Anal training - why, exactly?

[Pachet]

I love anal, and one of the things I love about it is how stretched I feel, how it's such a tight fit and I need to take it slow at first, ect. Most guys it seems generally feel that the tighter a hole is, the better... so my question is, why do some like to do regular anal "training" so that one's ass is used to taking large objects and does so easily? To me, that takes half the fun out of it. I don't ever want to be trained in that way - I cherish the stretch and the burn.

Am I the only one? Or is there something here I'm missing, another reason why it's done?

 

[CrimsonDom]

My opinion is anal training can be equally enjoyable by both partners the Dom it is reinforcing the fact that his command is to be followed and from the sub side if it's pleasing to her Master then it is usually pleasing to her. Just so you know where my point of view is coming from my sub is mypet.

 

[Pachet]

I can understand that angle But sexually, wouldn't you rather she was nice and tight, rather than 'broken in'? Just curious.

 

[DVS]

I love anal, and one of the things I love about it is how stretched I feel, how it's such a tight fit and I need to take it slow at first, ect. Most guys it seems generally feel that the tighter a hole is, the better... so my question is, why do some like to do regular anal "training" so that one's ass is used to taking large objects and does so easily? To me, that takes half the fun out of it. I don't ever want to be trained in that way - I cherish the stretch and the burn.

Am I the only one? Or is there something here I'm missing, another reason why it's done?

For me, I agree with you, for the most part. I like my cock to be the largest thing a submissive's ass will feel, so any stretching is undesirable. But, there are times when someone will prefer a training thing where the submissive takes increasingly larger plugs. I think it's mostly to see just how submissive someone is, forcing larger and larger plugs up their ass. The ass is capable of stretching a lot, as long as you don't force it.

I've also seen videos where it seems almost preferred to have a gaping asshole, which I just don't understand at all. But, while I don't understand it, I don't condemn someone for enjoying that. We're all different, so why should my preferences be the only ones? I don't see how it can be called "training" except if you do it in the same way as vaginal Kegel training, to maybe tighten the anal sphincter muscle, to make it tighter during anal sex.

For me, a tight ass is a major part of the fun of anal sex. I like the idea of needing more lube and having to force myself inside. I think it's very sexy when a woman has a tight ass. It's even more sexy, when she can make it even tighter.

So, while I agree with you, I know everybody is different. Who am I to judge what others enjoy?

 

[CrimsonDom]

I agree with enjoying it being tight. That's why when I do anal training with my pet It's not for extended periods of time. I do training for a few days maybe a week at most then I back off for a while. During the training period the only thing used on her ass is dildos and plugs. The sex is all oral or vaginal. That way it instills in her head that this is a training time. Also during the Training time there is another lesson for her to learn or to expand on. For example my pet can get off just just with anal penetration so i use it to teach her self control or to reenforce her level of self control.

 

[Pachet]

For me, I agree with you, for the most part. I like my cock to be the largest thing a submissive's ass will feel, so any stretching is undesirable. But, there are times when someone will prefer a training thing where the submissive takes increasingly larger plugs. I think it's mostly to see just how submissive someone is, forcing larger and larger plugs up their ass. The ass is capable of stretching a lot, as long as you don't force it.

I've also seen videos where it seems almost preferred to have a gaping asshole, which I just don't understand at all. But, while I don't understand it, I don't condemn someone for enjoying that. We're all different, so why should my preferences be the only ones? I don't see how it can be called "training" except if you do it in the same way as vaginal Kegel training, to maybe tighten the anal sphincter muscle, to make it tighter during anal sex.

For me, a tight ass is a major part of the fun of anal sex. I like the idea of needing more lube and having to force myself inside. I think it's very sexy when a woman has a tight ass. It's even more sexy, when she can make it even tighter.

So, while I agree with you, I know everybody is different. Who am I to judge what others enjoy?

Oh trust me, I'm not judging People should do what they like, as long as everyone's adult and consenting. I just didn't understand the point of training, as it seemed to me it would lessen pleasure for both parties, so I wanted some opinions from folks who do it.

 

[Pachet]

I agree with enjoying it being tight. That's why when I do anal training with my pet It's not for extended periods of time. I do training for a few days maybe a week at most then I back off for a while. During the training period the only thing used on her ass is dildos and plugs. The sex is all oral or vaginal. That way it instills in her head that this is a training time. Also during the Training time there is another lesson for her to learn or to expand on. For example my pet can get off just just with anal penetration so i use it to teach her self control or to reenforce her level of self control.

