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This study is based on only 149 people, and would need to be repeated imo, but I find the physiological aspects very interesting. For myself, I love the human voice, and have my own preferences in conversation, singing, sex partners. Needless to say this article is timely given our 'AH voices' threads and the reactions to each others voices. - Perdita
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Sound of Voice May Predict Sexual Behavior - Sep 27, 2004, Charnicia E. Huggins

NEW YORK (Reuters Health) - New research findings suggest that the sound of a person's voice may predict his or her level of sexual activity. Men and women whose voices were given higher ratings in attractiveness reported having more sex partners and were younger at first intercourse than those whose voices were considered less attractive. "Thus, the sound of an individual's voice can reveal important information to potential mates," study author Dr. Susan M. Hughes of Vassar College in Poughkeepsie, New York told Reuters Health.

In the study, 149 men and women listened to recorded voices of anonymous individuals and rated the voices on a five-point scale, from "very unattractive" to "very attractive." On average, six men and six women rated each voice. Study participants also underwent measurements of their shoulders, waists and hips and some anonymously reported various details about their sexual history. When the researchers compared voice ratings with sexual histories, they found that men and women whose voices were considered more attractive by opposite sex raters reported younger ages at first sexual intercourse, more sex partners and more sexual affairs than did those with less attractive voices.

Voice attractiveness predicted promiscuity in women better than did their waist-to-hip ratio, Hughes and her colleagues report in the September issue of Evolution and Human Behavior. Among men, however, the shoulder-to-hip ratio was a better predictor of promiscuity. That said, not all women with attractive voices are promiscuous, but "promiscuous females tend to have more attractive voices," co-author Dr. Gordon G. Gallup Jr., of the University at Albany, State University of New York, told Reuters Health.

Women with the most attractive voices, according to opposite sex raters, tended to have smaller waists relative to their hips, whereas men whose voices were rated as more attractive -- regardless of the sex of the rater -- tended to have broader shoulders and narrower hips. "Voice is shaped and modified by certain hormones, such as testosterone, and these same hormones also play a role in influencing both sexual drive as well as the sex-specific changes in body shape that occur during puberty," Hughes said. "Therefore, the link between voice, body configuration, and sexual behavior may be due to similar hormonal influences, attractiveness promoting sexual opportunity, or both."

During human evolutionary history, voice may have also played a role in how men and women made reproductive-related decisions, particularly at nighttime, the report indicates. "The sound of a person's voice could have become an important indicator of other biologically relevant information," Gallup Jr. said.

Other researchers have reported an association between facial attractiveness and sperm quality in men and facial attractiveness and longevity in men and women. That is, men who were judged to be more attractive tended to have a higher number of sperm and more mobile sperm than their less attractive peers. The most attractive men and women were also found to live longer than those considered less attractive. Thus, the authors write, "voice attractiveness may be an indicator (albeit indirect) of other fitness-related features as well."

As men and women search for Mr. or Ms. Right, the current findings suggest that people should not "combine a 'blind' date with a 'deaf' date," Gallup said. "Given the importance of voice as a dimension along which important features may vary," he said, men and women should not agree to a blind date without first having at least one telephone conversation.

SOURCE: Evolution and Human Behavior, September 2004.
 
I found that article fascinating Perdita. As yousay it is only a small study and more needs to be done but still it is very interesting indeed.

voice has always been important to me and i know a gorgeous man with a horrid voice is a turn off (David Beckham for example, when he opens his mouth-i cringe)

A very timely article indeed :)
 
Voices reach your emotions in ways that nothing else can - the sound of a lover's voice coming through the phone from miles away feels very intimate and exciting...a quiet conversation amidst a crowded room feels private...a whisper in the bedroom so erotic.
 
There might be something to this, P. I liked a couple of Litsters a lot better after having heard their voices!

:D
 
McKenna said:
There might be something to this, P. I liked a couple of Litsters a lot better after having heard their voices!
Yep, I know what you mean. P. :p
 
LadyJeanne said:
Voices reach your emotions in ways that nothing else can - the sound of a lover's voice coming through the phone from miles away feels very intimate and exciting...a quiet conversation amidst a crowded room feels private...a whisper in the bedroom so erotic.

