Are you dominant or submissive

[Replicant2018]

Been submissive on Lit

 

[SPARTAN047]

PS If you're a switchy sissy / trans girl I'd love to chat. And leaning Domme — I lean sub.

 

[cactusjack0584]

Usually dominant

 

[Will527]

Having been extremely shy growing up, I've always responded sexually to aggressive girls. Consequently, i would consider myself slightly submissive, because I will accommodate my partner, but only doing certain things.

 

[UsuallyPresent]

Half switch - happily vanilla or dominant, depending on partner/chemistry/situation/etc. Not good at submission.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Having been extremely shy growing up, I've always responded sexually to aggressive girls. Consequently, i would consider myself slightly submissive, because I will accommodate my partner, but only doing certain things.

You've described me exactly. I don't mind if they're aggressive but not too much. And it's normal to have limits.

 

[thomas1965]

Mmmmm this is one of my favorite positions to be tied up in View attachment 2401857

Looks hot and tempting

 

[W3tKitty]

I want to be dominated and owned, ravaged. But I have moments when I like control, usually when it comes to making my husband cum when on top and I control everything and he can’t make me stop. He has mind blowing orgasms and I love doing that sometimes. Otherwise I want to be held down and submissive. More from a man who talks dirty and just has his way hard and rough with my body.

 

[PantyLover84]

I'm super submissive and loving it so far x

 

[desertman45]

submissive !!

 

[drobert44]

Both...

 

[bibokslcs]

Both...

Same...

 

[LustyScribe]

Yes

 

[ukfdivorced]

Always been a bit sub

 

[SweetBaybeeGirl]

Very sub lesbian.

 

[Britva415]

I call myself a switch, but not because I ever Dom or sub at all.

I top and I bottom. I do this with both men and women. I do this with bondage and impact.

The domination and the submission are not the thrill for me. The kinks are, and I recognize that tying someone or getting hit do have inherent D/s in them, I don’t deny that. But I’m not doing any of it for the D/s dynamics.

I call myself switch because “versatile” isn’t normally used in kink, though it’s really the perfect word since it’s explicitly about T/b and not about D/s.

Seems like only gay men use it. And not in the context of kink.

 

[Dreadnort]

Dominant. A dominant gay man

 

[TwystedDzyre]

Dominant through and through.

 

[fma20fma]

submissive enjoys more

 

[Belong2Her]

i am very submissive. Owned by my Wife/Mistress, but available to Superior Men.

 

[Dishrag]

Prob lean more sub

 

[Dishrag]

Prob lean more sub

As I age

 

[Dishrag]

Can I jerk off now?

 

[Brianna96]

Dominant especially when she is older/much older than me. There is nothing that turns m on more than seeing an older woman on her knees, between my legs, looking up at me, begging me to allow her to tongue worship my hot superior pussy.

 

[Britva415]

The domination and the submission are not the thrill for me. The kinks are, and I recognize that tying someone or getting hit do have inherent D/s in them, I don’t deny that. But I’m not doing any of it for the D/s dynamics.

If someone tries to dominate me, I'll push back. If someone is totally submissive to me, I get bored.

So I don't get along well (sexually) with doms or subs

At least, not anyone who takes it too seriously or who NEEDS it to play at all.

I myself kind of need to not play either side of that game.

Doesn't stop me from being kinky. D/s is not the only kink and D/s isn't required for other kinks.

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.