Are you dominant or submissive

[Wild_Honey_66]

You’d be surprised. And she’s on top , has the poser

All I know is the test gave me 30% sub. You tell me.

Facesitting doesn't make a woman dominant, and it doesn't make a man submissive.

Good grief.

 

[crashD]

Facesitting doesn't make a woman dominant, and it doesn't make a man submissive.

Good grief.

Just tell me what the 30% is for.

 

[elli1point1]

Just tell me what the 30% is for.

making people want to smack you?

 

[elli1point1]

Hi! Let me think about it some and come back tomorrow.

Okay.

 

[cuck72]

So submissive

I'm a submissive husband / cuckold wannabe. I get such a hard little old dick all the time thinking of a real hard ass dom. A younger man fucking my wife, and making me into a little dick bitch in front of her.

 

[crashD]

making people want to smack you?

My ass has been smack d s bit, yes.

 

[Blue]

What behavior might qualify? Eating her pussy whiles she’d sotting on your face. She certainly haws some power.

All I know is the test gave me 30% sub. You tell me.

It just means that a person enjoys being of lesser autonomy or status than their partner.

The actions performed don't matter.

 

[Candy52958]

Dominant or Submissive

Depends on the man I am with at the time. I can be as Dominant as needed when the time is right.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

My ass has been smack d s bit, yes.

I snorted.

It just means that a person enjoys being of lesser autonomy or status than their partner.

The actions performed don't matter.

Thank you! I like the way you explained that.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I'm always wondering how one can be a switch. Could you have an actual relationship with a "submissive pet" in which you are a full-time Domme? Or is it an occasional RP kind of thing? Does one role feel more 'natural' than the other?

Speaking only for myself, obvs...

1. How? I draw on my natural inclination to nuture and teach, and my tendency to be a pleaser.. I don't know if I could (or would want to) do it F/T irl. It's more of a hobby, whereas being submissive feels like a life calling. i might consider doing it short term, but ultimately i want to be in a LTR with a dominant partner, absolutely no question about that.

2. Yes, it's only ever been occasional. But I really don't like the RP thing, I much prefer actual conversation.

3. Yes, of course one feels more natural, although at this point I am very comfortable taking the lead with the right person, and can move into that headspace quite smoothly. Being dominant was never a goal of mine, but the opportunity to learn presented itself and it turns out that i don't completely suck at it. I consider it an acquired skill that came relatively easily once i found my personal style, but i doubt that i would have pursued it if I'd not had the opportunity. But who knows for sure?

 

[elli1point1]

Speaking only for myself, obvs...

1. How? I draw on my natural inclination to nuture and teach, and my tendency to be a pleaser.. I don't know if I could (or would want to) do it F/T irl. It's more of a hobby, whereas being submissive feels like a life calling. i might consider doing it short term, but ultimately i want to be in a LTR with a dominant partner, absolutely no question about that.

2. Yes, it's only ever been occasional. But I really don't like the RP thing, I much prefer actual conversation.

3. Yes, of course one feels more natural, although at this point I am very comfortable taking the lead with the right person, and can move into that headspace quite smoothly. Being dominant was never a goal of mine, but the opportunity to learn presented itself and it turns out that i don't completely suck at it. I consider it an acquired skill that came relatively easily once i found my personal style, but i doubt that i would have pursued it if I'd not had the opportunity. But who knows for sure?

Hmmmm, interesting, thank you! So would you say you're a switch? or a sub who occasionally likes to play Domme?

Possibly stupid question from someone who's 0% switch

 

[crashD]

It just means that a person enjoys being of lesser autonomy or status than their partner.

The actions performed don't matter.

Like I keep saying that test needs to be more specific.

 

[crashD]

I snorted.


L)

Good to entertain you.

 

[elli1point1]

Like I keep saying that test needs to be more specific.

What the fuck do you need a test for anyway? Don't you know what you're into?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Hmmmm, interesting, thank you! So would you say you're a switch? or a sub who occasiInally likes to play Domme?

Possibly stupid question from someone who's 0% switch

The word Domme when applied to myself makes my skin crawl, probably because of all the associations I have with it that don't fit me. Yes, I would say I'm a switch who leans heavily sub.

I have sometimes described myself as 'submissive by nature, dominant by nurture.' Playing Domme is optional for me, I don't require it for my happiness or well-being. Being submissive is how I'm hardwired. It's where my heart is at home.

 

[elli1point1]

I have sometimes described myself as 'submissive by nature, dominant by nurture.' Playing Domme is optional for me, I don't require it for my happiness or well-being. Being submissive is how I'm hardwired. It's where my heart is at home.

that's very interesting! thanks

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

that's very interesting! thanks

You're quite welcome.

Have we met? You seem kind of familiar...

 

[elli1point1]

You're quite welcome.

Have we met? You seem kind of familiar...

It's the English influence....

 

[crashD]

What the fuck do you need a test for anyway? Don't you know what you're into?

Took it with a lady friend for fun.

I do indeed know what I’m into.

I mostly want to be in control. Sometimes it’s nice to just lay back and follow directions

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

It's the English influence....

Ah ha ha ha ha ha ha

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Took it with a lady friend for fun.

I do indeed know what I’m into.

I mostly want to be in control. Sometimes it’s nice to just lay back and follow directions

Yeah, I was waiting for that.

 

[CeriseBuss]

I am m`Lady's property and obey her in all things.

 

[crashD]

Yeah, I was waiting for that.

So is that the 30%??

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I am m`Lady's property and obey her in all things.

Hello Cerise! I remember your lovely pictures from the Couples At Play thread.

So is that the 30%??

You've done enough talking. Now hush up and go find something to put in your mouth.

 

[elli1point1]

You've done enough talking. Now hush up and go find something to put in your mouth.

I'm not sure if indulging him will help or make it worse