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cherrylips_au
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Dear Ladybird,
May you find comfort in friends that surround you in love and good wishes. Your male friend should have had the courage to approach you in person or at least on the phone, an email is so impersonal. I hope you take the strength sent from us all to help you bounce back as I'm sure you will, even though I have only been on here a short time I can tell you are a survivor. Good luck hun big hugs and kisses for you. You deserve the best in life !!!
Cherrylips xxx
May you find comfort in friends that surround you in love and good wishes. Your male friend should have had the courage to approach you in person or at least on the phone, an email is so impersonal. I hope you take the strength sent from us all to help you bounce back as I'm sure you will, even though I have only been on here a short time I can tell you are a survivor. Good luck hun big hugs and kisses for you. You deserve the best in life !!!
Cherrylips xxx
tatts~horny65
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G'day Lady,I am at a loss for words.There is only one word for an insensitive,egomaniac like the guy that dumped you:
COWARD.
I,like yourself am newly added to the singles scene & I can assure you that being single again for the first time in 15 years,I found it both terrifying & daunting to be on my own.
nearly 9 weeks into my new life,I still feel lost,but I know I am not alone,that in itself is a comfort.
I believe that women should be treated with more respect when it comes to love,romance,sex,companionship,whatever.......when I see or read about how these cretins that don't face their problems head on,I wanna just reach out & kick his fu..................
Yeah....well anyway,this is the new millenium,sweetheart,surely we men can develop a lot more consideration for the fairer sex when it comes to ending a relationship or frienship.
I know that when I ended my relationship,I was up front & didn't hide behind excuses or anything else.I know I can feel proud of being straight forward,but that still doesn't make up for the loss & hurt that both people feel.
Some people feel that you should live & let live & move on immediately,while others offer sympathy & understand to a point that what you are going through is tough & that they offer you their support when you need it,either way,it still means that whatever life deals you,you need to put one foot in front of the other & make the most of what you have & not wallow.I made that mistake.Now I'm paying twice the price,but hey,shit happens & we learn from our mistakes.
So,I ask you Lady,what lesson did this experience teach you?
I can't answer that as yet,myself, but when I do find the answer,you guys will be among the first to know.
Keep your head high hon,& don't let your dignity be dragged down by wallowing,it's just not worth the effort ok.
All I can offer you is my understanding,shoulder,loyalty,chainsaw(lmao),friendly advice & maybe one day a cuppa,a meal or a drink,it's gonna be hard but you know you've got a friend right here for a long time to come & beyond.
Take care mate,
muahs & hugs,
Tatts.
COWARD.
I,like yourself am newly added to the singles scene & I can assure you that being single again for the first time in 15 years,I found it both terrifying & daunting to be on my own.
nearly 9 weeks into my new life,I still feel lost,but I know I am not alone,that in itself is a comfort.
I believe that women should be treated with more respect when it comes to love,romance,sex,companionship,whatever.......when I see or read about how these cretins that don't face their problems head on,I wanna just reach out & kick his fu..................
Yeah....well anyway,this is the new millenium,sweetheart,surely we men can develop a lot more consideration for the fairer sex when it comes to ending a relationship or frienship.
I know that when I ended my relationship,I was up front & didn't hide behind excuses or anything else.I know I can feel proud of being straight forward,but that still doesn't make up for the loss & hurt that both people feel.
Some people feel that you should live & let live & move on immediately,while others offer sympathy & understand to a point that what you are going through is tough & that they offer you their support when you need it,either way,it still means that whatever life deals you,you need to put one foot in front of the other & make the most of what you have & not wallow.I made that mistake.Now I'm paying twice the price,but hey,shit happens & we learn from our mistakes.
So,I ask you Lady,what lesson did this experience teach you?
I can't answer that as yet,myself, but when I do find the answer,you guys will be among the first to know.
Keep your head high hon,& don't let your dignity be dragged down by wallowing,it's just not worth the effort ok.
All I can offer you is my understanding,shoulder,loyalty,chainsaw(lmao),friendly advice & maybe one day a cuppa,a meal or a drink,it's gonna be hard but you know you've got a friend right here for a long time to come & beyond.
