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We all make assumptions based on what we see/experience…
But to assume Women WANT to be objectified ALL the time… (even if they say that’s what they want)
Or to assume all of us Men are being actively malicious… (even though the real Men don’t hide it)
Is harmful to everybody.
Most problems are easily solved by just checking your assumptions.
That’s why I like to talk a lot with people.
You can easily challenge each other’s assumptions, publicly without being mean or rude
Although being mean and rude is fun sometimes… most people seem to do it randomly
A lot of people make demands, but they’re not in a position to make any demands lol.
If anybody is confused about how things work… just ask…
Some of us aren’t confused at all
We can just talk about it and it’s really obvious who knows more…
All anybody has to do is follow the smartest person around and everybody’s good.
If this doesn’t make perfect sense to you… I’m sorry, but you’re NOT ahead of the pack…
You don’t get to make the decisions (for the pack) because that’s dangerous lol.
“Dominance” is not proving you’re “Manly” by making a girl do anal sex, boys…
That’s little boy watching porno mentality, which is fun too… super fun even…
IF no one gets hurt…
And just because a few stupid boys listen to you for pussy… that doesn’t make you a powerful woman either…
All women know how to do that.
Just like all men know how to hurt things…
That isn’t a personal attack… it’s just a fact.
You just have to know how to solve problems and you’re good to go.
And so is everyone around you…
You don’t have to run around, wondering why/how
That kind of thing is exactly what we don’t want in leaders…
For obvious reasons…
Assumptions are one of the most helpful things in the world…
But you need to practice breaking them too…
Because they are the only thing keeping you locked inside the prison of your mind.
Every single good person can prove without a doubt that they’re a good person.
Every single other one has to fake it until they make it…
That’s how you can tell… test people THEN trust.
Not Trust -> get hurt -> never trust -> have to trust eventually (tiring…)
Again… all of this is very simple and basic in plain English…
If YOU don’t understand… ask questions… don’t just attack people.
You CAN… but it doesn’t work.
But to assume Women WANT to be objectified ALL the time… (even if they say that’s what they want)
Or to assume all of us Men are being actively malicious… (even though the real Men don’t hide it)
Is harmful to everybody.
Most problems are easily solved by just checking your assumptions.
That’s why I like to talk a lot with people.
You can easily challenge each other’s assumptions, publicly without being mean or rude
Although being mean and rude is fun sometimes… most people seem to do it randomly
A lot of people make demands, but they’re not in a position to make any demands lol.
If anybody is confused about how things work… just ask…
Some of us aren’t confused at all
We can just talk about it and it’s really obvious who knows more…
All anybody has to do is follow the smartest person around and everybody’s good.
If this doesn’t make perfect sense to you… I’m sorry, but you’re NOT ahead of the pack…
You don’t get to make the decisions (for the pack) because that’s dangerous lol.
“Dominance” is not proving you’re “Manly” by making a girl do anal sex, boys…
That’s little boy watching porno mentality, which is fun too… super fun even…
IF no one gets hurt…
And just because a few stupid boys listen to you for pussy… that doesn’t make you a powerful woman either…
All women know how to do that.
Just like all men know how to hurt things…
That isn’t a personal attack… it’s just a fact.
You just have to know how to solve problems and you’re good to go.
And so is everyone around you…
You don’t have to run around, wondering why/how
That kind of thing is exactly what we don’t want in leaders…
For obvious reasons…
Assumptions are one of the most helpful things in the world…
But you need to practice breaking them too…
Because they are the only thing keeping you locked inside the prison of your mind.
Every single good person can prove without a doubt that they’re a good person.
Every single other one has to fake it until they make it…
That’s how you can tell… test people THEN trust.
Not Trust -> get hurt -> never trust -> have to trust eventually (tiring…)
Again… all of this is very simple and basic in plain English…
If YOU don’t understand… ask questions… don’t just attack people.
You CAN… but it doesn’t work.
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