Ass fucking

[ReadyOne]

Take it as a complement

PinkOchard,

Take it as a complement that you can do much more with your hand, mouth, and pussy.

Now that I'm going down the other side of the hill, I notice anal sometimes gives an ejaculative orgasm that exceeds any vaginal or oral. I believe it might be increased friction/pressure needed with aging, and/or my lover's oral skills don't come up to yours!

The change of style also appeals a bit to me. Anal is much less frequent., so it's extra nice when it's available to me. I'm always ready and willing when it is!

Her desire of anal clusters around her fertile period when she is most horny. She needs to be very well aroused before anal really appeals to her. But she says that when it does appeal, doing it is incredible. Her longest orgasms have cum from anal.

I've not figured out what exactly why it takes her high arousal to get her into the mood for anal. She knows that the results are incredible; why does the incredible experience not appeal to her when she's less than supper hot?

But what I really like is that she gets a totally different kind of orgasm. I am greatly rewarded by knowing that I'm helping cause a female to orgasm. So, delivering the extra special anal orgasm makes me feel extra good, and adds to the appeal of anal.

Would older guys appreciate anal more?

Would less self-centered guys have more desire to give you the anal experiences that you love?

PS: Were it possible, I'd joyfully take you for a lover!

 

[StokerAce]

Analisdivine

Pink Orchid, I must say am very fond of anal sex as a subject and activity, as long as I can rememeber as a matter of fact. I think it is the first spot I'd head to if I didn't feel it was rushing the act during making love. I'd want to be sensitive to the unintitiated and have always had an amazing response when licking between those lovely furrowed cheeks....wow, just visualizing now. Carrying the banner...anal is fun, no worries.

StokerAce

 

[James MacGregor]

Ok, I need to know if this is just me, or is this relatively common. I don't think it's any great secret that I love anal sex, but most of the guys I've been involved with prefer vaginal sex, to the point where it's a big deal to get a good ass-fucking.

What's up with that??? Is that the case for most guys, or am I just finding the weirdos?

Damn! I just KNEW I grew up in the wrong neighborhood! I'm always running into the ladies that reach for the mace the moment anal sex is mentioned *Laughing*

 

[Gil_T2]

There could be many different reasons for a man not wanting to engage in anal sex. And it doesn't mean anything is "wrong" with him. Some men have heard that anal sex is painful for women, and they are fearful of causing her pain. Other men were brought up in a time when anything anal was considered the ultimate taboo and it's just something they have difficulty getting over. Still other men are concerned about any "mess" - even with a condom. And, as mentioned above, some men think it falls too close to "gay" to make them comfortable.

The only way you will ever really know is through honest communication. Some men can overcome their inhibitions, some never will. If involved with a man who is hesitant, it simply depends on how important this activity is for you.

Also, I think a lot of men are curious about it, perhaps even have fantasies of it, but the reality is something they simply cannot face.

Yes the gay thing is a big hold up to many both male & female, an ex G/F I introduced to anal had that question for me because of my enjoyment in being in her butt, (she did enjoy it a lot & even asked for it often).

As for worries about it being unclean an enema clears that up & what it dosen't a shower does the job.

Talking openly & honestly with partners has always worked for me
with anything "DIFFERENT" we wanted to try sexually.

Anyone new to anal sex needs lots of patients plus lots of waterbased lube & keep it slow & gentle till your partner relaxes & gets used to having a cock in their butt,I also use different size vibrating butt plugs which gets them relaxed &enjoying the anal invasion.

Damn I need a play mate....ALL this anal sex talk has me horny.

 

[emmessemm]

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[ReadyOne]

Re: Take it as a complement

PinkOchard,

I apologize for addressing you by the wrong name and have edited my post.

 

[thedanimal]

PinkOrchid,
I have been visiting literotica for a while now and finally decided to post something. I guess it is time to give back since I've been taking and taking.
I felt compelled to respond to your post because I can understand where the guy is coming from and have a solution that might work.
I used to be anti-anal. However, once I started watching porn (and almost all porn has anal these days) I slowly (not so slowly, really) became more and more accepting of it.
Now I am all for it. The same thing happened to other guys I know. Maybe it takes some getting used to.
So my suggestion is to watch some good quality porn with him.
Hope that helps,
-Danimal

 

[DevilBoy79]

Ok, I need to know if this is just me, or is this relatively common. I don't think it's any great secret that I love anal sex, but most of the guys I've been involved with prefer vaginal sex, to the point where it's a big deal to get a good ass-fucking.

What's up with that??? Is that the case for most guys, or am I just finding the weirdos?

got no problem with it here, yet to actually try it though, we usually get caught up in alot of other things that feel good

 

[Carnus]

Personally I love anal, just becuase it is naughty, taboo or not the suggested position by the society for boring sex. Any time any woman ever wants a good hard round of anal, PLEASE let me know, I must admit that I am partial to all, but I love anal. If a woman even hinted at me that she wanted me in her ass I would be hard enough to cut glass on the spot.

Well just in case I was beating around the bush (yes pun intended) mmmmmmm I would love to bend you over and slide deep in your ass, watching as you slowly stretch around me, pushing forward until my hips are snuggles against the cheeks of your butt.

And if you find a man who tells you that he don't want to, thats not his thing or whatever, tell him go back home to mom, he probably needs to help her with something.


Patrick

 

[RoughPlay]

You're just finding the weirdos. I love anal sex. Its the best thing ever.
I can't get enough of it.

I think a man is either into it or he isn't. If its important to you and
he's not interested then I think its best to find another man who is.

Do you like it in your mouth, pussy and ass in equal proportions or is
an occasional ass fuck enough for you ?