Take care mate,
muahs & hugs,
Tatts.
Ladybird
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Wow my dear friends.. I really don't know what to say..
Our friendship is still new, yet everyone one of you has offered me care and support. I really do love you all.. and feel so grateful that we know each other.. even if only online.
Tatts.. thanks for opening up as you have... I know how difficult that can be..
I'm ok now.. yesterday I was 'in shock'. Today I'm fine though.. after all, my feelings for him weren't deep.
So.. it's time to move on.. to put on my high heels and lipstick.. and strutt my stuff!!
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Our friendship is still new, yet everyone one of you has offered me care and support. I really do love you all.. and feel so grateful that we know each other.. even if only online.
Tatts.. thanks for opening up as you have... I know how difficult that can be..
I'm ok now.. yesterday I was 'in shock'. Today I'm fine though.. after all, my feelings for him weren't deep.
So.. it's time to move on.. to put on my high heels and lipstick.. and strutt my stuff!!
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Dragonette
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Lb my dearest one
I am so sorry about it, and glad that you have cheered up!
As you know I went through something similiar around Xmas time, luckily I found out quickly that he was insensitive.
He eventually got an email from me, but that was all he deserved. You know the story.
But to end a relationship that has been ongoing for a while, it should have been more personal, a chance to talk, say thanks it was great etc....
I would say you are better off without him, get yourself back on track and start having fun!
You know I am here for you as well as all your friends here!
You are special, never forget that!
You and I will go hand in hand as the single ladies of Lit!
Heard you had some fun in the Bar last nigt???
Chortles in delight, I am so happy
Now, about my office?
Is it all tidied up??????????
LOL
Hi everyone, nice to see you all and looking after our special lady!
Welcome to wiinethepoo, wb Cheeylip_au and hello draconian friend Dracoa!
winnethepoo NSW male 31
Dracoa USA male 22
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I am so sorry about it, and glad that you have cheered up!
As you know I went through something similiar around Xmas time, luckily I found out quickly that he was insensitive.
He eventually got an email from me, but that was all he deserved. You know the story.
But to end a relationship that has been ongoing for a while, it should have been more personal, a chance to talk, say thanks it was great etc....
I would say you are better off without him, get yourself back on track and start having fun!
You know I am here for you as well as all your friends here!
You are special, never forget that!
You and I will go hand in hand as the single ladies of Lit!
Heard you had some fun in the Bar last nigt???
Chortles in delight, I am so happy
Now, about my office?
Is it all tidied up??????????
LOL
Hi everyone, nice to see you all and looking after our special lady!
Welcome to wiinethepoo, wb Cheeylip_au and hello draconian friend Dracoa!
winnethepoo NSW male 31
Dracoa USA male 22
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Ladybird
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Thanks for your kind words Dragonette..
Yep... he showed a lot of insensitivity, which surprised me. And it was the insensitivity that hurt.. not the loss of a lover.
But.. life does go on.. and yes.. I like the sound of that.. 'the single ladies of lit!' umm.. do I hear a title for a new thread there?
Oh yes.. I had a little 'therapy' session with Hman last night..
.. sorry about your office, Bill said he'd clean it.. he's so good. You really should give him a raise you know. He had quite a bit of cleaning to do... sorry..
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Yep... he showed a lot of insensitivity, which surprised me. And it was the insensitivity that hurt.. not the loss of a lover.
But.. life does go on.. and yes.. I like the sound of that.. 'the single ladies of lit!' umm.. do I hear a title for a new thread there?
Oh yes.. I had a little 'therapy' session with Hman last night..
.. sorry about your office, Bill said he'd clean it.. he's so good. You really should give him a raise you know. He had quite a bit of cleaning to do... sorry..
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Dragonette
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Oh Ladybird
I will leave a new thread up to you, my lovely one
I have enough troubles catching up on the Bar gossip!
Bill always gets a raise, best appreciated barman around
Lots of lurks and perks!
But he deserves it, he gives great service always!
So onward and upward!
Great words of Tolkein!
