Asking my gf to shave?

[dasani77]

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[lilpriss]

Well, not trying to sound flip, why don't you just bring it up?

Do you shave?

I have noticed that I have alot more pubic hair than the guy I'm seeing... I thought he may like for me to keep mine shorter... so instead of saying "hey, want me to shave?" I asked him about what he does, and told him I was thinking about it. From his reaction, I think he would like it but didn't want to say anything for whatever reason. Granted, I'm not going to be bald... just a good "buzz cut"

Now seeing how you'd like for her to shave... let me just say this... after a couple of days, it itches like hell. Also in the bathroom (this may be too much for the weak of heart) the hair keeps urine from getting everywhere... I don't know about everyone else but the times I have shaved, going to the john was a whole new experience!

Really honesty is the best policy, she may have no clue that you'd like this. You can tell her that you wonder if it would feel any different for her when you go down on her... what's the worst thing that can happen... she'll try it and not like it...

Hell you could tie her down spread eagle and blindfold her and do it for her <evil grin>

 

[dasani77]

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[Babe In Jello]

Find a funky looking razor (like one of the colored Venus ones), some shaving gel formulated for sensitive skin, and a new pair of cute undies...try using a gift like that to bring it up...

Or you could try more conventional ways, like ask her if shes up for trying something new...hint about the fact that it would make her alot more sensitive (in a good way)...but make sure you reassure her that shes beautiful and sexy just the way she is...

Good luck

 

[dasani77]

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[PinkOrchid]

 

[lilpriss]

She's shy... well hmm... ask her if she's ever shaved. She may say yes... but if she's not very experienced she's probably never even given it any thought.

Make it into something you two can share... since you already do this, let yours get a little bushy, buy some boxers to match a pair of her panties... if you use a pair of clippers to trim yours... you can spend about $30 on her and pick up a small pair of clippers at beauty supply stores. They carry a bunch of different kinds... I like "Peanuts" because they are small and come with different sized gaurds to help decide how much to leave... Then you two can "play beauty parlor" and give each other "haircuts"

Hey sounds fun to me!

 

[dasani77]

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[DuckLover]

Talking is good

I agree that talking to her explicitly about your interest is the best way. It worked for me! My gf at the time had never shaved or trimmed her pubic hair, but when I mentioned I thought it would be hot, she's agreed to try it. Turned out she loved the feel of being shaven and keeps herself bare to this day! (2 years later)

One way to bring it up would be to ask her how she feels about you being trimmed. Then perhaps follow Lilpriss' suggestion about doing it together. She could trim herself while you trim yourself. Neither of you has to go bald, but it could be exciting to watch each other trim down a bit.

Remember that anytime you ask your partner to push their comfort zone, you should A) being willing to reciprocate, and B) show sincere appreciation, even if the result isn't as great as you expected. This advice holds true not only for trimming but for ANYTHING you ask her to do.

 

[Ice Princess]

I would be very careful about suggesting it. It's something you see in porn films constantly and most of the crowd around here is extremely prejudiced in favor of shaving, but you'd better take into account that there are plenty of women out there who would be immediately (and possibly permanently) horrified by the idea.

Especially if she's self-conscious and inexperienced, maybe you should start by talking about the trimming you do yourself and see if you could interest her in a trim first. That's a less intimidating way to start out.

 

[dasani77]

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[likaway]

Shave

Just a thought, I've shaved a couple of times and left it long sometimes and trimmed it sometimes. I like both bare and trimmed best, but even when not hairy my pee doesn't 'go' everywhere. I know you needed that infomation. Love Lisa

 

[PhilLusty]

Thanks all

Hello

Dasani I have had the same ? on my mind, except its my wife in question. She trimms it for the most part but I would love her bald.

I appreicate all the comments...

I think i'll try Lil priss idea of cutting each other

so I keep you posted on my luck , hope you will do the same

best of luck

Phil lusty

 

[CuteJenn]

My boyfriend just suggested I shave, or actually, he said that if I did, he would go down on my, which is something he hasn't done yet. I think I would have just prefered he say "Hmmmm.....have you ever considered going bare?" that way it is something I could do for him, instead of it seeming like I just wanted the oral sex. I bought the Skintamite bikini and underarm shave gel, but I'm not sure if it works ok.

 

[CoolWhipBikini]

Shave, Trim Or Wax

I shave usually leaving little if any. Most women shave for swimsuits so suggest how erotic it looks to you, to see little if any hair there. Also complain that you already have dental floss! Waxing hurts for the first few times, so shaving is easier. Only problem is once you start- don't stop. Shaving brings stubble which can be irritating for both, not to mention in grown hairs. Waxing last longer leaving skin baby smooth but OUCH so have some fun with it, and as she is shy, let her assist you shaving your face and slowly increase her comfort level. Hopefully you will both over a short period of time, bring shaving all areas something you can both enjoy. Hope these suggestions help.

 

[dasani77]

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[an_angels_wings]

Interestingly enough ... I had zero experience before I met my current boyfriend. Once we started becoming intimate ... it took a while before everything was a lot less awkward and everything. And then the idea occurred to me to trim a bit. I refuse to shave it all off, I simply do not like the idea, but I will trim because I can understand, having gone down on him, how it can get in the way and stuff. The best part was that I mentioned I'd done it to see if he'd noticed and he was really enthusiastic in his appreciation ... which made it totally worth it and very nice.

You may just want to give it a little while. Let her get a little more comfortable with the idea of you two being intimate in such a way, then bring it up.


p.s. - this is what I get for not reading the entire thread before posting.