Anonymous Secrets Thread

[Kudram123]

Sex-female Age-25

I have spoken to a couple of guys on lit, many via pm, few by personal emails. Most of them are the type of pervy that is fun via email but would never enjoy in RL. But there was one that turned me on via PM to the point where I want him for real. But he seems to have disappeared. He logs on the site every now and then but doesn't answer my last PM...I have stopped attempting to engage him again, figuring that real life for in the way, but I still want him...wishing that he would start up again and we could get to the physical stage...

 

[NotHisLady]

Sex-female Age-25

I have spoken to a couple of guys on lit, many via pm, few by personal emails. Most of them are the type of pervy that is fun via email but would never enjoy in RL. But there was one that turned me on via PM to the point where I want him for real. But he seems to have disappeared. He logs on the site every now and then but doesn't answer my last PM...I have stopped attempting to engage him again, figuring that real life for in the way, but I still want him...wishing that he would start up again and we could get to the physical stage...

My feeling here is that it's best just to let this go.
If you only had Lit contact in common--never exchanged any other information or contact details--then your guy probably never intended things to go any further.
Don't get me wrong. I don't mean to suggest that connecting off the site is always (or even usually) a good thing. Handing out personal information is a decision you make carefully with your brain not your heart or your hormones.
Connections do get made here but don't make the mistake of thinking that it's what most people are after. If you're looking for something that will happen in real life maybe you should be looking for it in real life.

 

[Kudram123]

Female - Age 31

I am totally and completely in love with another Litster, and he is in love with me. He told me today that he is going to leave his miserable marriage, and he's going to tell her this weekend. I'm holding my breath a little bit, but I'm so happy right now that I had to tell somebody!

 

[Sexycutie78]

Female - Age 31

I am totally and completely in love with another Litster, and he is in love with me. He told me today that he is going to leave his miserable marriage, and he's going to tell her this weekend. I'm holding my breath a little bit, but I'm so happy right now that I had to tell somebody!

Oh my. So much to be said about this. Just hope it's what she wants. Because it ain't going to be easy for either one.

 

[Thandi]

Female - Age 31

I am totally and completely in love with another Litster, and he is in love with me. He told me today that he is going to leave his miserable marriage, and he's going to tell her this weekend. I'm holding my breath a little bit, but I'm so happy right now that I had to tell somebody!

Wow.
Hope it works out for everyone involved.

 

[NotHisLady]

Female - Age 31

I am totally and completely in love with another Litster, and he is in love with me. He told me today that he is going to leave his miserable marriage, and he's going to tell her this weekend. I'm holding my breath a little bit, but I'm so happy right now that I had to tell somebody!

So have you set up the celebratory meeting (read 'hook-up') for before or after he files the papers and moves out of the house?
Face it honey, men have been known to say "I'm telling her on Saturday" ever since there were wives to tell and ladies they wanted to spend some quality time with. Trouble is the 'Saturday' in question isn't always the next one on the calendar. Now and then it's a nebulous 'Saturday' somewhere around 2043.
I truly don't mean to sound harsh. It's just that leaving, when it gets down to really saying the words, can be far more daunting than anyone suspects. If there are things complicating the issue then it will be even that much more difficult.
Even if he does follow through and leave that means a divorce and with him going straight into another relationship it's likely to be an unpleasant one. Be ready for some bumpy times ahead.

So--be excited. Just hang on to a healthy dose of reality. Be sure of yourself as well of your guy because you're going to be tested no matter which way it goes.

I wish you luck, love, and all the best!

 

[crazy4cock]

So have you set up the celebratory meeting (read 'hook-up') for before or after he files the papers and moves out of the house?
Face it honey, men have been known to say "I'm telling her on Saturday" ever since there were wives to tell and ladies they wanted to spend some quality time with. Trouble is the 'Saturday' in question isn't always the next one on the calendar. Now and then it's a nebulous 'Saturday' somewhere around 2043.
I truly don't mean to sound harsh. It's just that leaving, when it gets down to really saying the words, can be far more daunting than anyone suspects. If there are things complicating the issue then it will be even that much more difficult.
Even if he does follow through and leave that means a divorce and with him going straight into another relationship it's likely to be an unpleasant one. Be ready for some bumpy times ahead.

So--be excited. Just hang on to a healthy dose of reality. Be sure of yourself as well of your guy because you're going to be tested no matter which way it goes.

I wish you luck, love, and all the best!

You always give such sound advice

 

[NotHisLady]

You always give such sound advice

You're sweet. Thanks
Nobody who knows me ever listens (including me!)

 

[Kudram123]

57 year old male

That just does not know what I am doing here on lit. I have a wife at home that I have lost touch with, and now an online lover that seems to want me desperately.

I feel at odds with work and home life, is there anything more to life? I find little fun or satisfaction from either home, work or virtual world.

Putting it out there helps and I am grateful for the opportunity to share this with the thread

 

[satyr82000]

57 year old male

That just does not know what I am doing here on lit. I have a wife at home that I have lost touch with, and now an online lover that seems to want me desperately.

I feel at odds with work and home life, is there anything more to life? I find little fun or satisfaction from either home, work or virtual world.

Putting it out there helps and I am grateful for the opportunity to share this with the thread

Not sure where to go with that...sounds like someone was having a down day! Just thankful I can enjoy exploring my sensuality here without too much baggage!

 

[TheLM]

You have an objection to the honesty of the worlds oldest profession?

In what circumstances have you observed male female relationships of a sexual nature that were not on balance transactional?

I didn't make any objection at all.

