lolaraewantsitall
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Hi all!
Do you think that ratings and engagement are a good way to accurately judge your skill? I've taken the leap into writing because I genuinely enjoy it, but the perfectionist in me wants to be phenomenal at everything I do lol. Anything less tends to be admittedly a bit demoralizing. How do you objectively tell if you're good at what you do?
Backstory: I'm fairly new to the writing scene, and am a late bloomer in terms of my writing journey. I think those two aspects lead to a lot of my questioning. Almost every writer I've heard of has been writing for as long as they can remember and feel this drive and nagging need to complete a story like they need oxygen. I've always loved reading and always came up with stories in my head, but hated writing. It wasn't until later in life, I realized that had to do with undiagnosed ADHD. Turns out I love storytelling, but it is so stressful for me to collect my thoughts coherently and complete a story quickly and that frustration was mislabeled as hate. Writing is still a challenge for me. I have lists of ideas and notes for them but not many finished stories.
Do you think that ratings and engagement are a good way to accurately judge your skill? I've taken the leap into writing because I genuinely enjoy it, but the perfectionist in me wants to be phenomenal at everything I do lol. Anything less tends to be admittedly a bit demoralizing. How do you objectively tell if you're good at what you do?
Backstory: I'm fairly new to the writing scene, and am a late bloomer in terms of my writing journey. I think those two aspects lead to a lot of my questioning. Almost every writer I've heard of has been writing for as long as they can remember and feel this drive and nagging need to complete a story like they need oxygen. I've always loved reading and always came up with stories in my head, but hated writing. It wasn't until later in life, I realized that had to do with undiagnosed ADHD. Turns out I love storytelling, but it is so stressful for me to collect my thoughts coherently and complete a story quickly and that frustration was mislabeled as hate. Writing is still a challenge for me. I have lists of ideas and notes for them but not many finished stories.