Are you dominant or submissive

[Anihotrod11]

Both.. why miss the fun by sticking on to one side

 

[Carmina24]

The Ruin in His Kneeling

Yes, he kneels for me. But the meaning runs deeper than the act of submission. His knees touch the ground not because he is lesser - but because he trusts me to strip him bare and build him again.

Yes, my name is branded on his body. But that mark is more than ownership. It is a warning and a promise. A scar that says: he is mine to protect, mine to destroy, mine to resurrect.

To lead is not to take.
To command is not to consume.
To be a Domme - at least as I live it - is to cradle his surrender in one hand and press my hunger into his skin with the other.

He gives me his surrender, and I give him my responsibility.
He gives me his obedience, and I give him my hunger.
He gives me his heart, and I give him mine - fierce, relentless, unmerciful in its devotion.

And so when he kneels, the world may see submission -
but what I see is a man quivering in the heat of my gaze,
aching for the graze of my nails,
burning for the drag of my lips,
a man undone, ruined, and remade in the fire of my touch.

(Reposted from The Art of Getting Lit Laid)

 

[CliodhnaOB]

Sub xx

 

[masterslave00]

The Ruin in His Kneeling

Yes, he kneels for me. But the meaning runs deeper than the act of submission. His knees touch the ground not because he is lesser - but because he trusts me to strip him bare and build him again.

Yes, my name is branded on his body. But that mark is more than ownership. It is a warning and a promise. A scar that says: he is mine to protect, mine to destroy, mine to resurrect.

To lead is not to take.
To command is not to consume.
To be a Domme - at least as I live it - is to cradle his surrender in one hand and press my hunger into his skin with the other.

He gives me his surrender, and I give him my responsibility.
He gives me his obedience, and I give him my hunger.
He gives me his heart, and I give him mine - fierce, relentless, unmerciful in its devotion.

And so when he kneels, the world may see submission -
but what I see is a man quivering in the heat of my gaze,
aching for the graze of my nails,
burning for the drag of my lips,
a man undone, ruined, and remade in the fire of my touch.

(Reposted from The Art of Getting Lit Laid)

OMG @Carmina24, what an amazing writing. I can see people I know in this... Myself including!

 

[EmmAgain]

Dominant in an understated feminine way. No whips or chains, thanks. But I like it when men do what I tell them to.

 

[masterslave00]

Dominant in an understated feminine way. No whips or chains, thanks. But I like it when men do what I tell them to.

That's my kind of young woman...

 

[ChuckWolf]

For roleplay purposes, prefer submissive, but can switch if the female I'm with wants to be dominated.

 

[ycym]

Dominant in an understated feminine way. No whips or chains, thanks. But I like it when men do what I tell them to.

Get the wastebin out... do the washing... clean the rooms... something like this.
Just kidding.

 

[Honeysuckleboi]

Very submissive, even outside of the bedroom. If the right experienced Dom/Domme were to give me a firm but loving hand and guide and train me, I'd be a very willing toy. Praise is a great motivator hehe

 

[LittleGreene]

I lean more submissive. But with my husband we’ve learnt that we can both switch when one feels like being in control.

 

[CuriousJInLA]

I lean more submissive. But with my husband we’ve learnt that we can both switch when one feels like being in control.

That’s my ideal. I’m typically more dominant but I’ve always wanted to be submissive occasionally

 

[LittleGreene]

That’s my ideal. I’m typically more dominant but I’ve always wanted to be submissive occasionally

My husband really likes those times where the pressure is off him and he can juts follow my lead. But it’s not my natural state - I need to be in a a certain mood for it

 

[CuriousJInLA]

My husband really likes those times where the pressure is off him and he can juts follow my lead. But it’s not my natural state - I need to be in a a certain mood for it

That would be awesome. Only seems like it would be fun if the woman was owning and enjoying the role. But also agree that it’s not my permanent desire, but a real fantasy

 

[lindi_85]

I found out in the last few years that I’m a bratty sub but only for the right person. I need to feel safe and loved and wanted but I’m not a little. I’m still working it out.

 

[lindi_85]

The Ruin in His Kneeling

Yes, he kneels for me. But the meaning runs deeper than the act of submission. His knees touch the ground not because he is lesser - but because he trusts me to strip him bare and build him again.

Yes, my name is branded on his body. But that mark is more than ownership. It is a warning and a promise. A scar that says: he is mine to protect, mine to destroy, mine to resurrect.

To lead is not to take.
To command is not to consume.
To be a Domme - at least as I live it - is to cradle his surrender in one hand and press my hunger into his skin with the other.

He gives me his surrender, and I give him my responsibility.
He gives me his obedience, and I give him my hunger.
He gives me his heart, and I give him mine - fierce, relentless, unmerciful in its devotion.

And so when he kneels, the world may see submission -
but what I see is a man quivering in the heat of my gaze,
aching for the graze of my nails,
burning for the drag of my lips,
a man undone, ruined, and remade in the fire of my touch.

(Reposted from The Art of Getting Lit Laid)

This is so beautiful. He is me

 

[notexactlymelville]

I find it vastly easier to be dominant, but obviously only if she shows a submissive side too. Unreciprocated energy is very unsexy.

 

[EmmAgain]

Get the wastebin out... do the washing... clean the rooms... something like this.
Just kidding.

Now that’s what I call husband material!

 

[BillyWalrus]

In normal daily life, we have a relationship of equals as a normal male female couple. In bed she is a dominant male and I am her submissive female. She does all the fucking and I suck her cock. Works for us!

 

[Samantha47]

yes, I am dominant or submissive.

Me too honey

 

[Samantha47]

Masochistic bottom and toy/pet.

I know, I know-- 'sub' has fewer syllables, but bear with me.

Oh you sound perfect

 

[dct10538]

An unapologetic domina.

 

[Samantha47]

An unapologetic domina.

That's perfect for me

 

[Samantha47]

I've always wanted to experience BDSM

 

[Hrdnhrnyhubbie]

Submissive

 

[GayGuyForFun]

Dominant. Occasional switching for specific people who just make me feel like it.