mitch69696
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Think its possible. Love to hear thoughts.
Any way for a married guy having a relationship with a Dom(me) without wife knowing?
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RavenSpirit2k4
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That's a great deal of what the pros do. The majority of us non-pros (including myself) prefer that our subs belong to us exclusively - as in not having a SO - but there are always exceptions. Good luck in finding such an exception, though.
I know a Domme who has two male slaves who are married. Their wives do not know about it. It is 100% servitude (no sex involved) as the Domme is a lesbian and has a live in female slave.
From my point of view, it woudl be good to discuss it with the spouse. Perhaps the wive may have a little Domme in her.
From my point of view, it woudl be good to discuss it with the spouse. Perhaps the wive may have a little Domme in her.
SweetDommes
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In our opinion, honesty is of the utmost importance. We only want unattached submissives, as we want them to live with us, however, we are not opposed to an occational "fling" with a married friend ... BUT the wife must know, we have to have talked with her about it to varify that she understands what is going on and is ok with it, and (as stated before) this must be someone who is already a friend of ours. We aren't interested in random married guys who want to serve us for a day once a month without their wives knowing about it (and yes, we get those idiots all the time).
A D/s relationship is built upon trust, even if it is only a part time relationship - and if you want to find a non-ProDomme who will accept you, you will most likely have to let your wife know about it. First, as heckle said, maybe your wife would be interested in at least trying to dominate you, and second - at least for us - if you are hiding it from your wife, we would always wonder what you were hiding from us ... and we would not be able to trust you.
Miss Karen
Miss Holly
A D/s relationship is built upon trust, even if it is only a part time relationship - and if you want to find a non-ProDomme who will accept you, you will most likely have to let your wife know about it. First, as heckle said, maybe your wife would be interested in at least trying to dominate you, and second - at least for us - if you are hiding it from your wife, we would always wonder what you were hiding from us ... and we would not be able to trust you.
Miss Karen
Miss Holly
