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[AlexBailey]

I blame the Vikings and their pronoun thing

Right?

Someone was telling me that in Japanese there is basically only one pronoun, it’s gender neutral and it generally means “that person.”

I guess westerners just need to know what’s in someone’s pants.

 

[stickygirl]

I feel guilty for doing this but, if you don't ask...

So Goalpost Pt01 has been nominated for the special category Transgender/Other Gendered
You can place your vote here

Thanks a million and... read the story if you like You'll love Vicki xx

 

[Zrosey]

I feel guilty for doing this but, if you don't ask...

So Goalpost Pt01 has been nominated for the special category Transgender/Other Gendered
You can place your vote here

Thanks a million and... read the story if you like You'll love Vicki xx

Many of us don't even see these contests are happening!
Thanks for posting a link got some reading to do now!

 

[stickygirl]

I voted for you of course but you are behind

Honestly, if a few folks read the story as a result, I'd be made up

 

[Zrosey]

I feel guilty for doing this but, if you don't ask...

So Goalpost Pt01 has been nominated for the special category Transgender/Other Gendered
You can place your vote here

Thanks a million and... read the story if you like You'll love Vicki xx

Several things, I'm not really a sports girl at all, but this story of yours got even me bouncing on my chair in excitement, reading about the goal scored when you got them first together! And omg! I've been on hrt for close to a year now, since starting, my interest and desire for sex is pretty much in the basement...like zero....
But reading your oh so lovely and incredibly hot scene between Vicki and Lotte, let's say it moved me, in a good, so very good way

Anyways, I loved the story, I should really go read the others before I cast a vote tho....
Again, thanks for the link

 

[stickygirl]

Several things, I'm not really a sports girl at all, but this story of yours got even me bouncing on my chair in excitement, reading about the goal scored when you got them first together! And omg! I've been on hrt for close to a year now, since starting, my interest and desire for sex is pretty much in the basement...like zero....
But reading your oh so lovely and incredibly hot scene between Vicki and Lotte, let's say it moved me, in a good, so very good way

Anyways, I loved the story, I should really go read the others before I cast a vote tho....
Again, thanks for the link

Give it time and your libido will return. Your body is still going "wtf" and busy doing girl stuff.

Tell me you cried at the end - it gets me every time ( but no spoilers! ).

 

[Crios]

Give it time and your libido will return. Your body is still going "wtf" and busy doing girl stuff.

Tell me you cried at the end - it gets me every time ( but no spoilers! ).

Goalposts was a great story, @stickygirl ! You're a very talented writer. I'm no expert but I know what I like and can tell when an author puts deep emotion into their stories. You could certainly write in any of the Lit genres and be a whiz at it.

 

[Zrosey]

Give it time and your libido will return. Your body is still going "wtf" and busy doing girl stuff.

Tell me you cried at the end - it gets me every time ( but no spoilers! ).

One of the changes for myself since being on hrt, my boy parts down there, ummm, they really don't react any more. I'm totally fine with that, but now I get this whole body buzz, or almost a feeling of a gentle wave washing through me.
While I am ambivalent about sex, I love, love cuddling so there's that anyways, and I'm not really in a hurry to change this!

Geez, it's kinda a given that my eyes teared up! Def a happy cry!

 

[AlexBailey]

I just finished goal posts pt1, great work Sticky. It brought up a lot of emotions for me that I didn’t expect.

Back when I presented more as a tomboy and had a lesbian girlfriend, I was part of big group of mostly lesbian activists. I regularly played music with group of us. I was usually “allowed” to be at women’s-only spaces but even as part of the band I was not allowed to most of the big events. Women’s Weekend was off limits to me. There’s an element of familiar feelings that really resonate with me.

The sex scenes had many other familiar themes but I don’t want to make any spoilers.

It’s a great piece in how it’s not just erotica - it’s a piece of reality too. I’m sure if it were to go to print it would make it into many dickheads’ list of banned books.

 

[stickygirl]

Goalposts was a great story, @stickygirl ! You're a very talented writer. I'm no expert but I know what I like and can tell when an author puts deep emotion into their stories. You could certainly write in any of the Lit genres and be a whiz at it.

That's kind but I find it difficult to write, most of the time. Goalposts grew from a particular mood and I'm in a different headspace just now - a better one, but rooted in the now and real.

 

[Zrosey]

I just finished goal posts pt1, great work Sticky. It brought up a lot of emotions for me that I didn’t expect

@stickygirl , same for me, lots in your story that has made me emotional. At one part you write how being trans became a "political football that hit Vicki straight in the face"
This is so true for me as well! I just want to live my life, but it feels like hatred is so prevalent in my country....
I don't mean to burden you, but your writing is def welcome and feels like awesome support!
dang....crying again

 

[stickygirl]

@stickygirl , same for me, lots in your story that has made me emotional. At one part you write how being trans became a "political football that hit Vicki straight in the face"
This is so true for me as well! I just want to live my life, but it feels like hatred is so prevalent in my country....
I don't mean to burden you, but your writing is def welcome and feels like awesome support!
dang....crying again

Yup, the tears come with the territory, but they are good tears!

