another anal sex question

[cc100]

hi

we would like to do it up the bum but have a few questions.

1- does it smell?

2. what is an enema and how do u use it? after an enema do u need a condom

3. how about blowjobs? i wouldnt like to give a blowjob after its been up her bum? i dont mean straightaway.. imean say the day after once its been washed etc. is she gonna be put off giving me a suck? cos id prefer a suck to bum sex? to the girls who do anal sex- do u mind the fact that its been up your bum and then for example the next day your sucking it?

4. do u cum in her bum? it wont hurt her?

5 is it immoral?

thanks for your time

 

[SexyChele]

hi

we would like to do it up the bum but have a few questions.

Okay, I'll give it a shot....

1- does it smell?

Okay, this a new one for me, and something I'd not considered. I've never gotten close enough to a penis after anal sex to notice. Either my partner removes and disposes of the condom or washes himself immediately. During sex, I've never noticed a smell or odor.

2. what is an enema and how do u use it?

And enema is liquid that is used to flush out the lower rectum. Enemas (commercial) may contain a laxative. There are enema bags and tubes one can buy in a pharmacy, and you can use plain water, which will do the same thing. Enemas are used to clean out the rectum so there is very little, if any, fecal matter.

How one uses a enema depends on the individuals in volved. Some will use an enema in private (away from partner). This is easy to do with commercial enemas. (they take about 5 minutes to do the job) Other people eroticize enemas. One partner will insert the tube, control the follow, then massage the "receiver" until they are ready to use the bathroom. It comes down to whatever makes people feel comfortable.

3. how about blowjobs? i wouldnt like to give a blowjob after its been up her bum?

This seems to be the latest thing in porn flicks. In reality, a penis should never be inserted vaginally or orally after anal sex. Never, ever. One way around this is to wear a condom during anal sex, then removing the condom before engaging in vaginal or oral sex. I don't even do that. For me, even with the use of a condom, I ask my partner to wash himself before continuing.

4. do u cum in her bum?

I've had partners who have, yes. I've also had partners withdraw and orgasm on my back.

5 is it immoral?

I've heard some argue it is, some argue it isn't. It's a personal choice to be made between two consenting adults. Morality is a personal issue, IMO.

thanks for your time

 

[itsoktolust]

In my experience anal sex requires a complete lack of fussiness on both sides.

It can be very messy depending on the internal cleanliness of the person being penetrated, how deep the penetration, etc.

Hygenically, condoms should be worn. Feces can enter the penis and cause disease. Feces in a vagina if the penis is inserted after anal sex can cause disease but a good douche can usually take care of that. Blowjobs after anal may not cause a great deal of problem. The human digestive tract is stronger than most people think. It all depends on the person's personal kinkiness.

In reality there is nothing more exciting than a bare cock cumming deep inside a hot ass.

Go for it.

 

[SilkVelvet]

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[SexyChele]

As far as I am aware, and I looked for them out of curiosity, neither commercial enemas or douches are available in UK pharmacies. I don't know any woman in the UK who has ever used a douche, and we are told that douching is not conducive to a healthy vagina, basically. I have certainly read that continual usage of enemas prior to anal sex can be harmful and cause damage to the rectum. None of the gay men I know use enemas prior to sex, although those not in LTRs use condoms.

I find it interesting that commercials enemas or douches are not available in UK pharmacis. Nothing wrong with it, just interesting. I guess we here in the States always think everything is the same for everyone else as it is for us.

Douching is truly not conducive to a healthy vagina, unless done occasionally or under the direction of a physician. It disrupts the vagina's natural cleansing ability.

As far as using enemas, overuse - as with most things - is not good. I've engaged in anal sex for quite a number of years and have only used an enema twice. Typically, if one knows their body well enough, one knows when things might get a bit "messy" and when everything should be okay.

Thanks for sharing, Velvet. I learned something new today!

 

[Purple Velvet]

Other ways for Anal Sex

Anal sex can be very messy. But some alternative places to try it are private heated pools, and hot tubs.... These can be cleaned and filtered, and with an oil based lube, it feels wonderful. Sex is much easier, and you can do it much longer, because weight isn't a facter. Also, all messy stuff, sweat, smells, whatever, are washed off in the water. For those of stouter stuff, try rivers, or a lake. Remember: Don't forget the lube, and the more it's in there, the warmer it will get.