And then there were none.

[FlamingoBlue]

How much is too disgusting to discuss?
When are your outer boundries reached??

Do you dream about fucking your mother, father, sister or brother??? Is your dog or sheep nothing more than a sex object???? Is the Big Mac nothing more than a Whopper????

What the fuck is going on??????


blue

 

[DarlingBri]

I'm starting to get the impression that some people's outer boundaries are reached at their own bedroom door. Outside those boundaries, it's disgusting.

No, I don't dream about fucking my mother, brother, or sister. At one point, I did dream about fucking my dog, but I've evolved to even more "disgusting" fantasies now.

What's going on is that people are sticking their morals up everyone else's asses. We tend, as a society, to think that anal sex, playing with handcuffs, and calling your lover Daddy is really "out there." We find the fact that we play "out there" titilating. We think we are the astronauts of sexuality because we spank our lovers. BFD.

What we apparently can't cope with, even on an adult sexuality board, is anything that goes beyond that.

It's very infantile. I mean, if you don't say "Eww, gross!" at the mere mention of something, people might think you do it, and what would the neighbours say?

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

I don't find too much, too discusting to discuss....

Except, and in particular - pain and worse, death of the young. In virtually any form. I don't even like reading about it in the newspapers.

Pain and death of adults is probably next but not nearly as revolting as the prior.

Almost anything else goes. I can discuss it with little problem.

Your examples are really minor considering the above.

 

[scylis]

in the words of a great woman..

BAAAAHHH!!!

if ya don't like it, just don't fuckin' reply!!

 

[DarlingBri]

What about... if you can't deal with an issue openmindedly, don't fucking reply?

Wouldn't that be a better approach?

 

[doctor_insanus]

Re: in the words of a great woman..

BAAAAHHH!!!

if ya don't like it, just don't fuckin' reply!!

Amen and hallelujah!

 

[scylis]

once again, i stand corrected!

yes it would..

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Ah, Sparky.Is death the outer boundry?

That's the stuff we really need to talk about, isn't it?? The rest is all window dressing when it comes to caring.

For some reason it is easier to talk about "fucking" a sheep than the death of a loved one. Why do you think that is???


blue

 

[doctor_insanus]

What about... if you can't deal with an issue openmindedly, don't fucking reply?

Wouldn't that be a better approach?

Yet another voice of reason!

 

[DarlingBri]

Scylis & d_i

Thank you

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

I have a dear friend who called today....

His wife - fighting breast cancer for the last couple of years - has had a failure with her treatments. Looks like they may be coming to NYC to give the big boys a chance at it.

Even with your best friend - pain and the possible death of those you love is the toughest thing for me to ever do.

I hate it.

 

[DarlingBri]

Re: Ah, Sparky.Is death the outer boundry?

For some reason it is easier to talk about "fucking" a sheep than the death of a loved one. Why do you think that is???[/B]

Because sex is about life, the a reaffirmation of life which we use to flip the bird at Death. Take sex after funeral... soooo common.

I suppose that sex with a sheep still counts. Although I personally would admit to being dead before I'd admit to being fucked by a sheep. Even I have standards.

 

[Nicole]

I'm starting to get the impression that some people's outer boundaries are reached at their own bedroom door. Outside those boundaries, it's disgusting.

No, I don't dream about fucking my mother, brother, or sister. At one point, I did dream about fucking my dog, but I've evolved to even more "disgusting" fantasies now.

What's going on is that people are sticking their morals up everyone else's asses. We tend, as a society, to think that anal sex, playing with handcuffs, and calling your lover Daddy is really "out there." We find the fact that we play "out there" titilating. We think we are the astronauts of sexuality because we spank our lovers. BFD.

What we apparently can't cope with, even on an adult sexuality board, is anything that goes beyond that.

It's very infantile. I mean, if you don't say "Eww, gross!" at the mere mention of something, people might think you do it, and what would the neighbours say?

Bri, I quoted all of the above for a reason. I agree wholeheartedly with what you have just said, in fact I have been thinking that for the longest time now, I just could never word it as good as you.