To be honest, the idea grew out of the huge girl-crush I have for Leah Williamson that developed during lock down, and Leah is one of the protagonists in Pt 02. Now that chapter will make you cry too! Maybe there'll be a Pt 03... well the long winter nights approach, so who knows?

I never found the men's soccer game very interesting ( too many peacocks ) but the spirit of the women's game is infectious and strong. The recent scandal in Spain following the women's world cup is an expression of how younger women are saying 'We'll do things our way TYVM, so step aside or we'll kick your ass' which is very me!
However... trans folk aren't yet accepted in mainstream sports and Vicki is caught up in that. Water flows around a problem, not through it and often that's the wise choice.

 

[stickygirl]

A good friend sent me this IG link and it deserves an airing here. If it's slow to load, try it in Instagram

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[Zrosey]

A new song out by Laura Jane Grace
It def speaks to me!

https://www.them.us/story/laura-jan...blishing&utm_social_type=owned&utm_brand=them

 

[AlexBailey]

A new song out by Laura Jane Grace
It def speaks to me!

https://www.them.us/story/laura-jan...blishing&utm_social_type=owned&utm_brand=them

Dysphoria Hoodie!

I was talking with a ftm friend just today who said he’d stopped wearing his oversized hoodies after his recent top surgery.

 

[Zrosey]

Wearing mine right now but it's not a dysphoria hoodie today, it's just a warm snuggly top I'm feeling good in

 

[stickygirl]

A new song out by Laura Jane Grace
It def speaks to me!

https://www.them.us/story/laura-jan...blishing&utm_social_type=owned&utm_brand=them

We've all got our favourite hoodie but did we all wear it unwashed 10,000 times - eeew?!
Mine wraps its teddy arms around me and it's so warm.

 

[ChrissyClitLit]

We've all got our favourite hoodie but did we all wear it unwashed 10,000 times - eeew?!
Mine wraps its teddy arms around me and it's so warm.

My army of hoodies protected me from curious eyes while I was growing out my girls. I collected… MANY, most of them dude hoodies. Though I don’t need them anymore for that, I can’t seem to part with them. I stash them around the house like lip balm. Godforbid a hoodie isn’t in arms reach.

 

[stickygirl]

My army of hoodies protected me from curious eyes while I was growing out my girls. I collected… MANY, most of them dude hoodies. Though I don’t need them anymore for that, I can’t seem to part with them. I stash them around the house like lip balm. Godforbid a hoodie isn’t in arms reach.

Especially the ones long enough to hide your bum too

 

[Zrosey]

This gives me warm, lovely feels and weepy eyes
In a seriously good way!
Art can be found at, questionablecontent.net

 

[dodgeboy2]

This gives me warm, lovely feels and weepy eyes
In a seriously good way!
Art can be found at, questionablecontent.net

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May all of you out there find a man like that, someone you could love and who would love you enough to just figure it out. I know I would love to be that guy if it wasn't for the fact that I was married but if I wasn't and I dated a girl and was interested in her inner womanhood I would be a bit taken back when I found out she was in fact someone who was formerly a man to the outside world it wouldn't bother me at all as I would have fell for the woman she is, although it might take a while to figure out who knows it could be the best journey that myself or any other guy may take in their entire life and allowing any expectations of what so many consider to be the social norm, or should I say social bias, to sway you into walking away could be the biggest mistake of their life as they might just miss the greatest love of their life disappear.

 

[dodgeboy2]

That was one of the noblest things I have ever read. Very well said!

It was heart felt as I know some of you girls out there are given a terrible time by others just because you want to fit into society as who you are inside which sometimes is different than what you were born into. I know myself if I wasn't married and met a transitioning or transitioned girl and we were compatible as friends first and were compatible in our desire I would find a way to make it work, I wouldn't kid you it might take a moment but I would like to think I would figure it out and make sure that girl knew she was nothing to me but a woman and we could explore a much deeper relationship hopefully a long and loving one.

 

[stickygirl]

May all of you out there find a man like that, someone you could love and who would love you enough to just figure it out. I know I would love to be that guy if it wasn't for the fact that I was married but if I wasn't and I dated a girl and was interested in her inner womanhood I would be a bit taken back when I found out she was in fact someone who was formerly a man to the outside world it wouldn't bother me at all as I would have fell for the woman she is, although it might take a while to figure out who knows it could be the best journey that myself or any other guy may take in their entire life and allowing any expectations of what so many consider to be the social norm, or should I say social bias, to sway you into walking away could be the biggest mistake of their life as they might just miss the greatest love of their life disappear.

Thanks, it's good to hear that kind of opinion, especially when there's so much anti-LGBTQIA in the media and politics. Hopefully one day there'll be nothing to figure out and you'll just date her.

 

[dodgeboy2]

Thanks, it's good to hear that kind of opinion, especially when there's so much anti-LGBTQIA in the media and politics. Hopefully one day there'll be nothing to figure out and you'll just date her.

I totally agree with you, BTW I have been a reader of your thread although never a contributer but had to chime in today when I saw that cartoon. You have a great thread and I have loved reading the many points of view.

 

[stickygirl]

Will that day ever arrive? Maybe not for 20 or 30 years into the future. In some places like the United States of AmeriKKKa, it will probably never arrive. Too much money to be made hating on anyone who is different.

Sure it will. Just need folks to get up and vote the assholes out.