughts on the omg, it's so big thread but to elaborate in a more explanatory manner -- the main reasons that huge guy was so good was a combo of Great foreplay technique and confidence. The first can be learned and the second can come from having the former.

The Worst sex I ever had was from small guys -- and for reasons that had nothing to do with their size. It was like they wanted to get it over quick before I noticed or something. In other words, lousy foreplay and no confidence.

On the other hand, a huge cock can feel wonderful, even if the woman is small inside. And, if this is something your woman likes, you can use toys or your fingers. Width is more important than length, as if the guy really is long, it just won't all go in. 'Course this is more a problem for the poor guy hanging out in the cold than it is for the woman.

Just find someone you feel Lots of lust for and comfortable enough with that you can spend lots of time exploring and playing and you will do fine. Btw, more important than certain techniques is paying attention to the body language expressions, etc of the particular woman you are with. Feel for things like if her skin is getting warmer and more velvety from what you do. Breathe with her. Get into her mental space. Trust your instincts. And remember she's there because she wants You, all of you, not just your dick.

btw, there are always things that will be better or worse, bigger or smaller than the other guy. You may have a really agile tongue, sensitive fingers, a highly creative mind. Develop those rather than worrying about what's unchangeable.

 

[cg_allstar]

What, another penis size question? I can't believe it. How 'bout this for an answer? If you have to ask, you're small.

 

[N8Dreams]

Go here and here. No other resources needed.

Thank you for your links.
I agree in most contributions
Not size, technique and stamia matters.

Read a scientific publication where was written men last av. for 4 min. Thats too short, obviously.
And why discuss about length? In my opinion circumference has more impact.

 

[WatchMe/WatchU]

Re: Re: Average Size?

*sigh* Sorry, but these questions do get a bit tiresome after a while. I would never, ever, under any conditions ask a man what is average for dick size. Most men will tell you 8 - 9 inches, and all men have dicks that are at least 7". And every word of it is false.

You want to satisfy a woman? You want her begging for more, over and over? Simple. Forget the dick only mentality. Learn to use your tongue and get aquainted with the female anatomy. Yeah, I like a dick pounding into me, but what sends me over the top is a man who is eating my pussy - and knows what the heck he is doing and enjoys doing it! Heck, I can fuck my own pussy with a variety of toys that I have, so I really don't need a dick. But that tongue action? That alone will keep me coming back.

I am glad to hear this. I am not tiny, but not huge either. I believe I am somewhere between 6 and 7 inches, with being closer to the 6 inch side. I haven't really measured, so I could be a little off. I am sorta thick, or so I have been told. But what I am glad to hear is that women really do enjoy having a guy please her orally. I LOVE to go down on a woman. If we were to strip and she allowed me to eat her pussy for hours I would be perfectly happy. I am one who likes to please, but also derives pleasure from allowing my mate to watch me being pleasured. So I guess I like to mix it up too. Do you ladies find that a lot of the men you are with love to eat your pussy as much as I like to? It is such a huge turn on to feel your lover writhing around while you inhale their scent and taste their juices, mmmmmm. Ok, I am ready for round 1, whose up for it?

 

[horny_boi]

oh thank you all for the great replys
I love giving oral and using my hands and perfecting technique, i am also a guy who loves to see my girl being pleasured and love to make her cum probably even more than i'd enjoy it myself

cg_allstar

What, another penis size question? I can't believe it. How 'bout this for an answer? If you have to ask, you're small.

I don't know if you intended it , but that came out kind of rude.
and if you bothered to understand where i was coming from it wasen't really the size thing i was interested in. I was more interested in the difference of size's and how it affects the pleasure

 

[cg_allstar]

cg_allstar

I don't know if you intended it , but that came out kind of rude.
and if you bothered to understand where i was coming from it wasen't really the size thing i was interested in. I was more interested in the difference of size's and how it affects the pleasure

Hang around long enough and you'll see that I post something like that in all the "dick size" threads. Which brings me to my next point. Learn to use the search function. You're question has been done many times before.

 

[horny_boi]

Hang around long enough and you'll see that I post something like that in all the "dick size" threads. Which brings me to my next point. Learn to use the search function. You're question has been done many times before.

i used the search and found several threads but after reading them didn't fully anwser what i wanted to know