Asking for it

How do you ask for sex? Flirting, innuendoes, eye contact leading to wiggly eyebrows, light touches or maybe rough ones?

Undressing another and saying, "Let's fuck" has been effective. Is that too aggressive?

What's your go to?

Texting, nibbling on neck and shoulders, ass grabs, grinding her ass as I play with her nipples in bed. Honestly it's what ever happens in the moment and location.
 
When I was in my early 20s, I had a housemate whose girlfriend had the subtlety of an earthquake. It was pretty routine that she would get home from class or work, and if her boyfriend was around, she would say something on her way to their bedroom like, "you have five minutes to start fucking me before I do it myself." He would always race to join her.

Those of us in the house who were single would often tell him to make her wait, but he never did. And, as we were single and he wasn't, I can't fault him for ignoring us.
 
Coming home sometime after midnight from work, quietly as possible changing into my pj's (usually just an over-sized t-shirt or pullover), washing my face and brushing my teeth, then sliding into bed and tapping him on the shoulder with my finger usually works pretty well. :)
 
My first sexual encounter with a woman started with a two-word question she asked at the end of a humorous dinner conversation at a dorm cafeteria table, "Wanna ball?"

Two words started a two-year relationship.
 
Coming home sometime after midnight from work, quietly as possible changing into my pj's (usually just an over-sized t-shirt or pullover), washing my face and brushing my teeth, then sliding into bed and tapping him on the shoulder with my finger usually works pretty well. :)

I guess your smell will help to remind "him" of the physical aspects of love.
 
I guess your smell will help to remind "him" of the physical aspects of love.


So you're suggesting he's turned on by the smell of lavender (or whatever other scent I'm wearing) and not me? That's sort of mean. :( I guess I could start taking a shower when I come home from work to see if that's true. But then I won't feel like having sex, I'll only want to snuggle and go to sleep. Hmmm .....
 
Texting, nibbling on neck and shoulders, ass grabs, grinding her ass as I play with her nipples in bed. Honestly it's what ever happens in the moment and location.

FFS why would you go and dig up a dead thread? Ain’t nobody got time for that.
 
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