Any Christian couples that discuss three way or sharing fantasies?

Curious how common this is among Christian couples. Although it may never materialize in terms of actual experiences, do you openly discuss three-way / wife sharing fantasies?
I talk to my wife about sharing and threesomes , love talking about sharing her when we're fucking ,or when she's sucking me off telling her id love to watch her sucking someone else
 
I think wife sharing is very erotic. But I'm not near divulging that to her. It's too soon and we are in early stages of new exploration.

I am now writing an erotic story for her, that's a big step for her at least, and I'm introducing the topic of another man being attracted to her. I am showing her a few chapters as I write. It's basically a bit of misdirection and not a three way or wife sharing theme but just to broach the topic in a very roundabout way.

The story is really a fantasy I want us to do in theory at least: we are to go on vacation and pretend we are strangers for a night, we pick a character to be, and meet at a night club. In the story, I have her going up an elevator to meet me, and this hot guy hits on her. Then she decides to try to get me jealous by dancing with him while I watch. I've written about 5 pages but that's where I left off so far.

Two nights ago, while we were making love, I asked her where she thought the story was going and she said "it's about us meeting at a night club" and gave me this "it better be" look. I played along and dared her with a "is it?" reply. And she laughed but made it clear that she better not be doing anything like that. So it's an adamant no but with some laughter which is better than being offended.

This is my first time writing something erotic for her so I would not jump to a wide sharing theme starting out. But I don't mind gentle flirting with the topic.

So we will see where the story goes.
 
I talk to my wife about sharing and threesomes , love talking about sharing her when we're fucking ,or when she's sucking me off telling her id love to watch her sucking someone else
I am thinking of ways to impart the same concept at least. She asked me if I wanted to use my sex toy recently and I said yes. I enjoy cumming in and on her way more but I also enjoy it when she watches me cumming in another "pussy." While she was stroking me, she asked how it felt and I said it felt like a wet pussy and started to moan. I've never said that before, to explicitly say that it's another pussy. I want her to be conditioned to the idea that we can both get pleasure from someone or something else, so I really got into it and let loose. She was enjoying herself (she came about 6 or 7 times before that) so I felt she was taken care of and was able to play up the idea of fucking it real hard. She was very encouraging throughout which made it nice.
 
Define Christian? If you define it by a simple belief in God, then I'd imagine there is no difference with them and any other couple. If they're deeply into the bible and values odds are either neither of them think about it or would never admit it.
 
We always used to talk about 3 ways in dirty talk,was usually about me being with another female to join me and my husband .that over time developed into us adding another male into the equation to make a foursome.imo most couples have a fantasy of threesome ,foursome or even more some. Always makes for good foreplay chat in fantasy or even reality if you want to move to that level
 
Maybe you can both add toys to your regular sex , you give her oral 😋 while enjoying your toy and perhaps she could ride a dildo while sucking you
I'd like to get her back into sex toys. I had some nice sessions with her fucking a dildo and cumming hard, talking dirty. It was divine. But she has shied away from them over last few years while being quite open to me using them. I would prefer mutual use. So I'll broach the topic again. She says she prefers me, I get it. I'm not trying to replace, just augment now and then.
 
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Hmm, for my wife and I we had a long history of enlightened thought that was supported by History degrees. I KNEW there was something wrong with the modern churches morality. It made NO SENSE when placed in perspective with events from the old testament. Like explaining to the kids in Sunday School class what a "concubine" was and why Solomon had 600 wives and 700 concubines.
So we were heretical Christians who believed that "Adultery" must be sex with someone outside your marriage WITHOUT% consent of the partner. That was the only way the Bible made sense, there are so many examples of the LEADING characters in different places having sexual relations that are condemned today. But of course its just ignored.
We didn't just theorize, we did have consensual sex with others. BUT.. some of the rules aren't so much about "sin" as they are about living "safely" and avoiding pitfalls. And the lifestyle did have a negative effect on the marriage(divorce). In the end that was good, we didn't need to be married anymore, she was making me and the kids miserable.
 
