Any other males love to think about your woman having had a bigger cock in the past ?

[MilwaukeeMike28]

I love to think about my woman taking a bigger cock than mine while I am licking her. I love to know that she has had many bigger while I give her oral sex. This turns my on incredibly. This fantasy offers me incredible motivation to lick her and please her. It is a very private and personal submissive fantasy that I rarely tell women about because it is somewhat odd but I love it.

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[AAkasha]

I love to think about my woman taking a bigger cock than mine while I am licking her. I love to know that she has had many bigger while I give her oral sex. This turns my on incredibly. This fantasy offers me incredible motivation to lick her and please her. It is a very private and personal submissive fantasy that I rarely tell women about because it is somewhat odd but I love it.

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You have a girlfriend? Yeah, right.

Akasha

 

[Aeroil]

Was this not the troll who started the "Why are so many dommes overweight" and "I really don't think women are smart enough to be dominant" threads?

 

[Netzach]

No, I think he's the cuckold fetish dude. Or is that one and the same?

 

[onceburned]

He has certainly started a lot of trollish threads! https://forum.literotica.com/search.php?searchid=724762

And the fantasy he posted in this thread seems a variation of cuckolding.

 

[Aeroil]

After checking out the 213 threads he started, yes, he did indeed make those two.

 

[Netzach]

Oh, nifty.

 

[sphynx's dragon]

Ah good, now I'm sure I don't need to dignify this thread with a response. I can hijack with a clear conscience.

 

[graceanne]

Ah good, now I'm sure I don't need to dignify this thread with a response. I can hijack with a clear conscience.

Yay! Hijack!

*steals sphynx's cookies*

 

[sphynx's dragon]

Yay! Hijack!

*steals sphynx's cookies*

<laughing loudly>

ummm....I'm not sure you wanna do that.....

<moves out of the way so his Lady can have swinging room>

<and protects his cookies>

 

[graceanne]

<laughing loudly>

ummm....I'm not sure you wanna do that.....

<moves out of the way so his Lady can have swinging room>

<and protects his cookies>

Crud. I forgot. *gives back sphynx cookies*

*glares at dragon* I'll get you, my pretty. And your little cookies too! muhahaha

 

[tealsphynx]

*Tosses Graceanne a bag of cookies for being a good girl*
Here ya go.

 

[Aeroil]

She stole your cookies and SHE gets called a good girl, and she gets a bag of cookies??
haha, double standard.

 

[tealsphynx]

She stole your cookies and SHE gets called a good girl, and she gets a bag of cookies??
haha, double standard.

<Spank> INSUBORDINATION!!!!! She was a good girl for giving them back, must stay consistent with rewards and such or little subbies get confused.

 

[Aeroil]

<Spank> INSUBORDINATION!!!!! She was a good girl for giving them back, must stay consistent with rewards and such or little subbies get confused.

But I.... But thats.....
*sigh* Yes Ma'am.......

 

[tealsphynx]

Lol *hugs* Good boy

 

[graceanne]

*Tosses Graceanne a bag of cookies for being a good girl*
Here ya go.

Yay! Cookies, cookies, cookies!

*gives one to Xelebes*

 

[Aeroil]

Lol *hugs* Good boy

 

[chatbug]

I love to think about my woman taking a bigger cock than mine while I am licking her. I love to know that she has had many bigger while I give her oral sex. This turns my on incredibly. This fantasy offers me incredible motivation to lick her and please her. It is a very private and personal submissive fantasy that I rarely tell women about because it is somewhat odd but I love it.

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There's nothing wrong with humiliation or humiliating thoughts driving a sex fantasy.
There are a lot of cuckolding stories on Literotica. There are many websites devoted to cuckolding, which you can find with Google.

I'm more curious about the motivations of a woman that, with the encouragement of her husband or significant other, takes on other lovers. If she finds that she enjoys her other lovers, what motivation(s) does she have to remain in the original relationship? What does she decide to change in the original relationship, if anything?

I suppose the answers are as different as the people involved.

In most of the cuckold stories I’ve read (and written), it’s a natural progression for the woman from taking on other lovers, to losing respect for the cuckold, to finally turning him into a slave or pet. I can see this for some female personality types, but I wonder what others think or have experienced?

 

[sosniagara]

There's nothing wrong with humiliation or humiliating thoughts driving a sex fantasy.
There are a lot of cuckolding stories on Literotica. There are many websites devoted to cuckolding, which you can find with Google.

I'm more curious about the motivations of a woman that, with the encouragement of her husband or significant other, takes on other lovers. If she finds that she enjoys her other lovers, what motivation(s) does she have to remain in the original relationship? What does she decide to change in the original relationship, if anything?

In most of the cuckold stories I’ve read (and written), it’s a natural progression for the woman from taking on other lovers, to losing respect for the cuckold, to finally turning him into a slave or pet. I can see this for some female personality types, but I wonder what others think or have experienced?

