Where do married men who are bi meet each other ?

[phil1955]

There are definitely a lot of older guys that need their cocks sucked and would love to find a friend with similar interests.

If you can let the chat edge towards sexual topics, you may get a chance to find out if he might be interested.

 

[BiCuriousWriter]

There are definitely a lot of older guys that need their cocks sucked and would love to find a friend with similar interests.

At 55 i have to consider myself an older guy. Would love to have someone my age or younger (30) to meet once or twice a week, for example at the swimming pool sauna, for some manual and oral play and maybe more. I'm vers, so preferably both ways but I'd settle for someone who would only like to serve of course.

 

[JiminNC]

I'm not far from Carowinds

If you ever get over to the beaches of Wilmington, drop me a line!

 

[tall758]

I’ve had excellent luck with Squirt. I’m somewhat fortunate being a shift worker because it allows me the opportunity to have an empty house so i can host

Squirt is my go to choice! I have about 100 Cocktales over there under the profile name tallandold63. I like to use their message board to “advertize” that I’ll be at x-golf driving range at a certain time wearing specific clothing if anyone wants to meet in a get to know you sort of way. The three times I’ve done this (usually with a couple of days notice), I’ve met with guys who have later become playmates. Golf courses and driving ranges are great places to meet especially with other retired guys like me.

 

[photobuff56]

I met a guy 2 yrs ago on silver daddies he's married to a woman but is in the closet gay. Every once in awhile we meet and he always gets a hotel room.

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

If you ever get over to the beaches of Wilmington, drop me a line!

Oh I definitely will

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

I've connected with other married men on Doublelist, Squirt, or Sniffies. You need to be careful, but you can have some real fun. Like what I had two days ago. Another married man on Sniffies asked if I wanted some quick head. I'm always horny, so of course I said YES! He gave me an apartment complex address, no apartment number. Turns out he's a manager there. He told me to go in the main entrance, walk past the gym, and go into the men's restroom. I did so, and he followed me in a few moments later. We had to be quick, but he gave me some much needed oral attention. It didn't take me long at all until I was shooting into his hungry mouth. He swallowed every drop. My only regret is that we didn't have snough time for me to suck him off. He had a nice dick.

 

[Rodd121]

I’m divorced, now Bi and had my share meeting with married men.

Sure I’m single with my own place, however being straight acting I don’t invite men for fun into my home. So where to go to get to know each other better??

Indeed I have been to married mens homes while the wife is out, never in the marital bed, mostly in the kitchen, either one of us spread over the kitchen table. Once in the garden shed (the smell of fresh cut grass from the lawn mover still lingers).

These days wanting more comfort for horizontal activities, with the right guy a hotel room will be booked. If not, there’s always Mens Bathhouses available. Though there you risk the chance of eyes hands and cocks wondering with another guy.

Don’t do cars, too cramped, however have used mens bathroom cubical in gay bars for an impromptu session. And damn, there was a queue.

 

[Milo9012]

I've connected with other married men on Doublelist, Squirt, or Sniffies. You need to be careful, but you can have some real fun.

Hi Rob.
Would explain a little about the bold part of your post. I, for one, would like to know more from your experiences.

I've never used an app to meet guys and cautions like yours keep me leary of using them.

Thanks

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

Hi Rob.
Would explain a little about the bold part of your post. I, for one, would like to know more from your experiences.

I've never used an app to meet guys and cautions like yours keep me leary of using them.

Thanks

I understand your hesitation. I have several rules that I NEVER break.
1. Never give out your phone number. That gives anyone access to public information about you.
2. Always use an anonymous email address. One that's not connected to anything that can be traced to you.
3. Never share a face pic or a pic with something identifiable.
4. I never engage in car sex.
5. If you decide to get a room to play, use cash.

If a man insists on cell, face pic, etc.,he's blocked and that's the end of it. Im sure I've missed out on some great sex, but I never break my rules.

Having said all this, I've met some great men and had a lot of great sex on all three sites, mainly Squirt. Two days, I got some excellent head from a married man I met on Sniffies.

My advice is, don't be afraid, but don't be stupid. Have your own red flags and NEVER make exceptions. Have a good time hunting!

 

[Baddad2004]

Business trips mostly

 

[Britva415]

I understand your hesitation. I have several rules that I NEVER break.
1. Never give out your phone number. That gives anyone access to public information about you.
2. Always use an anonymous email address. One that's not connected to anything that can be traced to you.
3. Never share a face pic or a pic with something identifiable.
4. I never engage in car sex.
5. If you decide to get a room to play, use cash.

If a man insists on cell, face pic, etc.,he's blocked and that's the end of it. Im sure I've missed out on some great sex, but I never break my rules.

Having said all this, I've met some great men and had a lot of great sex on all three sites, mainly Squirt. Two days, I got some excellent head from a married man I met on Sniffies.

My advice is, don't be afraid, but don't be stupid. Have your own red flags and NEVER make exceptions. Have a good time hunting!

So it mostly sounds like, to you, "be careful" means don't get caught or outed, is that about right?

I wondered if you were meaning something along the lines of "don't get sick and bring it home."

 

[Milo9012]

I understand your hesitation. I have several rules that I NEVER break.
4. I never engage in car sex.

Thanks Rob.
I understand all of the other rules and they are all great advice, but why is rule #4 a rule never to break?

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

So it mostly sounds like, to you, "be careful" means don't get caught or outed, is that about right?

I wondered if you were meaning something along the lines of "don't get sick and bring it home."

You're right, except not bringing anything home goes without saying. There's always some risk of that if you're going to hookup with men or women outside your marriage, but you can greatly reduce that. Use your head, not just your cockhead. That's one reason that, with very few exceptions, I only play with other married men.

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

Thanks Rob.
I understand all of the other rules and they are all great advice, but why is rule #4 a rule never to break?

It really depends on where you are. My area of suburban Houston, when we moved here 25 years ago, still had a lot of quiet country back roads where you could safely park for some car sex. That's long gone now, sadly, even the ability to drive around with my cock out and jacking off. Way too many unfriendly eyes.if your area is safe for car sex, go for it.

Just a personal note: while the idea of car sex is arousing, the times I engaged in it in the past turned out to be awkward and often disappointing. Much better to get a room, if neither can host, and have a bed. I prefer to be completely naked when I have sex.

 

[Sixfoot4again]

Cam sex is quick and easy to set up.

 

[kathyisgr65]

At church...
I'll show myself out the door

 

[Milo9012]

It really depends on where you are. My area of suburban Houston, when we moved here 25 years ago, still had a lot of quiet country back roads where you could safely park for some car sex. That's long gone now, sadly, even the ability to drive around with my cock out and jacking off. Way too many unfriendly eyes.if your area is safe for car sex, go for it.

Just a personal note: while the idea of car sex is arousing, the times I engaged in it in the past turned out to be awkward and often disappointing. Much better to get a room, if neither can host, and have a bed. I prefer to be completely naked when I have sex.

Thanks for the tips, Rob. They're good to know.