I will leave a new thread up to you, my lovely one
I have enough troubles catching up on the Bar gossip!
Bill always gets a raise, best appreciated barman around
Lots of lurks and perks!
But he deserves it, he gives great service always!
So onward and upward!
Great words of Tolkein!
Ozzie Buzz
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m'lady still love your colour anyway it is
i'm tingling already for that hug...hmmm
just a thought for everyone im not one for valentine's day because i think its over commercialized but most of all I like to suprise my ladies not have them expecting something - I think its a bigger kick that way.
just a thought
p.s m'lady a know a great masseur to relieve you of your tension
me
QuickDuck
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*hugs* good to hear you are feeling better LB
Since a few people shared their story, I guess I might do mine...its all very tragic so skip to the next post if ya like
Late june last year, i started talking to a girl on the net.
We became good friends and then...well i guess it progressed.
Some of the phone calls...lets just say i am surprised telstra did not get on my case for melting their phone lines
Come September, we decided it was time to meet, so i booked my flight to Melbourne and spent the most amazing week with her.
To say i fell pretty hard for her, would be an understatment and when i left, it was very much a case of "i know you cannot stay, but how soon can you back?"
My next flight was booked for 2 weeks later, and again i was going to be down there for nearly a week (i had alot of holidays owing to me at work).
Until then, everything was brilliant...or so i thought.
four days before i was due to head back down, she asked me to ring her.
She said "so, where do you see us?", and I was totally honest with her, telling her exactly what i thought.
Telling her how I know ling distance is not easy, but that I really wanted to try and make this work, and that i was looking to move down there in October of this year anyway, so this would be yet another reason.
Then she dropped the bomb on me.
"i have been thinking about someone else"
Turns out, the weekend i was due to go down again, she wanted to spend with a (i thought) friend of mine.
In November, I found out she got engaged to him that very weekend....they had literally just met in person.
So that was it.
I still feel like i had no closure on the whole thing, but i live with it and am basically over it. (i think)
I miss her...alot, but thats life I guess... after all, she is the one who is missing out on a great guy like me *wink*
Thinking about it, all I can think of is that probably subconsciously, she has said to herself "well i am 29 and want to be married...who's closest?", and since it would be october for me to get there, this guy was closer. (oh i forgot to add in that this guy had just moved back to melbourne the week before she told me....god she moves fast)
I put my trip off for a month and then arranged another one, asking her to meet me for lunch or anything one day just so i could give her a hug and say goodbye, get some sense of closure
That was too hard for her since she was spending the day with him one day, and going shopping with her best friend the next day....the 5 minutes I wanted was not possible. (sorry, still a bit bitter about that since i was making the effort to go down there just to see her, but oh well, she must not have wanted us to stay friends like she said she did).
So there you go.
Thats my last foray into being "attached" and it is pretty much in keeping with my previous record...hehe don't ask about my "friend" before her
/wave
QuickDuck
p.s. Maree *lix*
Since a few people shared their story, I guess I might do mine...its all very tragic so skip to the next post if ya like
Late june last year, i started talking to a girl on the net.
We became good friends and then...well i guess it progressed.
Some of the phone calls...lets just say i am surprised telstra did not get on my case for melting their phone lines
Come September, we decided it was time to meet, so i booked my flight to Melbourne and spent the most amazing week with her.
To say i fell pretty hard for her, would be an understatment and when i left, it was very much a case of "i know you cannot stay, but how soon can you back?"
My next flight was booked for 2 weeks later, and again i was going to be down there for nearly a week (i had alot of holidays owing to me at work).
Until then, everything was brilliant...or so i thought.
four days before i was due to head back down, she asked me to ring her.
She said "so, where do you see us?", and I was totally honest with her, telling her exactly what i thought.
Telling her how I know ling distance is not easy, but that I really wanted to try and make this work, and that i was looking to move down there in October of this year anyway, so this would be yet another reason.
Then she dropped the bomb on me.
"i have been thinking about someone else"
Turns out, the weekend i was due to go down again, she wanted to spend with a (i thought) friend of mine.
In November, I found out she got engaged to him that very weekend....they had literally just met in person.
