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Are you dominant or submissive

I enjoy taking the initiative, setting the pace, acting upon, making the decisions, do the tying or binding, putting her in a blindfold, giving the spanking or flogging, and doing the penetrating, devouring, and ravishing,
BUT this always all happens within a pretty tight feedback loop—verbal and nonverbal. It’s about her pleasure, and a good part of her pleasure is being used and pleasing me.
 
Most of my life involved heterosexual sex which never made me feel dominant or submissive. I have had sex with one woman who dominated me. Since that affair, I have had no sexual attraction to men. I am attracted to and have sexual fantasies about women. Those fantasies are confusing because sometimes I'm dominant and other times submissive.
 
I will submit, but do not consider myself submissive. I will control and dominate, but do not consider myself dominant.

For me, there is pleasure to be gleaned from each. And I like sex for the pleasure it gives me.
 
Both kind of, I like to give up control mostly, but I also get into moods where I'm a lot more forward. But not in the sense that I want a guy to be submissive, I just get a lot more demanding. I haven't had many experiences with other women, but when I have, I was the more dominating one.
 
So far I feel about 50/50, and I could be a submissive for the right Dom, and my list of boundaries are very small. It pretty much is 1. no scat, 2. no permanent scares or marks, 3. no blood, 4. nothing public unless every individual around verbally and enthusiastically consented to witness or participate in the fun.

But if I'm the dominant it's then I'll find out what my sub wants out of the relationship and incorporate it into what I desire. But I still expect full control over them.

I'd expect them to remain desperately horny and eager so they're ready to serve whenever I want to use them. They'd be locked in their collar and locked out of their closet. The only time they're allowed to wear clothes is when I'm dressing them up to go out. If they have a cock, it remains locked up and they're only allowed to cum from anal penetration, except on the rare occasion I want to torment them with post orgasm hand jobs. If they have a vagina, I'll be stretching them daily and training them to be fisted.

I also don't want a distracted sub, so they'll be limited to two hours of phone time each day unless there's an emergency. I'd install an app on their phone to monitor how much time they use each day. If they go over the allowed time they'll be punished for it. They're also not allowed to cook, they'll eat whatever I make for them, and they'll be eating on the floor. They're not allowed on the furniture unless I'm feeling extra nice, but I'd put a big fluffy dog bed down for them. I'd also expect them to service me before I get out of bed. If they wake up first I expect to wake up with my cock in their mouth, if I wake up first they can expect to have my cock in their ass.

To make sure they remain grateful to by my slave, at least two days a week they'll be returning to live their vanilla life so they can remember why they surrendered themselves to me.

There's a lot more activities and rules I would implement but tbh this post will turn into a novel if I don't stop.
 
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