Okay lets see, I'd call my Lover Daddy, IF he were to take the responsibility on as becoming my Daddy. I'm a sub, and if he is wanting me to call him Daddy, then I'll do it, but you gotta treat me like your lil girl. Just like a Dom/sub relationship, Take on the role if that's what you want ... Oh yes and I see NOTHING whatsoever wrong with this sort of relationship, and some of you would be surprised at how often and how many of these relationships are out there. Also by calling someone Daddy, doesn't mean I want to go and sleep with my own Father, Never have had those feelings, and never will.

Yes anal, is fantastic, I love it. Not something I'd do everytime I had sex, but the feeling is something I'd miss. In Fact anal gives me a harder more intense orgasm than vaginal does. What is so Taboo about anal now anyway? I mean, hell if you haven't tried it then don't knock it.

Handcuffs??? Yes please, Tie me up and have your fun Nothing wrong with that either.

Now Blue you asked a question earlier on the whole Piss/Shit scene, Now that's something that I'm not exactly willing to try, it doesn't Turn ME on, but you know what, I know it turns some people on, so I'm not about to knock it. Another that I don't understand is the whole Diaper wearing fetish, but it obviously does something for some people because it is another that is highly practised.

What I like and do in my sex life is down to me, and yes others may see it as abnormal, but a wise man once said to me "Don't throw stones at glass houses", and I learnt from that. What one likes another will hate. Don't judge someone for their preference.

Simply don't reply, or if you do state that YOU don't like it, but should someone be willing to try it, as long as you are not involved then let them do what rocks their boat.

 

[scylis]

"i did not have sexual relations with that goat..."

"but i AM dead"

"no, really!"

"six feet under i be!"

"what?!?"

 

[DarlingBri]

Nicole...

Thanks, I'm flattered that you feel I spoke for you as well as for myself

One reason I'm so against coming down on people for their kinks is because kinks represent a real need a person has.

Take diapers, like your example. Big, big thing with high-stress corporate guys. I wouldn't want to responsibility of having to run a multi-million dollar corporation, manage millions of dollars of other people's money, or be entrusted with a client's complete financial future. If I was, I might very well have a need to just be an infant with no responsabilities, and pretend to be totally dependent on someone else for a change. To be looked after instead of the one everyone looks to.

But that person would very likely be called a sick fuck here by someone. It's not something they do, it feels threatening because they're not taking the time to understand it, and they're not curious enough about other people to ask before they judge.


What a waste of a great opportunity to a) learn something new and b) help another human being feel OK about themselves.

OK, I'm getting off my soap box and going to bed.

I wish you all a goodnight

 

[Nicole]

But that person would very likely be called a sick fuck here by someone. It's not something they do, it feels threatening because they're not taking the time to understand it, and they're not curious enough about other people to ask before they judge.


What a waste of a great opportunity to a) learn something new and b) help another human being feel OK about themselves.

Again perfectly worded. I agree with you. It's sad when you come to a place to be accepted for little quirks you may have, and then you read that as fars as suchabody is concerned you need your head read for something that your doing.

I don't know Bri, maybe just maybe some people are holding back because of that reason ... I know I do. I'd like to be able to talk about my Fetish's but instead I go to a site degisned especially for them.

Really what is needed is a little less hot headedness and a little more understanding. Try it sometime and see if it works

Goodnight Bri, have a great sleep with lots of sweet sexy dreams won't you

 

[Kuddles]

My thoughts...

To each his own....whatever they may be...no right...no wrong.

As far as why most people don't like to talk about death? I agree with the reasons already give in this thread. But, I would like to add one more. It forces oneself to face his/her own mortality!

 

[Cheyenne]

Take diapers, like your example. Big, big thing with high-stress corporate guys. I wouldn't want to responsibility of having to run a multi-million dollar corporation, manage millions of dollars of other people's money, or be entrusted with a client's complete financial future

This is the first thread I opened tonight, so I'm sure I've missed something in the last 12 hours or so. But this one cracked me up. I know quite a few of the high-stress corporate guys, and now you have me imagining them all in diapers! LMAO Are you sure on that one? I just can't imagine any of them actually doing this.