 

[lovechild27]

I dont get it...WHY is it weird for someone to not want something sexual? I have ran into plenty of men who just arent down with the idea of putting their penis in the place where you crap from. No biggie! Being open minded can sometimes do the opposite to your attitudes it seems....

 

[RoughPlay]

I dont get it...WHY is it weird for someone to not want something sexual?

I believe its called irony.

 

[lovechild27]

Ironic as it may be...not every sexual practice is going to appeal to everyone. Just because men are supposed to have high sex drives doesnt mean he has to be open to everything!

 

[Lust Engine]

Ironic as it may be...not every sexual practice is going to appeal to everyone. Just because men are supposed to have high sex drives doesnt mean he has to be open to everything!

Agreed that just because one has an open mind, he's gotta try everything.

But for this lad here, anal sex is one of those pleasures I'm glad to say I've been VERY open to. Wonderful sensations leading up to & during.

 

[Gil_T2]

Ironic as it may be...not every sexual practice is going to appeal to everyone. Just because men are supposed to have high sex drives doesnt mean he has to be open to everything!

Fair enough but how dull life wouldbe if weall liked exactly the same sexual positions No variety,kinks etc.

At least there are lots of ppl who do enjoy ANAL both guys & gals,
my introduction was given by a loverly lady who knew what she wanted & was open enough to feel free to ask.

She told me to lie still & definately not push till she said it was OK she then climbed on top,lowered herself till her butt was full the slowly rode me till she had relaxed enough to give me the GOOOO
to start pounding her rear entry.

 

[lovechild27]

Alright...a person being closed off to anal makes them boring?

Thats...weird....especially since there is a world of other kinks out there.

I guess what I should of said is this...

If this situation was turned around...and this was a woman who didnt want anal...responses would probably be MUCH different. Not bad for a guy to not like a certain practice...much like a woman not being very fond of it...its OK! Doesnt make them boring, dull or unwilling to try. They just dont like it. I was surprised that so many thought it was that big a deal.

 

[Gil_T2]

Alright...a person being closed off to anal makes them boring?

Thats...weird....especially since there is a world of other kinks out there.

I guess what I should of said is this...

If this situation was turned around...and this was a woman who didnt want anal...responses would probably be MUCH different. Not bad for a guy to not like a certain practice...much like a woman not being very fond of it...its OK! Doesnt make them boring, dull or unwilling to try. They just dont like it. I was surprised that so many thought it was that big a deal.

A lady who offers you her ass is giving you her trust as it is so easy for the guy to cause pain either through not having the required skill to enter slowly & safely which will result in causing pain ( this isn't wanted for their enjoyment-NORMALLY *some might want the pain*) or not caring.
personally pleasure is better as it will get you much more butt to fuck & they will be able to cum with you fucking their butt.

 

[Noneyabizness]

Since there are so many taboos and misconceptions about that zone and anal sex in general,many people are put off by the idea,not having even tried once.
Speaking for me,i love anal sex and anal play,i've found that many partners,given the right information,a little patience and the right stimulation,are willing to try it and have enjoyed it very much.Besides,with the person i'm with,i would like to try everything,and if there's something she likes to do,i'm more than willing to please her.Maybe i'm the weirdo
About playng hard to get,if a man needs that,like really needs that,i don't think he's a good partner in bed.Everyone it's entitled to have different opinions and tastes,maybe those two just prefer oral or vaginal sex.
To me,with the right person,it can become a very intense and magic experience,sometimes more than with normal intercourse,both from the physical and mental point of wiew.Also,
the person receiving it,relaxing and letting me in,makes a more than conscious effort,if you know what i mean.And the sensation of being inside another person that way is way strong,in every aspect.
Sorry for that rant,i was getting a little carried away.
I hope to have answered to your question

I wish your next partner will be a perfect match for you


Isshogai7

I tried it once, and just wasn't in to it. He asked me to try, so I did.....that was the one and only time for me.

To each his own.

 

[DevilBoy79]

whats the easiest position for trying anal the first time? i would think most likely doggystyle, that way you she can take things as fast or slow as needed correct?

 

[SexyChele]

whats the easiest position for trying anal the first time? i would think most likely doggystyle, that way you she can take things as fast or slow as needed correct?

For me it was doggy style, yes. But I had a partner who was very gentle, very patient, very understanding, and very willing to move at my pace. He basically did the initial entry, then told me to push back against him when I felt comfortable and to go as fast or slow as I wanted.

I would think the absolute best position would be with the woman on top. That way, she is in control of everything and if he starts to thrust, she can hop off easily enough. Being on top enables a woman to control just how deep and how fast a man will enter her. Also, if she feels she just can't take it, she can easily slip off.

Ultimately, the best position is the one where both parties are comfortable and relaxed. And to keep in mind that one position might work for one woman, but another woman might need another position to feel comfortable. It's all about communicating.

 

[nightswan]

I agree with what isshogai7 has said.Also with Sexychele:the initla first position must be one with wich the receiving partner must feel confortable.Her on the top is good for directing the action,but it makes the anus contract while keeping balance,in the first time.Go to puckerup.com for some expert advice.Pinkorchid,you know how i feel about the experience.

I wish you many happy times with a caring partner!

nightswan

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

There is NOTHING more erotic....

..than to have a woman crave and loudly enjoy anal sex....I typically last a long time...until I find a woman that LOVES and enjoys anal sex....then the excitement is too much for me to control.....it is an amazing mental stimulation (as well as physical).....

Men aren't crazy to NOT want it..I just feel a little sorry for those guys, and women, that mentally do not give it a try.....seems a waste of potential screaming and orgasms to me...

 

[Mr.G]

BUMP

So, Pink. Since your return - any luck getting your fanny fucked like you love it? Or was that what the trip out of town was all about.

I wonder how many in here would sign up for a test ride?

 

[PinkOrchid]