Hmm, for my wife and I we had a long history of enlightened thought that was supported by History degrees. I KNEW there was something wrong with the modern churches morality. It made NO SENSE when placed in perspective with events from the old testament. Like explaining to the kids in Sunday School class what a "concubine" was and why Solomon had 600 wives and 700 concubines.
So we were heretical Christians who believed that "Adultery" must be sex with someone outside your marriage WITHOUT% consent of the partner. That was the only way the Bible made sense, there are so many examples of the LEADING characters in different places having sexual relations that are condemned today. But of course its just ignored.
We didn't just theorize, we did have consensual sex with others. BUT.. some of the rules aren't so much about "sin" as they are about living "safely" and avoiding pitfalls. And the lifestyle did have a negative effect on the marriage(divorce). In the end that was good, we didn't need to be married anymore, she was making me and the kids miserable.
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“We didn't just theorize, we did have consensual sex with others.”
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I'm at the point of specifically bringing up the topic, but in terms of fantasy, confessing that I've had them. She might be ready. We have had a bit of a breakthrough in terms of her being completely open to watching me masturbate to porn, that was absolutely unheard of even a year ago but she's quite comfortable with it now.

I can think of three ways to stir up the waters on this:

Fucking my sex toy in front of her and remarking how much I enjoy that pussy (it's modeled after a porn star's pussy.)

Telling my wife how much I enjoy watching her take a cock while she uses a very realistic cock dildo I bought her.

Writing a story involving another partner (male, for her)

When I'm jerking off to erotica pics with her, it will be a bit of a confession therapy session, me admitting to her what I like, her learning new things about me. I could tell her I also liked masturbating to videos of women getting a good fucking and that I fantasized that my wife was the one getting all the pleasure from the guy's big cock.

Choices, choices...
 
I'm at the point of specifically bringing up the topic, but in terms of fantasy, confessing that I've had them. She might be ready. We have had a bit of a breakthrough in terms of her being completely open to watching me masturbate to porn, that was absolutely unheard of even a year ago but she's quite comfortable with it now.

I can think of three ways to stir up the waters on this:

Fucking my sex toy in front of her and remarking how much I enjoy that pussy (it's modeled after a porn star's pussy.)

Telling my wife how much I enjoy watching her take a cock while she uses a very realistic cock dildo I bought her.

Writing a story involving another partner (male, for her)

When I'm jerking off to erotica pics with her, it will be a bit of a confession therapy session, me admitting to her what I like, her learning new things about me. I could tell her I also liked masturbating to videos of women getting a good fucking and that I fantasized that my wife was the one getting all the pleasure from the guy's big cock.

Choices, choices...
Writing the story has the greatest chance of success. Trust me.
 
Writing the story has the greatest chance of success. Trust me.
I agree. It's was funny, we were in church Sunday and she was talking to a friend and the subject of letters came up as back in the day when we used to write all the time. My wife says "my husband wrote me all the time, he's such a good writer and he even wrote me something recently" she added with a smile. That was a reference to my letter on Sat night when I laid out my masturbating to porn fantasy with her. It was incredible that she made this private little reference to something so erotic and naughty in church of all places.
 
I'm at the point of specifically bringing up the topic, but in terms of fantasy, confessing that I've had them. She might be ready. We have had a bit of a breakthrough in terms of her being completely open to watching me masturbate to porn, that was absolutely unheard of even a year ago but she's quite comfortable with it now.

I can think of three ways to stir up the waters on this:

Fucking my sex toy in front of her and remarking how much I enjoy that pussy (it's modeled after a porn star's pussy.)

Telling my wife how much I enjoy watching her take a cock while she uses a very realistic cock dildo I bought her.

Writing a story involving another partner (male, for her)

When I'm jerking off to erotica pics with her, it will be a bit of a confession therapy session, me admitting to her what I like, her learning new things about me. I could tell her I also liked masturbating to videos of women getting a good fucking and that I fantasized that my wife was the one getting all the pleasure from the guy's big cock.

Choices, choices...
Love that. Mine lets me do anything but add someone. All sorts toys just about anything. But I want to add one and show her how both want please her. I also show off her pics she thinks I'm joking. Love getting back pics of a hard cock pics caused or about came when someone send video cuming to her
 
I agree. It's was funny, we were in church Sunday and she was talking to a friend and the subject of letters came up as back in the day when we used to write all the time. My wife says "my husband wrote me all the time, he's such a good writer and he even wrote me something recently" she added with a smile. That was a reference to my letter on Sat night when I laid out my masturbating to porn fantasy with her. It was incredible that she made this private little reference to something so erotic and naughty in church of all places.
Very hot and naughty of her
 
I know. I was so enabled when she did that. Mixing church and erotica at the same time, so much fun.

And it made me even more daring when we were on vacation. I was writing out fantasies to her and when I finally masturbated to porn with my church wife right there in front me, encouraging me on with her pretty smile, the release was bliss, the connection almost like a Therapy session.
 
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