NOT in a BDSM sort of way. Looking for new experiences solo or with the spouse and wondering how erotic it is. Also wondering what the sensations feel like. Not looking at it as a turn on by fetish, but wanting to know if the sensastions/stimulation itself is an effective turn on and can lead to orgasm. Thanks for any input. Didn't know where to post this since the general forum looks like all politics and definitely not interested in the BDSM side of this so thought I'd avoid that forum.