I'm big into cuckolding, well mainly being a servant to women who has a regular bf's etc right now, and often it's because she loves him however other times - well you answered your own question.

Thanks for the fyi on cuckolding stories here. I'm off to try to find the story search feature here (again lol).

 

[sosniagara]

You have a girlfriend? Yeah, right.

Akasha

Oh....Hopefully I'll earn the honour of being spoken to in such a debasing manour by you one day

p.s.

When I first got hooked up to the net in the mid 90's your femdom stories were some of the first femdom things I read and enjoyed.

Thank you so much for all your great work throughout the years.

 

[catalina_francisco]

There's nothing wrong with humiliation or humiliating thoughts driving a sex fantasy.
There are a lot of cuckolding stories on Literotica. There are many websites devoted to cuckolding, which you can find with Google.

I'm more curious about the motivations of a woman that, with the encouragement of her husband or significant other, takes on other lovers. If she finds that she enjoys her other lovers, what motivation(s) does she have to remain in the original relationship? What does she decide to change in the original relationship, if anything?

I suppose the answers are as different as the people involved.

In most of the cuckold stories I’ve read (and written), it’s a natural progression for the woman from taking on other lovers, to losing respect for the cuckold, to finally turning him into a slave or pet. I can see this for some female personality types, but I wonder what others think or have experienced?

Good post...there are as many variations in what turns people on as the mind can imagine....stopping imagination is the killer IMHO. I am shared so it is a little different scenario to what is being discussed and what you have asked specifically, but my initial thought on why some women in that position would stay with their SO is very simple. First is likely they love him, followed by it feeds a need in them also....perhaps even the same fantasy, and thirdly, if they enjoy the freedom of taking other partners, why leave that for one partner who may not allow it and place restrictions on their future sexual adventures and exploration....perhaps even abusing or putting her down for what she has done? Why would they do that? Most men who are into being the third party in this type situation are not happy with being the cuckolded SO and actually see it as degrading in the worst way and will not become that way themselves.

Catalina

 

[graceanne]

Ok, not in a situation like that, but I do have a few friends who are. I'd refer them, but none of them are online.

I know that honesty to them is very important. Their husbands know when they decide to take on a lover, and support this. Also, quite often, the husbands are poly, too, and are also having lovers. The husbands, also, are honest about this.

As to what they get from the relationship that makes them stay, let me guess. The man/woman that they are married to loves them. They understand them, they trust them, and they are friends. They know that their husband/wife will not step outside any preset boundaries that they've agreed on, and that their husband/wife will be honest with them about what's going on. Quite often their are children involved, and so they have that in common, something they don't have with their lover. They also know the difference between love and lust.

Once again, I'm not in a situation like this, so if anyone disagrees, I reserve the right to be 100 percent wrong.

 

[AAkasha]

Ok, not in a situation like that, but I do have a few friends who are. I'd refer them, but none of them are online.

I know that honesty to them is very important. Their husbands know when they decide to take on a lover, and support this. Also, quite often, the husbands are poly, too, and are also having lovers. The husbands, also, are honest about this.

As to what they get from the relationship that makes them stay, let me guess. The man/woman that they are married to loves them. They understand them, they trust them, and they are friends. They know that their husband/wife will not step outside any preset boundaries that they've agreed on, and that their husband/wife will be honest with them about what's going on. Quite often their are children involved, and so they have that in common, something they don't have with their lover. They also know the difference between love and lust.

Once again, I'm not in a situation like this, so if anyone disagrees, I reserve the right to be 100 percent wrong.

The cuckold fantasy when it comes from the submissive male POV is quite different. What the sub desires is for his wife/girlfriend to take other male lovers as a way to humiliate the sub. It's about making the sub feel jealous, objectified, less-than. It is to elevate the woman to the status of a goddess that is unattainable to him. Common themes the male sub desires in this situation include variations of:

* The sub has to watch the man fuck his wife
* The sub has to orally pleasure the male partner to assist getting him hard
* The sub has to clean his wife's pussy of the other man's cum afterward
* The sub is humiliated because the man has a larger cock and the wife points this out or verbally humiliates him about it

I have no idea how many relationships do this in a functional way, but know it is a common male sub fantasy. It must be hard to get a wife to agree and enjoy it unless she's kinky and into the idea herself.

Akasha

 

[Netzach]

I don't do cuckolding as a "lifestyle" in general, but it *is* a hot fantasy for my husband (as well as for me) and there are times when our involvement with other males takes on this kind of a cuckolding-scenario flavor. It's interesting, because M generally hates anything humiliating, but for some reason the idea of being put in chastity while I screw someone else's brains out really is hard-on inducing. I gave up on trying to predict what men will get off on long ago. Bottom line is that I like it for spice, I'd not really consider being with someone I don't percieve as "a real man" over the longer haul, though. Of course my definition of "real man" is far from most other people's.