So that was it.
I still feel like i had no closure on the whole thing, but i live with it and am basically over it. (i think)
I miss her...alot, but thats life I guess... after all, she is the one who is missing out on a great guy like me *wink*
Thinking about it, all I can think of is that probably subconsciously, she has said to herself "well i am 29 and want to be married...who's closest?", and since it would be october for me to get there, this guy was closer. (oh i forgot to add in that this guy had just moved back to melbourne the week before she told me....god she moves fast
)I put my trip off for a month and then arranged another one, asking her to meet me for lunch or anything one day just so i could give her a hug and say goodbye, get some sense of closure
That was too hard for her since she was spending the day with him one day, and going shopping with her best friend the next day....the 5 minutes I wanted was not possible. (sorry, still a bit bitter about that since i was making the effort to go down there just to see her, but oh well, she must not have wanted us to stay friends like she said she did).
So there you go.
Thats my last foray into being "attached" and it is pretty much in keeping with my previous record...hehe don't ask about my "friend" before her
/wave
QuickDuck
p.s. Maree *lix*
Dragonette
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Oh V day
Another day I tend to ignore
But maybe this year we need to do something special in the Bar?
I am sure we can arrange something romantic for everyone
Sorry to hear that QuickDuck!
But maybe you are lucky like LB and found the truth in time!
I know it hurts, I have been there, but lets look to the brighter future!
It must be a good year for us all, we deserve it!
Another day I tend to ignore
But maybe this year we need to do something special in the Bar?
I am sure we can arrange something romantic for everyone
Sorry to hear that QuickDuck!
But maybe you are lucky like LB and found the truth in time!
I know it hurts, I have been there, but lets look to the brighter future!
It must be a good year for us all, we deserve it!
Ladybird
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ohhhh Ozzie babe.. I'm not just tingling at the thought of hugging you.. but a little.. um 'damp' as well
.. and the thought of your putting your hands on my body to 'relieve my tension'.. is pretty damn exciting
QuickDuck.. you've had a rough time there hon. You've been treated very badly and have every reason to be angry and bitter.
I was much luckier than you, in that I had no deep feelings for my lover.. just pain at being treated so thoughtlessly.
But whatever.. we've all got to put these experiences behind us, and look ahead.
At age 47 I'm rebuilding my life, and am quite excited at the prospect of it.
Find a challenge for yourself too hon.. something to work at, make you feel good about yourself.
In the meantime.. this is for you to hug..
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.. and the thought of your putting your hands on my body to 'relieve my tension'.. is pretty damn exciting
QuickDuck.. you've had a rough time there hon. You've been treated very badly and have every reason to be angry and bitter.
I was much luckier than you, in that I had no deep feelings for my lover.. just pain at being treated so thoughtlessly.
But whatever.. we've all got to put these experiences behind us, and look ahead.
At age 47 I'm rebuilding my life, and am quite excited at the prospect of it.
Find a challenge for yourself too hon.. something to work at, make you feel good about yourself.
In the meantime.. this is for you to hug..
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hi everyone........gives lb a great big ((((((()))))))) sorry to hear what happen..........MR.DUCK FOR TAKING MAREES VIRGINTY ADVANCE TO GO AND COLLECT WHATEVER U DESIRE LOL..........mmmmmmm seen that i'm showing as guest........i wonder y........omg that thing has just given me a migrane lmao......um maree i got into an online affair so my wife doesn't like or should i say trust me as much as she use too so i don't think she would approve of me meeting anybody so i'll have to do it quietly
Dragonette
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Oh what a lovely bear!
Huggles and cuddles and fuzzy feelings!
LOL
Shakes finger at cheeky greg!
Naughty man
Now go fix that guest thing!
Oh any tension relievers are great
Stands in line.......
tail taps quietly
Huggles and cuddles and fuzzy feelings!
LOL
Shakes finger at cheeky greg!
Naughty man
Now go fix that guest thing!
Oh any tension relievers are great
Stands in line.......
tail taps quietly
Ladybird
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Re: Oh what a lovely bear!
LOL.. and queue you will...
I'm first !!
