Average looking guys--Pretty women--How common is this problem?

[RastaPope]

Now, I know, by all accounts, that I'm not very good looking man. Just how it is, I don't really mind nor care.

Now, I find that when I'm in a public place with a pretty girl at my side, a girl who should obviously be out of my league(whether friend or date), that I often have to deal with good looking, attractive men approaching said girl. I find this really, really exasperating. I mean, at least wait till I've gone to the bathroom or something. But no, this happens when we're both sitting at our table, or at the bar, or wherever we may happen to be. Fuck, it's happened whilst standing at a street corner waiting for the light to change.

Anyone else ever have to deal with this?

 

[Minkey Boodle]

Normally, when the really good looking guy I'm with decides he wants to approach that pretty woman over there, I go with him, and we see who can get her first.

 

[badasschick]

Most of the time I'm said chick in the situation and one of 2 things happen.

The DUDE that I'm with gets all kind of territorial and has me all hemmed up to the point I can't even walk on my own.

Or

The fact that I'm some other guy's eye candy gasses his head so much he gets full of himself, he becomes obnoxious, and I have to leave.



My advice to you, just be cool otherwise you'll annoy your companion.

 

[RastaPope]

Most of the time I'm said chick in the situation and one of 2 things happen.

The DUDE that I'm with gets all kind of territorial and has me all hemmed up to the point I can't even walk on my own.

Or

The fact that I'm some other guy's eye candy gasses his head so much he gets full of himself, he becomes obnoxious, and I have to leave.



My advice to you, just be cool otherwise you'll annoy your companion.

Actually, I've never done either. I just manage to make it through the date, then never go out with her again.

 

[RastaPope]

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[Lost Cause]

Quite common............

It's just a matter of how many ending zeros you have in your checking account balance!

 

[RastaPope]

Re: Quite common............

It's just a matter of how many ending zeros you have in your checking account balance!

Well, duh.

 

[badasschick]

Actually, I've never done either. I just manage to make it through the date, then never go out with her again.

Is your date taking their bait?

What's the problem then? Just fuck those bastards and have a good time.

 

[superlittlegirl]

This has happened to me on a few occasions. My ex is a fucking knockout. People approach her constantly. It makes her uncomfortable, so it has happened that I've had to get ratty with an asshole guy who got too personal.

I'm 5 feet two inches tall. I'm pretty solid, but I still don't weigh that much. I have never thrown a punch, and have never committed an act of violence against another human being. But one night, a nasty evil guy kept crowding my lady on the dance floor. Then he grabbed her ass. Then he tried to pretend it didn't happen, and he disappeared.

He was probably 6'2" and 200 pounds. Bigger than I am, by a bunch. I caught a glimpse of him through the crowd. I stomped across the dance floor, grabbed him by his shirt, and physically turned him around to face me. I wanted to swing on him, but I decided not to do it just yet. Instead, I gave him a nice lecture about how he needed to be more respectful of women, especially my girlfriend.

He was mortified, apologized profusely, and ended up leaving soon after. And that story had a happy ending because I did not get my scrappy little ass stomped.

So yeah, hanging out with pretty girls can be a pain in the ass, but it's never boring!

 

[Minkey Boodle]

It's best to go out in your best Shanene gear, then you don't even have to worr' 'bout it.

 

[RastaPope]

It's best to go out in your best Shanene gear, then you don't even have to worr' 'bout it.

Whu-foo?

 

[Minkey Boodle]

Shanene from Martin. You know, when Martin Lawrence dressed up like that really purdy chick from across the hall?

 

[RastaPope]

Shanene from Martin. You know, when Martin Lawrence dressed up like that really purdy chick from across the hall?

Oh, yeah. Right.

 

[Rubyfruit]

I tend to fall for a guy or girl based on the visual, mental, mind/soul-provoking responses they evoke in me.

What they look like is secondary, but it's always nice when that matches up too. ;-)

 

[agezinder]

To put a spin on that situation....I've been the guy with the hot girl who is only a friend, who approaches other hot women, but can't seem to get anywhere because the hot women are threatened by my hot friend. So whenever we went out, which was a lot because we were bestest friends, I couldn't even hook up! So I decided I wanted to hook up with my best friend....NOT!!!! Didn't happen...I got the fuckin "But we're just good friends" speech...lol.

 

[RudeNastyAssBitch]

Nobody Ever Bothers With Me!

I'm Too Loud And Trashy

Same Goes Fer Any Chickitas That'r Out With Me. The Dudes Stay Away Cuz They Are Too Afraid!

 

[MechaBlade]

When I have a beautiful woman at my arm, I try and make the best of it because I will be waking soon.

 

[superlittlegirl]

When I am out with someone I really like, I am so visibly into him that it's pretty obvious to any onlookers that I am not available, nor am I interested. It's never been a problem for me.

 

[Coolville]

Now, I find that when I'm in a public place with a pretty girl at my side, a girl who should obviously be out of my league(whether friend or date), that I often have to deal with good looking, attractive men approaching said girl.

Then stop dressing in women's clothes! That'll solve your problem.

 

[Coolville]

Actually, there's a term for it. Mimical Desire. It's anthropolgical. Since we're all animals, a male who sees another male in the company of an attractive female is triggered by his instincts to try his luck.
If said female is alone, the odds are less that she will be approached than if she is with a male.
Just like Animal Planet!

 

[onewingedangel]

When I am out with someone I really like, I am so visibly into him that it's pretty obvious to any onlookers that I am not available, nor am I interested. It's never been a problem for me.

Amen sis.

 

[Marxist]

So yeah, hanging out with pretty girls can be a pain in the ass, but it's never boring!

Funny you should say that....

Wanna go get breakfast and see how long it takes to get in trouble?

 

[Marxist]

When I am out with someone I really like, I am so visibly into him that it's pretty obvious to any onlookers that I am not available, nor am I interested. It's never been a problem for me.

I should have read that first!

 

[Cibo]

I can honsetly say that that's never happened to me...or as far as I can think of at this early morning hour. But I can feel all the guy's (and girls) pain when this happens to their friend/SO. I would step in and just strike up a conversation with the guy and if he's being an asshole, I'd take her hand and just leave him all together and go to another place or another side of the dance floor.

 

[scylis]

when other males do that, they have insulted my honor. if i can see at least part of their eyes, i execute a horizontal draw cut with my katana, and before they can show pain on their face and dishonor their ancestors, i lop off their heads.

honor is everything.