 

[Guest]

You're all missing the point. There are some sexual practices which are just plain wrong (like necrophilia, rape, and pedophilia for example). When you say things like "To each his own....whatever they may be...no right...no wrong" you are saying that all sexual fetishes are ok, which isn't the case.

 

[Kuddles]

You're all missing the point. There are some sexual practices which are just plain wrong (like necrophilia, rape, and pedophilia for example). When you say things like "To each his own....whatever they may be...no right...no wrong" you are saying that all sexual fetishes are ok, which isn't the case.

I assumed (and I should have know better (rolls eyes) that people would realize I meant between two consenting adults!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Numbskull!

 

[MinkSoul]

You're all missing the point. There are some sexual practices which are just plain wrong (like necrophilia, rape, and pedophilia for example). When you say things like "To each his own....whatever they may be...no right...no wrong" you are saying that all sexual fetishes are ok, which isn't the case.

hmmm.... looks like we got us one o them 'Experts' here...



by the way 'Expert', Rape ain't about sex.... Rape is about power



[Edited by MinkSoul on 04-04-2001 at 07:22 PM]

 

[Nicole]

You're all missing the point. There are some sexual practices which are just plain wrong (like necrophilia, rape, and pedophilia for example). When you say things like "To each his own....whatever they may be...no right...no wrong" you are saying that all sexual fetishes are ok, which isn't the case.

Correct, all sexual fetishes are not correct, but I'm pretty sure that all the statements above were made in reference to "Two adult's both giving consent to the act that they wish to play out".

You see I don't and NEVER will agree with bestiality, as I don't and never will agree with Paedophilia or necrophilia, my reasons you ask??? My reasons are because ... where is the DOUBLE consent in any of that? The animal can not say yes or no, the dead certainly can't, and well Kids, well Kids Should Never even be put in the position of anything sexual.

So sickened I guess your statement is correct. Just try to remember that most of the conversations around here that have to do with sex, are discussed from an adult point of view, where Two adults over the age of 18 are involved, and both give consent for what is about to happen.

 

[Adoratrice]

Hmmm....I know a few people who consider something as Virginal as "The Moon" too disgusting to even consider talking about

 

[KillerMuffin]

Can't take criticism Blue? My criticism had nothing to do with the topic of excrementophilia there, but rather the fact that you've posted a bit on it in one day. First that icky treatise on farting in the bathtub, followed closely by toilet games.

Discussion about crap is very hard to take when one doesn't embrace the -philia, and occassionally one reaches ones tolerance level for shit. Lots of it has been slung and it's normally Sparky who runs with the lowest common human denominator here.

Having a fetish of my own that's considered wildly outrageous and disgusting by the majority of the population, I'm in no position to cast stones. If people enjoy that sort of thing, more power to them. If people want to talk about shit fetishes online, more power to them. Just don't have a tantrum and cry about openmindedness when someone wonders if you're nuts.

Some people find shit sexually exciting, and some people think shit is better left in the toilet. Either way, you're going to get a reaction when you bring it up. If you don't like bad reactions, don't bring up bad stuff. And if you make almost snide comments about criticism and openmindedness you can expect to be answered back. You can say anything you want to here, the corollary is that so can I. It's not just blithe openmindedness from the world and Blue can say whatever he takes in his head to say.

By the way, I don't think it's closed minded of me to find excremental sex disgusting. I think it's human of me. What would be closed minded of me is if you fessed that you like playing toilet games and I called you a disgusting sicko perv rat who needs to be shot. That's closed minded. Shit is not for me because I think it's gross. You wanna do it in the privacy of your own home, knock yourself out. That doesn't mean I'm going to validate you or not get disgusted when you bring it up. I'm human and my tolerance for shit is pretty much next to nil. I take all I can handle from the raping titular eater of flesh. From now on, however, I believe I will simply avoid your threads to make life simpler. I can't handle your shit and you can't handle mine.

I answer for everything I've ever written on this board, had to back pedal and say sorry a time or two. In this instance, not gonna happen.

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Me thinks that KM doesn't take any....

shit from anyone.

blue