Are You a Pleaser?
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R Nitelight
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No.
Ezzie
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I'm selfish
I figure, once I'm satisfied then that's that. Finish your business and then get the hell off of me. LMAO
I'm only kidding, I think.
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I figure, once I'm satisfied then that's that. Finish your business and then get the hell off of me. LMAO
I'm only kidding, I think.
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Skitten
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Yes there are others like you out there who do get pleasure out of pleasing their partners. I know that my hubby is more concerned about my feeling than his own. He doesn't worry about ok he got his no just the opposite. And I worry more so about it and I think we both make sure that everytime we are both pleasured beyond anything that nobody has to wonder because everyone is fully satisfied.
R Nitelight
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Why should it always be the man that pleasures the woman?
I would go out of my way to make sure that my man came, I would rather go take care of myself before he had to go without. Which brings me to why should either miss out?
I've said this on many occasions, I'm of the multiple orgasm kind, so my man is going to have to work hard not to make me cum, which can happen from him whispering description's in my ear while he lies next to me, his breath on my neck. I would do absolutely anything he asked of me, well with the exception of being with another woman (could never do that, sorry).
Isn't making love all about making each other happy? Why should one do more work than the other? I agree that a man can cum easier than a woman, but that's no excuse for one having to do more work or should I say pleasuring than the other.
So to answer your question, Yes I am someone that would go out of her way to please her man
I would go out of my way to make sure that my man came, I would rather go take care of myself before he had to go without. Which brings me to why should either miss out?
I've said this on many occasions, I'm of the multiple orgasm kind, so my man is going to have to work hard not to make me cum, which can happen from him whispering description's in my ear while he lies next to me, his breath on my neck. I would do absolutely anything he asked of me, well with the exception of being with another woman (could never do that, sorry).
Isn't making love all about making each other happy? Why should one do more work than the other? I agree that a man can cum easier than a woman, but that's no excuse for one having to do more work or should I say pleasuring than the other.
So to answer your question, Yes I am someone that would go out of her way to please her man
well, i would if i could,... between my man being psychotically ticklish, has a really bad back, and "doesn't know" what makes him feel good, i damn near can't! not that he would let me,... he's a pleaser.
and for all you pleasers let me tell you,... if you don't let us do something, bad things happen!
1) it makes us uncomfortable,... sex shouldn't be one sided!
2) we do like pleasing you,... for the EXACT same reasons you like pleasing us, would you take that from us?
3) don't you freaks get tired at least once in a fuckin' long time?? let someone else ejoy doing you for a change, that is fun too,... promise!
4) let us feel like we are even mediocre lovers,... give us a chance,... not being allowed to focus on you makes us feel like we'll never learn how to please you, or that we'll never be good enough to!
alright, thanx for reading,...
and for all you pleasers let me tell you,... if you don't let us do something, bad things happen!
1) it makes us uncomfortable,... sex shouldn't be one sided!
2) we do like pleasing you,... for the EXACT same reasons you like pleasing us, would you take that from us?
3) don't you freaks get tired at least once in a fuckin' long time?? let someone else ejoy doing you for a change, that is fun too,... promise!
4) let us feel like we are even mediocre lovers,... give us a chance,... not being allowed to focus on you makes us feel like we'll never learn how to please you, or that we'll never be good enough to!
alright, thanx for reading,...
Latina
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It's not about who pleases who, if you aren't BOTH enjoying it, and you CARE how the other feels, then neither one really enjoys it. It's not about keeping score, he came so now he has to see that she comes, too.
That's why I think the 69 is the greatest thing ever invented. You fel SO intimate, and SO equal, because you are giving exactly what you are getting, at exactly the same time. He is licking at your outer lips, while you are licking up his shaft. He is sucking and nibbling your clit and you are sucking him into your mouth, while your tongues keeps swirling around each other's most secret and intimate and pleasurable spots. He is enjoying the taste, the feel, the look of your open pussy in his face, your squirming and moaning in delight, while you are enjoying seeing and tasting his thick rod in your mouth, feeling his pulsations on your swirling tongue and the roof of your mouth. You are coming on his tongue and he is coming on yours, while both of your writhe and moan. Neither has to worry who gives or receives more pleasure, it is equally pleasurable for both. You both are enjoying GIVING and RECEIVING pleasure at the same time.
The 69 is the greatest, most democratic, most equalizing act two lovers can share. IMHO.
-- Latina
That's why I think the 69 is the greatest thing ever invented. You fel SO intimate, and SO equal, because you are giving exactly what you are getting, at exactly the same time. He is licking at your outer lips, while you are licking up his shaft. He is sucking and nibbling your clit and you are sucking him into your mouth, while your tongues keeps swirling around each other's most secret and intimate and pleasurable spots. He is enjoying the taste, the feel, the look of your open pussy in his face, your squirming and moaning in delight, while you are enjoying seeing and tasting his thick rod in your mouth, feeling his pulsations on your swirling tongue and the roof of your mouth. You are coming on his tongue and he is coming on yours, while both of your writhe and moan. Neither has to worry who gives or receives more pleasure, it is equally pleasurable for both. You both are enjoying GIVING and RECEIVING pleasure at the same time.
The 69 is the greatest, most democratic, most equalizing act two lovers can share. IMHO.
-- Latina
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