Anal Use of a sub

[tr65]

When I go about using my sub anally, I usually get just enough lube on my cock and in her ass to absorb the burning friction we both feel. After that, its usually no holds barred anal sex. Occasionally I'll verbally humiliate her or let her know that her ass might not be the cleanest it could be. Don't get me wrong, we both try to be as clean as possible, but w/o an enema you never really know how clean things are.

What I want to know here is do other Doms give their subs enemas before using them anally or do you ever wear a condom? If you're a sub, is it humiliating to be given an enema before anal sex? Or, if you're not playing and just having anal sex, is it just lube and away you go?

Just curious...

 

[myinnerslut]

when having regular sex we always use a condom, but when it comes to anal it is up to my Sir whether to use a condom or not. as for lube, he usually uses enough, but on one memorable occasion he toook me dry as a punishment.

 

[Kierae]

I am expected to be prepared so I do an enema before a session. I also am not allowed to eat for a few hours before (usually have a good breakfast, and a light meal mid day). This works since D has set session times. Any other "impromptu" times, it is just dealt with (never use of condoms though).

~kierae

 

[Harper2808]

Enema !

To be given an enema beforehand is all part of the fun and makes it a whole nicer experience for me !!

 

[zigzagzarf]

i have worn a condom before but i like nutting in my girl...as for enemas it's usually pretty clean anything gets on my dick it can be washed off...besides most anal lubes are a good barrier to keep shit from sticking

 

[Quint]

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[Ebonyfire]

When I go about using my sub anally, I usually get just enough lube on my cock and in her ass to absorb the burning friction we both feel. After that, its usually no holds barred anal sex. Occasionally I'll verbally humiliate her or let her know that her ass might not be the cleanest it could be. Don't get me wrong, we both try to be as clean as possible, but w/o an enema you never really know how clean things are.

What I want to know here is do other Doms give their subs enemas before using them anally or do you ever wear a condom? If you're a sub, is it humiliating to be given an enema before anal sex? Or, if you're not playing and just having anal sex, is it just lube and away you go?

Just curious...

I buy condoms by the hundreds, and I use them on all of my insertible toys, they hold the lube better and I find they work better than way.

I also give my slave the enema, cause it is more humiliating that way, and I like to fuck a clean ass.

Eb

 

[nameless0]

I'm naturally submissive, though I have not yet found a women who will dominate me, therefore on my own body I do not know.

However while being dominate I do perform then enema, not because i'm OCD on things like that, merely because I know it is embarrassing for the submissive..and if I were being them I would love to be humiliated.

 

[Aeroil]

easier to feel what's probing you if you've had an enema too. less "padding"

 

[Mystical_Dragon]

I'm currently single but speaking from past experiences enemas were used sometimes though not frequently as too many in a given time (say a week) can be unhealthy and upset the delicate balance, as well as make one depend on such for moving the bowels. Thus more often then not it was lube and go (god I feel like a commercial for Jiffy car lube now). Luckily I always had a partner like myself who believed everything was washable. *smiles*

Mystical aka brat

 

[Etoile]

Enemas used to be important to us, Daddy almost always gave me one before any anal play. But it was always given in a humiliating way, and the last time I had one, it wasn't meant to be humiliating so I was very confused. I ended up crying a lot because I thought I was being punished, and I'd just walked in the door so I didn't know what I could have done. It turned out it wasn't punishment, it was just preparation, but it was so upsetting that I don't think I've had one since.

I vastly prefer lube to be used, but it doesn't always work out that way. I think any dry anal fucking is more out of sadism on Daddy's part than because I'm being punished.

 

[tr65]

Dry fucking my sub in the ass is something I have only done once as an extreme punishment and I'm prett sure it was as painful to me as it was to her. The only thing I used to ease the burning friction was some spittle but that evaporated in a hurry. I hated doing it, but it was a pretty hot scene especially doing that after whipping her harshly for her extreme "mistake".

 

[falconwithin]

Just the idea of an emema is really uncomfortable to me. When he takes my ass there usally isn't much or any lube. I love it that way and so does he.

 

[shy slave]

Enemas interestme.

I have asked lots of qusetions on here about them but I have still yet to actually try one.

