Are you dominant or submissive

[Bewleybrother]

The Strangler

"Golly gee, golly gosh,don't call me a golly frog!.

 

[BigWeapon]

A dom daddy

 

[mywife4othermen]

I tend to be more on the submissive side.

In my business life and most of my personal life, I tend to e dominant and quite assertive. However, when my wife's former boyfriend Steve is around, I become almost helplessly submissive.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Are you dominant or submissive?

Yes.

 

[newhere2learn]

I'm a classic switch. At home, work, with women... Dominant.

Show me cock? Cage my cock? I become a whimpering slut.

 

[SomeJohn]

75/25

I'm probably about 75% sub, 25% Dom. And my wife is the opposite. We're well matched that way.

 

[Ashesh9]

I'm a brown skinned Hindu male devotee of Cosmic Creatrix Goddess Kali and i Submit to Her and worship Her by performing CBT yoga as penance. I insert a lubed stainkess steel rod inside my penis and fuck my Penis to Apologize to Her for my entitled Toxic Masculinity/Ego. Later when all my Sub/Maso buttons are pressed I hold the rod firmly against my orostate gland aka Mooladhara Chakra (the prostate glNd can be reached thru the penis/lingam , yes!)inhale and withold deep breath in lung. I put my Mooladhara chakra in muscular Lockdown and silently repeat Mystic formulae "Jai Prabhu Mooladhara/Victory Lord Prostate!!!" . Until red warm fresh blood spurts out and i slurp /lick it up.
It is delicious in taste.
With my wife i am dominant and i spank her buttocks to orgasm!!! I need to press her head and ass simultaneouslygently but firmly znd she orgasms!!!

 

[Babygirl8719]

Submissive

 

[BHughes]

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[EmilysJournal]

How does anyone really know? In my stories I write about how I imagine being submissive is, but at the same time nothing I write about is remotely close to anything that I have personally experienced. My entire perception of submission is based on things I have read in books or watched in movies but never experienced. My day to day life isn’t even close to anything like that. I often wonder if it’s even a real thing or just something that people imagine when they are writing.

 

[alwayshorny2020]

Got to say probably both, I enjoy dominating a female but would love a woman to dominate me and peg me.
On the bi side I prefer being dominated by another man.

 

[fitandfresh]

Hmmm

Probably Dominant but in the right hands at the right time.......who knows lol

 

[Phillip1310]

Incredibly submissive.. All I want to do is please.

 

[alabasterbreasts]

I've found that as I've gained confidence over the years with my sexuality, being submissive turns me on much more.

 

[Slutbabe86]

Can good little sluts Earn extra credit Sir?

 

[Slutbabe86]

Dominant

Can good sluts earn extra credit Sir?

 

[samantha647]

I've found that as I've gained confidence over the years with my sexuality, being submissive turns me on much more.

same

 

[Phillip1310]

Saw some people messaged me when they saw my submissive post but accidentally deleted a few.. sorry if you messaged me

 

[hulmule]

Dominant - I see some subs like to please their Dom. I like that...

 

[SouthFloridaDom]

Dom

Not many here like me Dominant.

 

[kucked2x]

Submissive.

 

[DVS]

How does anyone really know? In my stories I write about how I imagine being submissive is, but at the same time nothing I write about is remotely close to anything that I have personally experienced. My entire perception of submission is based on things I have read in books or watched in movies but never experienced. My day to day life isn’t even close to anything like that. I often wonder if it’s even a real thing or just something that people imagine when they are writing.

If your day to day life is one where you have to deal with stress, maybe you're a boss or supervisor, you could be one of those who has a subconscious mind taking care of you in your sexual desires. To deal with the stress, sometimes the subconscious mind comes out and you become very submissive, wanting to forget the stress of the day and let someone else make the decisions in your sex life.

In fact, it's quite common for this type of thing to happen. If you've never experienced submission, you should at least be able to think about how you'd like it to be, if you have submissive tendencies. Submission to you can really be whatever you want it to be. It can be as simple as a spanking, or maybe even some bondage and being forced to sexually service your partner. It can be what you read in stories, but it's a personal thing, so it could be nothing like what you have read in stories.

Writing about submission is difficult, if you don't have those feelings, or have never experienced it in a relationship. That's part of what happened with the Shades of Grey books. She had never experienced submission, nor had her husband experienced being a dom. So, her story line was really a romance novel, but she inserted bondage and punishment scenes in place of the romance scenes. They tried to experiment with implements, but neither of them really understood the nuances involved. She also had to make the dom living a troubled life, because she couldn't understand why a "normal" person would have sexual desires like that.

Of course, the average housewife loved it, just like they would love any other romance novel. But, anybody who had actually experienced the lifestyle, saw it as the crap it was.

 

[Wilks]

Submissive.

 

[rider81]

If your day to day life is one where you have to deal with stress, maybe you're a boss or supervisor, you could be one of those who has a subconscious mind taking care of you in your sexual desires. To deal with the stress, sometimes the subconscious mind comes out and you become very submissive, wanting to forget the stress of the day and let someone else make the decisions in your sex life.

In fact, it's quite common for this type of thing to happen. If you've never experienced submission, you should at least be able to think about how you'd like it to be, if you have submissive tendencies. Submission to you can really be whatever you want it to be. It can be as simple as a spanking, or maybe even some bondage and being forced to sexually service your partner. It can be what you read in stories, but it's a personal thing, so it could be nothing like what you have read in stories.

Writing about submission is difficult, if you don't have those feelings, or have never experienced it in a relationship. That's part of what happened with the Shades of Grey books. She had never experienced submission, nor had her husband experienced being a dom. So, her story line was really a romance novel, but she inserted bondage and punishment scenes in place of the romance scenes. They tried to experiment with implements, but neither of them really understood the nuances involved. She also had to make the dom living a troubled life, because she couldn't understand why a "normal" person would have sexual desires like that.

Of course, the average housewife loved it, just like they would love any other romance novel. But, anybody who had actually experienced the lifestyle, saw it as the crap it was.

The first paragraph is very, very true for a lot of people. As someone in that position, there are days when it would be very erotic and satisfying. Not every day, but some days.

 

[eroticspank]

If your day to day life is one where you have to deal with stress, maybe you're a boss or supervisor, you could be one of those who has a subconscious mind taking care of you in your sexual desires. To deal with the stress, sometimes the subconscious mind comes out and you become very submissive, wanting to forget the stress of the day and let someone else make the decisions in your sex life.

In fact, it's quite common for this type of thing to happen. If you've never experienced submission, you should at least be able to think about how you'd like it to be, if you have submissive tendencies. Submission to you can really be whatever you want it to be. It can be as simple as a spanking, or maybe even some bondage and being forced to sexually service your partner. It can be what you read in stories, but it's a personal thing, so it could be nothing like what you have read in stories.

Writing about submission is difficult, if you don't have those feelings, or have never experienced it in a relationship. That's part of what happened with the Shades of Grey books. She had never experienced submission, nor had her husband experienced being a dom. So, her story line was really a romance novel, but she inserted bondage and punishment scenes in place of the romance scenes. They tried to experiment with implements, but neither of them really understood the nuances involved. She also had to make the dom living a troubled life, because she couldn't understand why a "normal" person would have sexual desires like that.

Of course, the average housewife loved it, just like they would love any other romance novel. But, anybody who had actually experienced the lifestyle, saw it as the crap it was.

You make some great points. I like to read discussion about D/s. Talking about thoughts, experiences, and lack of experience is very helpful in D/s. These kind of posts help us to understand where and why we are Dominant or Submissive vs just saying the word.

ES