...a harshly voiced insult so enraging...


It's interesting, I have a friend who has thought in the past I'm just "yelling" at him with my written words, yet when we talk with each other verbally over the same subject, he realizes what sounded like yelling is nothing more than me voicing a thought or feeling calmly, but but firmly. I think tone of voice goes a long way towards explaining and defining meaning, just like facial expression and body language.
 
McKenna said:
...a harshly voiced insult so enraging...


It's interesting, I have a friend who has thought in the past I'm just "yelling" at him with my written words, yet when we talk with each other verbally over the same subject, he realizes what sounded like yelling is nothing more than me voicing a thought or feeling calmly, but but firmly. I think tone of voice goes a long way towards explaining and defining meaning, just like facial expression and body language.

Most definitely. Very often the typed word can be taken completely the wrong way - I've done it myself, often. It can seem cold and impersonal, whereas in fact, it wasn't meant that way at all.

The exact same words spoken to me can sound very warm and teasing, even.

Perdita, very timely article. I, too, now look upon one or two people differently now, having heard their voices. One being Joe, God love 'is cotton socks. :D

Lou :rose:
 
on voices...

Two of my favourite male speaking voices belong to Alan Rickman and Paul Scofield. I liken them to operatic voices in that they have registers, volume, tones, nuances, etc., and the two owners use them expertly. Rickman's is even richer than Scofield's, I think it would take a lifetime to hear all he can do with just his voice.

Either man is handsome in his own right but not extraordinarily beautiful or appealing in any striking way (especially in real life, vs. what film makeup can do to enhance a face). It's their voices that make me respond, not their faces, biceps or thighs, etc.

Similarly 'voiced' is Sean Connery, but not as richly or profoundly. I could listen to Rickman or Scofield recite a very long bit of text but I think Connery would bore me after a few minutes of just his voice. (Listening to him in conversation would be another matter, haha.)

Among women, Garbo's is my favourite speaking voice. It's as rich as Rickman's, an animal of a thing.

Anyone else have favourite speaking voices?

Perdita
 
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perdita said:
Anyone else have favourite speaking voices?

I think at this point it's easier for me to name people whose voices I do not like:

Roseanne Barr
Gilbert Godfried

Those two have got to have two of the most annoying, voices! They seriously grate on my nerves.
 
What does it say about going aural that this thread is popular so far only among women? Do women find the aural aspect that much more important than men do?

We are, after all, much more visually oriented.

Does the voice require a greater use of imagination?
 
Vincent E said:
What does it say about going aural that this thread is popular so far only among women? Do women find the aural aspect that much more important than men do?
We are, after all, much more visually oriented.
Does the voice require a greater use of imagination?
Very good questions and points, Vincenzo. I suppose if we keep our mouths shut our tits and arses might matter most (though outside sex for sex' sake and in RL we do tend to communicate through speech).

I'd like to hear what other men think. Doesn't any man here have a fave female speaking voice? Does a special type female voice arouse or attract you? A woman's voice may commonly be labeled sultry; that implies sexuality to me.

I am more curious now, Perdita
 
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perdita said:


Anyone else have favourite speaking voices?

Perdita

James Earl Jones.

And this older gentleman that used to come into the store I worked at- he had a Barry White sort of deep mellow voice and in fact, worked for a radio station. my co-worker had a mad crush on his *voice*!

I really like the gravelly aspects of Ja rule and DMX's voices. Very sexy. (never really heard them speak, only rap)
 
oh i love so many voices... Tom Cruise, Nicholas Cage, Patrick Stewart has a lovely voice too. My husband has one of the sexiest voices ever....Damon from Blur is another sexy voice that leaps to mind,Daniel Beddingfield too...singing and speaking voices i mean there.

The only voice I can say I really can't stand is the woman who plays Janeway in Voyager..thats the only one that comes to mind..and funnily thats a woman. I can't think of a womans voice i overly like..weird eh?
 
English Lady said:
The only voice I can say I really can't stand is the woman who plays Janeway in Voyager.
Oh, I'm with you El. She has an offensive voice, suited to Janeway's character, but grating nonetheless. A real arrogance and phoniness come through in her voice; I judge it an untrustworthy voice. She may well be a nice person but I can't imagine having her as a friend.