That explains it a lot more, thanks for that Doing it for a short time makes a lot more sense to me.

 

[theGM26]

Perhaps its that feeling that there is something that is not supposed to be there there. Its like thrill of doing something naughty, and you know its wrong to do it, but you do it anyhow.

 

[DVS]

Perhaps its that feeling that there is something that is not supposed to be there there. Its like thrill of doing something naughty, and you know its wrong to do it, but you do it anyhow.

Also, doing that naughty act as a task commanded by your dom can make it pretty powerful, too. I understand that, but I still think it's a waste of a nice tight ass.

 

[CrimsonDom]

The ass will retighten as long as the training does not continue

 

[the captians wench]

I haven't done anal training with plugs, but after 6 years of being fucked in the ass by Mr., it doesn't take much for him to be able to slide right into me.

At first I worried about this, I knew that stretch, that ache if I weren't lubed just right, and now a bit of working my own juice into my ass and he was slipping right in. Would he think I were too loose? Would I not feel as much?

Nope. I enjoy it as much as I ever did, and he enjoys the fact that my body so easily melds to his wants. He also enjoys how much I open up even after he's fucked my ass.

People get off on different things, and some times our own likes change. In fact they often adapt and adjust over the years.

 

[gretchenmilliner]

In a word Pachet: pain.

Some find anal penetration painful unless practiced regularly.

In the BDSM world pain can be used for pleasure, punishment, or best of all both, but unexpected and unplanned pain is, well just a pain in the arse.

Practice makes perfect and all that.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Anal training is often used to get the ass used to opening up. The ass is not made for things to go in, it's made for something to come out. It takes a bit of practice for many (maybe most?) novices to learn how to relax the sphincter muscles to allow penetration.

The anal training I have done is not to be able to take bigger and bigger objects but to be able to take the big thing that matters--His dick.

 

[Netzach]

Not having a sensate dick I need to worry about, because it's there.

Can I enlarge this hole?

I'm not a size queen like that, but I tell you, I do prefer a resilient hot little asswhore to someone who whines the minute I get my fingers in.

 

[Ahlam]

I very much appreciate ass training because I need it. Nothing is going to go in there if I'm not used to it. As it is with so many things, it depends on the goal. Sometimes it isn't to be fun. Sometimes it's to be a challenge without being too much of a pain in the butt.

 

[thecurioussubmissive]

I agree that being tight is half the fun. I want my partner to need to take it slow, have the connection of talking me through it and him enjoying punishing me if he chooses. Unfortunately my current bf doesn't do anal but I used to enjoy it greatly.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Whether I am walking round with a plug in all day or ben wah balls in all day, it is because he wants me to feel something inside of me, a constant reminder of where he would be and for him, knowing that I will do that for him, that all day I will be thinking of him in me.

 

[Pachet]

Whether I am walking round with a plug in all day or ben wah balls in all day, it is because he wants me to feel something inside of me, a constant reminder of where he would be and for him, knowing that I will do that for him, that all day I will be thinking of him in me.

I like this answer

 

[SoIllSusan]

Anal training is often used to get the ass used to opening up. The ass is not made for things to go in, it's made for something to come out. It takes a bit of practice for many (maybe most?) novices to learn how to relax the sphincter muscles to allow penetration.

The anal training I have done is not to be able to take bigger and bigger objects but to be able to take the big thing that matters--His dick.

I'll second this. My anal training is so I can take Master easily and whenever he wants. And like Sweetdaisymae, the training reminds me of Him. It's definitely not about how big something is, but being able to take Master and what he wants.

 

[naughtabell]

Maybe it is just me but - I am submissive but I am definitely not a masochist. I know they generally go hand in hand (or maybe that's just me assuming to much.)

I couldn't handle the first time my Mate and I attempted anal. It just hurt to badly. With some training things got better. I was able to enjoy anal and he did too.

I don't think I would have been able to handle it without some training and some adjusting.

 

[LoveHerNow]

Maybe it is just me but - I am submissive but I am definitely not a masochist. I know they generally go hand in hand (or maybe that's just me assuming to much.)

I couldn't handle the first time my Mate and I attempted anal. It just hurt to badly. With some training things got better. I was able to enjoy anal and he did too.

I don't think I would have been able to handle it without some training and some adjusting.

Exactly! This has been my experience with my s/o! The first time was a disaster! lol But we both wanted it, and so over time we've been able to make it work.