There are many reasons for that including the practicalities of it all.

Of course Mystical is right, everything is washable. But I do get embarrased by all of that.

He has mentioned on another thread that he prefers natural lube to any manufactured lube.

I just get frustrated at myself for not being able to cope as easily as I want to be able to.

I know it takes time and practice but I lack patience with myself

 

[Ebonyfire]

Enemas interestme.

I have asked lots of qusetions on here about them but I have still yet to actually try one.

There are many reasons for that including the practicalities of it all.

Of course Mystical is right, everything is washable. But I do get embarrased by all of that.

He has mentioned on another thread that he prefers natural lube to any manufactured lube.

I just get frustrated at myself for not being able to cope as easily as I want to be able to.

I know it times time and practice but I lack patience with myself

my slave hadn't had one since he was a boy back in the day. I explained to him that I like a clean ass, and his options were few. Since it was not a hard limit, he had to bend over and say ahhhh.

he found it not too bad. I am rather good at giving them. And I can find ways to make it challenging over time. I only use warm water, never anything else cause I am just making things easier for me.

As long as it is not overdone, it is not a big deal.

Eb

 

[DomRick]

When I gave my most recent sub her first enema, she knew it was for both the experience and cleanliness. Yes, she was humiliated, of her own doing, especially when she didn't fully void and left evidence after some rigerous play. Now, it's a matter of time, place and convenience. No condoms, thank you.

 

[Ebonyfire]

No condoms, thank you.

That's too bad. It really helps cross contamination. There are bad nasty germs in the anal tract and soap doesn't always get rid of it.

 

[mdavid_1964]

To Enema Or Not To Enema

In My experiences it always depends on the situation. If my sub has been told ahead of time that I require anal pleasure from her then she will prepare herself accordingly and no condom will be used.

Sometimes Me giving her one is part of the enjoyment of the preparation.

If it's a spontaneous need on My part then the enema is skipped, and a condom is used. She knows how much I enjoy taking her ass and giving her My offering so normally she will be prepared ahead of time just in case I want it.

In all cases ample lubrication is used because it brings Me more pleasure than doing it dry.

If you have ever experienced the discomfort caused by an infection from the anal tract not being cleaned properly then you will clearly understand the logical choices that need to be made.

David

 

[kajiraahava]

I've been taken with enema or without and with lube or without.

Sometimes I prep myself because I'm a total clean freak. When I have been given enemas it doesn't embarrass me. Can't say why. Could be my preference for the end, more clean result.

I've never had an accident, always been able to hold it until I was in the "proper place" to release. I only use warm water because of the potential "longer release" issues with an otc enema. It's something I learned the hard way.

I love anal with or without lube. There is something to be said for being taken without lube. It's very satisfying to my masochistic side. Especially after a semi-rough session.

With lube is something else. It's usually a signal that the sex is going to last quite a while. Also something similar to twister ensues. I am moved from position to position without him pulling out.

 

[cfuhrer]

*cracks knuckles* Lets see here

I did do enemas before a couple of anal sessions and in my experience the enema actually made me feel icky and less like doing anal... truth be told it made me feel like I had already been through a killer anal sesh and didnt want to do the actual anal.

As for what I used, I only use warm water in the enema bag. I have heard about nasty reactions to the chemical type.

As for condoms... my guy cant stay hard with a condom on. We are both clean and monogomous and Im on the pill so the innitial need for a comdom is not present. Once when he mentioned that anal was not as clean as it could have been I retorted with a mention about comdoms and he hasnt mentioned it since. We just keep a towel handy and take things as they come.

 

[Etoile]

Santorum!

 

[NemoAlia]

Santorum!

It's moments like this when I can almost admit publicly that I'm originally from the state that gave us that term.

 

[LORDG]

spit

just spit on your cock and fuck her bareback.
my slave likes to suck me clean afterwards.
dirty little slut.
lordg

 

[LordRolsheen]

Having been on both the giving and recieving end of anal sex I think it is better to have an enema first.
My current slave likes to be taken anally while tied down then forced to suck my cock and she also prefers the enema ( the humiliation gets her wet ).

 

[Etoile]

just spit on your cock and fuck her bareback.

A very close friend of mine got herpes that way. Not recommended.