At this very moment: Why is everyone on this board not having casual sex?

Because I'm in a committed relationship with someone totally fantastic! And, might I add, that I met right here on Lit ;)
 
My damn hubby just came home! grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Thats why!

The upside is he is drunk again and will pass out after he has made a huge mess in the kitchen. :rolleyes: I just love my life :(
 
~hugs estevie~


Why am I not....well, HE is far, far away!


And, I don't do casual anymore.
 
I try to at least date someone before I decide to have sex with them, so I don't really know how "casual" that is considered. And no one I'm dating right now is around- that's why I'm not having any sex right now... :(
 
Ok, a clarification from my point of view. Casual sex to me is sex without a great emotional attachment, does not have to be with a stranger/one night stand. I must be one helluva stick in the mud for even my sex threads to be depressing.
 
Been there done that, waiting for my knight to arrive and ride away in the sunset. ;)
 
Just casual?

I assume you are not referring to cyber sex, just real life go out and pick up someone to fuck, right?

If that is the case..never have..never will....:)
Just can't fuck someone I don't know..******* or in rl

Cassidy
 
Still too risky for me. Chances are the person your having sex with just to satisfy a need is also doing the same with someone else they are doing it with someone else and so on and so on...

STD's...don't want one.
 
Because when I have sex with someone, it's never casual. For me to feel comfortable enough to let them that close to me, there's got to be a relationship.
 
Thank you Morninggirl

morninggirl5 said:
Because when I have sex with someone, it's never casual. For me to feel comfortable enough to let them that close to me, there's got to be a relationship.

I could not have said it better. Thanks for posting MG!
 
Been there. Done that. Loved it. Glad I did it. Casual sex is just plain ol' fun. Now I have the whole serious soul mate thing, which of course is more satisfying on so many more levels. But I'm glad that I can look back and say I've experienced the spectrum.
 
morninggirl5 said:
Because when I have sex with someone, it's never casual. For me to feel comfortable enough to let them that close to me, there's got to be a relationship.

Amen to that, girl

Sounds funny coming from a guy, but it's the truth.
 
Nathon_88 said:


Amen to that, girl

Sounds funny coming from a guy, but it's the truth.

It might sound funny coming from some guys, but I don't think you're one of them.
 
Willing and Unsure said:
cuz my man, despites how close he is to me, doesnt want to come over :(


Don't be sad. That happens sometimes. There are many nights when my gf wants me to come over but I just can't or dont' really feel like it.

She does live an hour away and my car is old, if not for my magic touch would probably be dead by now. If your bf is only like a few mintues away there are still times when you want to be alone or need guy time.
 
Why I am not at this moment having casual sex....

Because I am all dressed up for formal sex and my dumb date did not arrive wearing formal wear. So the mood has come and gone and he did not get to come but he is gone. Good riddance. :p
 
A better question

at this very moment why are you not lighting up a fat bowl of the chronic?

causal sex?

sex period bores me...I like little wank now and again.
That's about all.
 
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