But being payed for sexual favors makes you, by definition, a whore.

This is very basic communication, folks.

 

[NotHisLady]

57 year old male

That just does not know what I am doing here on lit. I have a wife at home that I have lost touch with, and now an online lover that seems to want me desperately.

I feel at odds with work and home life, is there anything more to life? I find little fun or satisfaction from either home, work or virtual world.

Putting it out there helps and I am grateful for the opportunity to share this with the thread

Dear heart do you think you are the only person who gets to a point where they feel like this?
What's happened is that you've lost touch with yourself.

You are BORED.
Stop for a moment and think--not about the things that you feel bogged down by but instead about something that moves you. What is it that you find interesting? What do you find beautiful? What did the 17 year old you want that you set aside all those years ago?
What sorts of things did you and your wife talk about when you were dating, where did you go?

For yourself, find a way to bring one of those interests into your life. It will be a new spark. A new thing to be interested and a little excited about.

For the two of you? Take her out the way you used to. If you went to rock concerts then go to one--maybe even one of the same bands you saw together before. If you went dancing go do that.
Tell her--afterwards!--that you want to find the connection that you had back then. With any luck you'll be able to say in all honesty that you see something in her eyes you haven't seen since those days.

Get your real life in order and the online stuff will take care of itself.

 

[LauraWilling]

Excellent advice, NotHisLady! Wonderfully said. My husband and I have been happily married for almost 35 years now and one of the things we do is enjoy things we always have enjoyed in the past when we were young, whenever the opportunity is there. We are always on the loo out for those and new adventures together. It has brought us closer, even with our rather unique lifestyle than when we were first married. Open, honest communication about things like you speak of and everything else. We have no secrets from each other.

 

[Kudram123]

Female 52; When i was a yong girl i saw my mom's mom, sister, sister in law and my cousin constantly trying to seduce my dad. I did not know what they were doing at the time, but seeeing how he seeemed to enjoy the attention and the way it affected them i decided i was going to do it also. I tried for several years. Now at 52 i think back on all those memories and find myself looking at my son the same way.

 

[Kudram123]

M. No age.

A saleslady came in to work today and was speaking with me. She was a very attractive woman who I learned later was soon going to be a G-MILF. My boss was a little late for the meeting. The conversation was a bit awkward because she recognized him and he had no clue. It turns out that they had gone out on a date. One date back in the day. She described the date, what he did for a living back then, etc. Then the light bulb hit.

When she was leaving he called her by the wrong name!

He told me after that she was spectacular 25 or so years ago and looked really great in a bikini.

I believe they had fucked.

 

[Kudram123]

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9bufiywVY1qdoqhwo1_500.gif

Still accepting secrets on kudram123@gmail.com or in my PM inbox

Your secret shall be posted here, your name never revealed.
Any "fishing attempt" will be ignored.

 

[NotHisLady]

M. No age.

A saleslady came in to work today and was speaking with me. She was a very attractive woman who I learned later was soon going to be a G-MILF. My boss was a little late for the meeting. The conversation was a bit awkward because she recognized him and he had no clue. It turns out that they had gone out on a date. One date back in the day. She described the date, what he did for a living back then, etc. Then the light bulb hit.

When she was leaving he called her by the wrong name!

He told me after that she was spectacular 25 or so years ago and looked really great in a bikini.

I believe they had fucked.

---NOYB---

 

[Lady_Fiona]

---NOYB---

Absolutely!

On top of it making NO sense WHATSOEVER

 

[Aquagal]

I didn't understand it either.

 

[AbsintheFather]

I didn't understand it either.

Apparently, a 14 year old's boss has a secret

 

[photograph]

I didn't understand it either.

I was hoping I wasn't the only one that didn't quite understand the whole point of it.

 

[Aquagal]

Apparently, a 14 year old's boss has a secret

LOL!!

 

[NotHisLady]

I didn't understand it either.

Near as I can tell it's "man speak" for
"Hey there's this older lady at work. She may not be young but she's still kinda hot.
The other day she ran into the boss and starts talking about how they used to DATE! Well can you believe when he came in he didn't even know her NAME!!! God he's cool, I bet he did it with so many women that he doesn't remember even half of their names!!
He finally did remember that 25 years ago she looked really hot in a bikini.
I bet they did it. I'm gonna tell everybody they did it.
Hey, if she did him back then I bet I can hit that now! Sure, I bet I can..."

That's just from working with sales and whse. guys though. This one may have meant something completely different.
Maybe he was shocked.

 

[Lady_Fiona]

I didn't understand it either.

I was hoping I wasn't the only one that didn't quite understand the whole point of it.

*breathes a sigh of relief* I read it 3 times and thought I was being dense

 

[Aquagal]

Near as I can tell it's "man speak" for
"Hey there's this older lady at work. She may not be young but she's still kinda hot.
The other day she ran into the boss and starts talking about how they used to DATE! Well can you believe when he came in he didn't even know her NAME!!! God he's cool, I bet he did it with so many women that he doesn't remember even half of their names!!
He finally did remember that 25 years ago she looked really hot in a bikini.
I bet they did it. I'm gonna tell everybody they did it.
Hey, if she did him back then I bet I can hit that now! Sure, I bet I can..."

That's just from working with sales and whse. guys though. This one may have meant something completely different.
Maybe he was shocked.

Here's what I got.

This hottie saleslady, who shouldn't be, because "Hey, she's a grandma, yanno". Had an appt with the big man, he was late so I got the dirt, which was awkward, because i knew and he didnt? before he actually knew? or something. He saw her in a bikini, so they must have fucked on the beach.