Are you dominant or submissive

[vidmin]

Always sub, just like making people satisfied, that's what turns me on

 

[kinky_older_guy]

Mostly submissive, but I can switch to dom at times.

 

[RachelWalsh]

Very submissive and always seeking dominant

 

[Showmewhatchugot84]

Switch, usually fall heavy into which ever I'm feeling for days to weeks. Not sure how each gets triggered, or if it even does, or if it's just my natural wave that I'm still learning to ride

 

[Lostsoul34]

I tend to be sexually submissive.

 

[Swuchmann]

Dominate with women.

Total sub with men.

 

[eomerson]

Dominant....firm but fair....on the gentler end of the spectrum.

 

[AmandaKellyUK]

oh submissive (but not into overly dom/harsh/pain/humiliation) just like my partner to lead/corrupt me

 

[IARainman]

Quite switchy . Mostly sub to women, especially older women. But if a woman, especially a younger woman, shows submissive nature to me, it triggers my Dom side.

I don’t think I could switch with the same person, unless we had really good communication and wanted to “play” that way.

 

[waynefar]

Still working it out. Although we are older and been into kinks and group sex for a long time (and living as a throuple atm), just starting to experiment with this side of things.

Reading the pinned "What's in a Label" post. I'm definitely the top with mrs as bottom,with girlfriend somewhere in between, but not sure where we fit in the Dom/Sub terminology.

Wife is the one who gets tied up and most of the things done to her, but demanding and enthusiastic about it and quite willing to switch if I wasn't her to.

 

[hafinchcuck1]

I'm submissive wish I could find someone to use me.

 

[Showmewhatchugot84]

Just texted my wife. Tonight the choice is hers. Either she can tie me up, tease, and use me. Or I tie her up and use her mouth. Once she chooses the other can not say no to whatever the other has in store for them.

 

[t_h_seacrest]

Looking back, thinking about, that brief chapter a few months ago, where I was actually beginning to believe I possessed the slightest inclination as a dominant... oh wow, how embarrassing now. Dominant? Me? Hopefully I've learned my lesson and will from now on have clear awareness that such a possibility is but a mirage.

 

[marriedbigrl]

I'm more dominant with men(generally have to take charge to make sure I get my orgasm rather than just giving one), more submissive with women(guys, its hot when you cum, but it just doesn't compare to getting another woman off and being lovingly told you did a good job. Gives me shivers now just thinking about it.)

 

[marriedbigrl]

Or it's just easier for me to cum if I take charge. If I'm having sex with him he's the right man, it's just about finding what gets us both off best. It generally takes me longer so I take charge to make sure he doesn't cum too soon and we both get there.

 

[Radiantcurves87]

Submissive, maybe even a tad bratty at times.

 

[stevesthename]

I find both a huge turn on. Tie me down, or let me tie you down - I'll be rock hard either way.

 

[LikeitLikeThat69]

Submissive

 

[Genotoy16]

I’m a type A personality in everything but find I enjoy giving up complete control as sub

 

[hulmule]

Dominant , Just me i guess lol

 

[Will_iaM]

Sun for male,
Sun-switch for female

 

[enchantedmedow]

It totally depedns on my mood. So switch I guess. Recently most of my encounters have been ones where I have to be the one in charge making decisions.

Generally I enjoy being taken care of, but I also enjoy submissiveneas outside of sex. things like collars or writing or controlling what I wear or do in a day when I'm with someone whose taking that charge can feel amazing.

So switch leaning very subby, basicly any dom miness is me taking charge because that's what my partner wants.

 

[Booboobear84]

i'm a bratty suub

but sometimes i like using other subs as like the head sub so i guess i'm a teeny bit switchy?

Same sex or opposite sex subs, or both?

 

[Goldenfinger]

Submissive to my wive

 

[Genotoy16]

Are you full time sub to wife?