Anyone else prefer movie sex scenes?

HayleyLuvsSex

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This might seem weird to some people, but I get far more turned on from watching sex scenes in a movie than from watching porn. Even if there are no genitals or breasts shown at all. It just seems so much more sensual and emotional than anything you see in porn. The cinematography in movies just make them so much more effective for me. Another thing is the speed. For me, foreplay is just as, if not more, fun than actual sex, so that's another reason why I prefer movies. While porn just cuts to the intercourse, so it just feels less emotional and as a result doesn't turn me on as much. I always say to myself, "No, you're going to fast!!" when watching porn.

Anyways, just wondering if anyone else here feels the same way.
 
Depending on the movie, yes I agree.

The fact that during the movie you kind of bond with the characters (usually) and in the scenes.. it just seems to be more than simply sex? not sure how to word it exactly.
But yes, I agree most of the time.
 
In my opinion

one of the hottest sex scenes you will ever see on the screen, is Julie Christie and Donald Sutherland in "Don't Look Now". You hardly see anything. But you imagine EVERYTHING.
 
Yeah, there's some truth in thus. If I'm going to watch actresses fake orgasms, I'd rather watch good actresses fake orgasms than watch porn stars fake orgasms. It's not a universal... some porn is really good, and some film sex scenes are awful, of course.
 
Yes, I don't watch porn as a matter of course.
 
Porn V Film

The wife gets bored with porn very quickly, she would prefer to do it rather then watch it.
A good film with sex, now that gets her going, pre kids we had many a session on the couch watching a film.

The Postman Always rings twice is one, Jack Nicholson fucking Jessica Lange over the table, so hot.
 
:Semi-Mad Men spoiler:

Not from a movie, but the sex scene at the end of the season premiere of Mad Men got me going just as much as any porn flick. When Megan tells Don that he doesn't get to touch, only watch...and then he goes for it anyway...fucking hot. No explicit nudity, just raw sexual emotion (or instinct, depending on how you interpret Don's mind and intentions).
 
Most porn movies are pretty useless so I agree. Sex scenes in movies can often be hotter than anything in a porn movie. It's mostly about the excitement leading up to actually being naked and doing the dirty deed. In porn movies the parts leading up to sex are actually even more fake and unbelievable than the sex acts themselves, if you can believe that, which I do.
 
one of the hottest sex scenes you will ever see on the screen, is Julie Christie and Donald Sutherland in "Don't Look Now". You hardly see anything. But you imagine EVERYTHING.

You are so right! One of my all time favorite movies.

but on topic: they don't usually look like they just got out of .....well fewer tat's anyway. lol
 
The Secretary

My favorite scean is when David Spader fucks Maggie Gyllenhaal doggy style, there's no nudity in this scean, but the look on her face and conversation is priceless. It's kind of a off-the-wall movie but for some reason it made my wife really horney and she jumped me afterwards.
 
This might seem weird to some people, but I get far more turned on from watching sex scenes in a movie than from watching porn. Even if there are no genitals or breasts shown at all. It just seems so much more sensual and emotional than anything you see in porn. The cinematography in movies just make them so much more effective for me. Another thing is the speed. For me, foreplay is just as, if not more, fun than actual sex, so that's another reason why I prefer movies. While porn just cuts to the intercourse, so it just feels less emotional and as a result doesn't turn me on as much. I always say to myself, "No, you're going to fast!!" when watching porn.

Anyways, just wondering if anyone else here feels the same way.

For me, it's all about the build up, so movie scenes are much better than porn.
 
Now I love Porn!!! lol But I will concede that there is next to no imagination in it anymore! Classic movies I feel were well put together to turn you on! I will also admit that a good erotic non porn scene in a movie! I.E. basic instinct, Monsters Ball, Lady Chatterley's lover part 2. all have really hot scenes with out them being too graphic!
 
Damn you are so right about this one. I check into a hotel and subscribe to some porn and in the first seconds there is XXXXX Sex with spitting and food smeared over the bodies and fake moans ....What a bunch of crap.

What happened to seduction and fantasy? When did spitting become erotic? I was more turned on by the movie the "Color of Night" during the Lesbian seduction scene and the BDSM scene that didn't happen. In "Wild" some of the seduction scene the 3-sum scene. In Single White Female when Jennifer Jason Lee plans to seduce her roommate by getting her high and unscrewing the light bulb and then giving her a necklace and they kiss....Much better then this crap they call triple XXX.

In the Big Labowski, Jackie Treehorn tell the Dude that the most erogenous organ is the brain. These XXX guys have forgotten this fact
 
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I agree with you, Harley, for the most part. Sex scenes don't have to be explicit in order to be erotic and arousing. I find that sex scenes in porn films are too mechanical and detached, and you don't usually bond with the characters like you do in a regular film. And the directing and cinematography are generally much better in the non-porno films. Of course, porn films do have their place ... ;)
 
I like gay male, so this shouldn't be a surprise.

But the sex scenes from Brokeback mountain, a british movie called Shank, and Latter days were all amazing.
 
My favorite scean is when David Spader fucks Maggie Gyllenhaal doggy style, there's no nudity in this scean, but the look on her face and conversation is priceless. It's kind of a off-the-wall movie but for some reason it made my wife really horney and she jumped me afterwards.

Mantra, you really need to see the cult Crash (not the recent movie) with Spader and the stunning Canadian actress (name escapes). There are several good sex scenes but perhaps one of the all time best is with Spader and the woman fucking on their sides (anally if memory serves) and the woman engaging in a stream of conscious monologue. If your wife doesn't jump you, check her pulse.

Actually, an earlier scene of her jacking him off under the sheet in a hospital bed did wonders for my disposition...
 
I'm probably halfway between the two - have a thing for those frankly awful erotic thrillers from the mid-90's. Ones like "Mirror Image", "Carnal Desires" and "Private Call" - quite a lot of flesh on display but with slightly better acting and no extreme close-ups of bits!
 
The cheerleader roleplay scene with Maria Bello in History of Violence is one of my favorites... cheerleaders in porn don't really do much for me, but this hot, loving housewife dressing up in her old cheerleader uniform for a bit of roleplay with her husband... fantastic scene.
 
Not sure why it would seem weird. i would agree most of the time, though i also like watching porn, but i usually watch it after i'm in the mood, not to get me in the mood.
 
Mantra, you really need to see the cult Crash (not the recent movie) with Spader and the stunning Canadian actress (name escapes). There are several good sex scenes but perhaps one of the all time best is with Spader and the woman fucking on their sides (anally if memory serves) and the woman engaging in a stream of conscious monologue. If your wife doesn't jump you, check her pulse.

Actually, an earlier scene of her jacking him off under the sheet in a hospital bed did wonders for my disposition...

Thanks for the recommendation, I'll be following up on this.
 
Dances with Wolves scene... epic
Desperado scene with Antonio Banderas and Salma Hayek... hotter than any porn.
 
Oh... seeing Mila Kunis giving oral sex in the Black Swan, then coming up and wiping her lip...

*drool*
 
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