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Dragonette said:
LOL.. and queue you will...
I'm first !!
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Dracoa
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I've had something similar happen to me as what happened to Quickduck. We had met online, it got taken to the next level, we met in person (a week long visit turned into a month, and the hottest month of my life so far), then when I came back, I had to find a job, so I didn't have time to get in touch with her, she thought I was ignoreing her and she started dating someone else, even though she did say that any woman would be lucky to have me.
Ladybird
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Valentines Day
Well... I may be the odd one out here.. but I really like Valentines Day.
Not the commercial side of it.. but the romantic aspect. A day set aside to show your love to your partner.. just as we do to our parents on Mothers Day and Fathers Day.
While most of us won't be the centre of someones attention this year.. lets be happy for those that are..
Meanwhile.. I just loves ya all !!
http://www.friend4free.com/hollidays/valintines/VALspinningheart.gif
Well... I may be the odd one out here.. but I really like Valentines Day.
Not the commercial side of it.. but the romantic aspect. A day set aside to show your love to your partner.. just as we do to our parents on Mothers Day and Fathers Day.
While most of us won't be the centre of someones attention this year.. lets be happy for those that are..
Meanwhile.. I just loves ya all !!
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OzSteamer
Wetsuit fetish & single
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Re: Valentines Day
Hi Ladybird
Well... I may be the odd one out here.. but I really like Valentines Day.
Not the commercial side of it.. but the romantic aspect. A day set aside to show your love to your partner.. just as we do to our parents on Mothers Day and Fathers Day.
While most of us won't be the centre of someones attention this year.. lets be happy for those that are..
Meanwhile.. I just loves ya all !!
LOL, well, I ALWAYS make the point of sending a VALENTINES to all the girls (all Overseas) who belong to my Yahoo Clubs a "Happy Valentines..." (dragonette's gonna roast me for those three dots - sorry dragonette!).
It's odd, but they almost ALWAYS tell me they haven't got any from anyone - now if there was a nice wetsuited chicky babe within MY neighbourhood, I'd send her a Valentines.
What in the name of Hell's Cold Dungeons gone wrong with the world? Is "romance" now a punishable offence?
Sheesh, romance is getting like sex - and cooking: everyone talks about it, lotsa books are written about it, lotsa TV shows and radio talk-back segments have it as the main subject, lotsa people compare notes about it, it would be nice to have, but no-one ever admits to ever trying any.
BTW: why DON'T you girls beleive you're beautiful? I mean, a chicky babe in a shiny black wetsuit...<sigh> who could resist? (dragonette, I apologise for the three dots, LOL! )
OK, to end on a HOPEFUL note: What's you girls' idea of "romantic"? C'mon, tell us!
Hi Ladybird
Well... I may be the odd one out here.. but I really like Valentines Day.
Not the commercial side of it.. but the romantic aspect. A day set aside to show your love to your partner.. just as we do to our parents on Mothers Day and Fathers Day.
While most of us won't be the centre of someones attention this year.. lets be happy for those that are..
Meanwhile.. I just loves ya all !!
LOL, well, I ALWAYS make the point of sending a VALENTINES to all the girls (all Overseas) who belong to my Yahoo Clubs a "Happy Valentines..." (dragonette's gonna roast me for those three dots - sorry dragonette!).
It's odd, but they almost ALWAYS tell me they haven't got any from anyone - now if there was a nice wetsuited chicky babe within MY neighbourhood, I'd send her a Valentines.
What in the name of Hell's Cold Dungeons gone wrong with the world? Is "romance" now a punishable offence?
Sheesh, romance is getting like sex - and cooking: everyone talks about it, lotsa books are written about it, lotsa TV shows and radio talk-back segments have it as the main subject, lotsa people compare notes about it, it would be nice to have, but no-one ever admits to ever trying any.
BTW: why DON'T you girls beleive you're beautiful? I mean, a chicky babe in a shiny black wetsuit...<sigh> who could resist? (dragonette, I apologise for the three dots, LOL!
)OK, to end on a HOPEFUL note: What's you girls' idea of "romantic"? C'mon, tell us!
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