Are most bi married men in the closet?

[BiMrPotatoHead]

I'm a bi married man who has to hide his sexuality from his wife. How do others deal with this situation?

 

[perturbedmusic]

Same here. I’ve been thinking more and more about telling her. Sometimes I think it’s an unfair assumption that she’ll react poorly, but given some of my other sexual predilections that I’ve shared with her, I just don’t want to bother with another disappointment.

 

[leftwantingmore]

In my experience over the last 50 years, Yes.

 

[Britva415]

Not me

 

[BInowGay]

Only a select few know I'm bi/gay

 

[jxp617]

I think most people hide their true sexual urges and desires in general. Most people just don't feel comfortable talking about that stuff even with their partners which is strange and really unfortunate.

 

[CuriousJInLA]

I wouldn’t say that. We know about each other’s wants and enjoy together. That said I wouldn’t share that with everyone, more because of it’s a personal sexual pleasure not an identity per se

 

[Uncut1969]

Yes hiding wish wife was more open ! Would make things so much easier and fun

 

[MyMostSecretLife]

I think most people hide their true sexual urges and desires in general. Most people just don't feel comfortable talking about that stuff even with their partners which is strange and really unfortunate.

Certainly...maybe once the desire is out, it's less desirable?

 

[Mrman69]

How many bi men hide it from their significant other but still have sex with men?

 

[Iwishiwas69]

In my experience over the last 50 years, Yes.

There have been times I have advertised for a guy or guys. Always with specific conditions. They had to be married, they had to bring with them some article or articles that belonged to their wife or over teenage daughter and I would wear them when they came and role-played . The really interesting thing is I got very few calls that were genuine, but the call I did get were mainly Indian Guys. So yes, it appears married males are bi, and here's a oops, when I was married and then divorced, then living with a couple of different ladies, I was bi. I would wear their panties and stockings, and loved masturbating in them and loved when Guys masturbated on my bum and the panties got very wet. loved that feel. Be lovely to meet some day.

 

[leftwantingmore]

Same here. I’ve been thinking more and more about telling her. Sometimes I think it’s an unfair assumption that she’ll react poorly, but given some of my other sexual predilections that I’ve shared with her, I just don’t want to bother with another disappointment.

Honesty does not come without risks. And in this situation those risks can become real in a heartbeat.

 

[Biguy77578]

I was married for 25 years and kept it to myself. While dating my second wife I came out to her. We had mfm, mff and mfmf as well as swinging encounters where we both played with same sex. We have been married 27 years now and I still enjoy a males presence accasionally with my wifes knowledge though she no longer participates. I am not out to the family and most friends.

 

[Burstplayer]

Just went through it..feel free to DM

 

[CuriousCelt]

LOVE this topic, and I'm in the midst of it. Still new to it all, but I found that I really like that company of an older man. Even if it's enjoying flick together at the ABS and his shorts were really loose fitting. I couldn't get over the first time I held another man's cock.

 

[greenbriefs]

I assume you mean "Are most bi men [who are married to women] in the closet?"

My husband is bi and not in the closet. But I'm a man, so...