El, I must say it's great to see you posting so much lately. I've always looked forward to seeing you here but it seemed so infrequent, at least to me. If I haven't said it yet, I've enjoyed 'hearing' you too.

Perdita
 
Perdi - what a let down.

When I saw the title of this thread I thought you had discovered a way to use two more apertures.
 
Deep Throat

So, is that what you ladies like?

A sultry woman's voice is deep ans a touch husky. Speaking from the diaphram (oh boy, I hope that's the right word.)

A high-pitch squeeky woman's voice can be cute in a brainless cheerleader sort of way, but there are limits there. One can only be turned on by the mindless musings of a bimbo for so long bfore giving her the James Cagney treatment from The Public Enemy. Remember the grapegruit.

Of course her voice should not be so deep as to sound like she has been pumping steroids for a women's bodybuilding competition. Something about the lyrics to Lola creep into my mind with that thought.

Back when I was a teen, my mother was doing some business with a woman who called the house every other day or so. So had an exquisite voice. It was as sexy as all hell. I loved answering the phone.

I am trying to think of the right woman's voice that everyone would know, but I am drawing blanks.

Melanie Griffith sounds like she needs speech therapy.
Kate Mulgrew (Capt. Janeway) is far too raspy for me.
Maybe Juila Luoise Dreyfuss in some of the Seinfeld episodes where she is acting sultry is a good example. Still not perfect though.

The voice I am thinking of is calm. The woman is conveying a feeling of ease or relaxation. She is not trying to be seductive, she is just displaying the mannerisms of patience in her voice. It should be slightly deep or husky. She should also tend towards the quite. I should have to strain ever so slightly to hear her in a plesant conversation. That way I actually pay closer attention to her.

Sort of like a vocal massage.

Help me. Who the hell am I thinking of? :confused:
 
Agree re Alan Rickman! (A very underappreciated actor, too)
Patrick Stewart -- yummy as well.

But, ya know, my libido is triggered just as much by scent as by sound -- although they're nearly tied for the top spot.
 
Perdita...you are so right...Janeways voice does sound fake and untrustworthy. It just drives me batty....

And it is good to be back :) for a while I just kinda dropped back,I didn't feel part of things -partly because i got busy with other stuff and didn't have the time to spend here- but I must say I feel much more part of things since joining in the audio threads.

Thanks for the welcome back :rose: I shall do my best to be a little less irratic in future*L*


Well I've thought of one female voice I quite like....and my husband loves it, that of Drew Barrymore.


(Adam Sandler has a lovely voice too...when he says "I think i'm in love with her" in the bar in wedding singer I melt)
 
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Vincent E said:
The voice I am thinking of is calm. The woman is conveying a feeling of ease or relaxation. She is not trying to be seductive, she is just displaying the mannerisms of patience in her voice. It should be slightly deep or husky. She should also tend towards the quite. I should have to strain ever so slightly to hear her in a plesant conversation. That way I actually pay closer attention to her.

Sort of like a vocal massage.

Help me. Who the hell am I thinking of? :confused:


the actress who did Jessica Rabbits voice in the Roger Rabbit movie - she played with Mike Douglas in a few movies -- The War of The Roses....Catherine....somebody or another..???

Also, Lauren Bacall has a beautiful voice
 
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Honey123 said:
the actress who did Jessica Rabbits voice in the Roger Rabbit movie - she played with Mike Douglas in a few movies -- The War of The Roses....Catherine....somebody or another..???

Kathleen Turner. Her voice is cultivated, I heard her say in an interview once. Not natural.
 
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impressive said:
Kathleen Turner. Her voice is cultivated, I heard her say in an interview once. Not natural.

I saw an interview with her once where she said that she would be erasers on her back teeth so that she could make herself talk that way...amazing!

Still...it's a nice voice.
 
It's hard to think of women who's voices are sexy--possibly Selma Hayek. Just a gorgeous accent. Audrey Hepburn can be incredibly controlled and elegant.
 
Linda Fiorentino has that calm, low voice that's musical and sexy without being at all gravelly or harsh. She was in Dogma with Matt Damon and Ben Affleck.
 
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